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Are full stops passive aggressive?

288 replies

Samas · 07/09/2025 22:16

Are full stops really passive-aggressive now? According to my colleague they are, especially in text messages. Apparently, ending a sentence correctly is no longer “neutral” but somehow comes across as cold or hostile.

yabu= full stops are indeed PA
yanbu= of course they’re not

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LovelyBitOfSquirrrel · 07/09/2025 22:18

Yes.

WaitWhatWhatWait · 07/09/2025 22:18

FFS 🙄 the world has gone mad if punctuation is now PA.
😡🤬

To quote Ferris Bueller's Day off... I weep for the future.
😭

CrosswordBlues · 07/09/2025 22:19

Proper punctuation is never an issue.

arethereanyleftatall · 07/09/2025 22:19

I have no idea what you’re talking about! What kind of sentence? Do you mean where they shouldn’t be like ‘don’t. Do. That.’?

murasaki · 07/09/2025 22:20

LovelyBitOfSquirrrel · 07/09/2025 22:18

Yes.

🤣🤣.

Rightandwrong · 07/09/2025 22:21

I'm sorry OP but that is hilarious! I take it your colleague is winding you up?
Or are the illiterate among us trying to pull a fast one over people with a normal grasp on how to write a proper sentence?

Poetnojo · 07/09/2025 22:21

No.

UnhappyHobbit · 07/09/2025 22:22

I think they are in the instance where you would perhaps use an exclamation mark if you were being genuine.

Samas · 07/09/2025 22:22

I mean when they are used correctly at the end of the sentence. I know it sounds bat shit but that is what she told me.

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SoloSofa24 · 07/09/2025 22:22

Apparently so, if you are under 30 and it's in a text/whatsapp/snapchat/whatever message.

I still use punctuation in most of my text messages, even to my 20-something DCs, but I am ancient.

Threepeaks2025 · 07/09/2025 22:23

Deadly psychological weapons like full stops should only be used with extreme caution!!!!!!!!.

Arlanymor · 07/09/2025 22:23

People can be passive aggressive; full stops can not. Period.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 07/09/2025 22:24

I mean, if someone wants to take offence at the traditional use of punctuation, then I suppose we can just let them- they would be small loss.

Rockfordpeach · 07/09/2025 22:25

If i finish a text message to my DP with a full stop, he phones me to see why im cross with him

ThatPeachFox · 07/09/2025 22:25

Samas · 07/09/2025 22:16

Are full stops really passive-aggressive now? According to my colleague they are, especially in text messages. Apparently, ending a sentence correctly is no longer “neutral” but somehow comes across as cold or hostile.

yabu= full stops are indeed PA
yanbu= of course they’re not

My old manager wouldn't let me use exclamation marks, because he though it looked like sarcasm.
People are petty

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Timeforabitofpeace · 07/09/2025 22:26

😂

GladioliGreen · 07/09/2025 22:26

According to my teenagers they are. They asked me not to put full stops in my texts to them because it makes it seem like I'm mad at them.

arethereanyleftatall · 07/09/2025 22:27

Lol, I had no idea about this till I read this thread. Mind, I’m 50 now 💪

Zov · 07/09/2025 22:27
Excuse Me What GIF

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Rightandwrong · 07/09/2025 22:27

Rockfordpeach · 07/09/2025 22:25

If i finish a text message to my DP with a full stop, he phones me to see why im cross with him

Then he obviously has serious mental health issues.

Zov · 07/09/2025 22:28

GladioliGreen · 07/09/2025 22:26

According to my teenagers they are. They asked me not to put full stops in my texts to them because it makes it seem like I'm mad at them.

I hope you texted back and told them they are batshit.

And that you didn't forget the full stop.

GleisZwei · 07/09/2025 22:29

Full stops in the correct place are not passive aggressive.
Full.stops.in.the.wrong.place.are.passive.aggressive (though are those technically full stops?).
Short sentences can be seen as rude in some scenarios.

Rightandwrong · 07/09/2025 22:29

GladioliGreen · 07/09/2025 22:26

According to my teenagers they are. They asked me not to put full stops in my texts to them because it makes it seem like I'm mad at them.

I hope you refuse to reduce yourself to the level of an illiterate.

GleisZwei · 07/09/2025 22:29

Rockfordpeach · 07/09/2025 22:25

If i finish a text message to my DP with a full stop, he phones me to see why im cross with him

Why?