18 months ago a group of us booked to go on a holiday of a lifetime a 2 week guided tour. Bit by bit all bar 2 of us have dropped out, due to unavoidable circumstances. I was close to the other person still going but 3 months ago she suddenly ghosted me with absolutely no explanation. It took a little while to realize as we were both busy but it became apparent when she deleted me on all social media.
Now it’s less than a month until the holiday and I feel physically sick at the thought of spending a fortnight in her company although I’d still love to do the trip. The way she’s behaved towards me has had a huge impact on my mental health and wellbeing and I have no desire to rekindle our friendship.
As it’s an organized tour there will be approximately 12 of us on the trip.
so am I being unreasonable to be seriously considering not going and losing a substantial amount of money.