Dada always doing nursery run, is he single?

[ByDandyTurtle]

Aibu in thinking he must be single as I never see a woman drop of the child

I want to approach him but unsure

The conjoined language: 'Our children are 3 and 3.5'; and nearby coffee-shops 'would be out of the way for both of us'. This man is such a complete stranger that you don't even know his partnership status. There should be no ours, no speaking for him in any respect.

Oh Christ, don't let the Lady Galahad of the thread see you saying that.

I want to date yes.

Am I meeting anyone. No.

Mine field dating as a parent

'She could be dead. The baby mama could be dead?!!!' OMG! WTAF! LMFAO!

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Omg lol. What was I responding to... Someone saying that's it's too early to get in a relationship as hes got a young child.

My response - our children, as in the ones who attend children, are very similar ages. So if can date, so can he. Our children aren't newborns.

So talk to him?

He might reveal himself instantly to be married/a turd/gay and then you can move onto the next likely candidate.

Sorry, double bastard post! 😠I clicked 'post' and nowt happened. So I clicked it again, and posted twice. Bloody thing!

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A turd?! 😂

Haven’t RtTFT but have read your posts OP. Seems like you’ve never actually spoken to this guy? Like basic chit-chat at drop-off and pick-up or the sports day or whatever? If you did that surely his marital situation would come up naturally.

I might be missing something but it seems weird to be iplanning to make a move on him if you’ve never even chatted.

Also coffee shops would be out the way for both of us because he takes the motorway to work and I go he opposite way. So it's not like we pass one

Yes, there are plenty of Wives of Turds posting on here, unfortunately.

How do you know his child's exact age @ByDandyTurtle ??? 👀

Not to that extend no. I fancy him but we don't spend a lot of time chatting, it's at the gate for drop of which is always frantic and also his kid is older so in a different sports day.

I wouldn’t invite him for a coffee right away, I’d just make a passing comment at pick up (I’d assume that everyone’s in a rush at drop-off) and perhaps try to chat a few more times.

You’ll soon find out his relationship status as most people share this when they’re getting to know someone. I always share mine so everyone knows where they stand. He probably does have a partner.

I wouldn’t invite him for a coffee right away, I’d just make a passing comment at pick up (I’d assume that everyone’s in a rush at drop-off) and perhaps try to chat a few more times.

You’ll soon find out his relationship status as most people share this when they’re getting to know someone. I always share mine so everyone knows where they stand. He probably does have a partner.

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No harm in trying to get to know him OP, but as others have said, you can’t assume he’s single.

Yes.

Seems a bit silly to have come here before you've struck up any conversation with him? Family structure tends to come up pretty early in nursery related conversations in my experience.

Anyway, my partner is disabled so doesn't do any pick ups or drop offs and hasn't come to stay and plays or other events the nursery has put on because he only has so much energy and it is needed elsewhere.

My days. It's not even Friday!

So you fancy him and want to gauge whether he'd be interested in you? Just say hi one day and take it from there.

Only thing is if you start seeing him and it doesn't work out you'll still need to see him every day.