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Racist Threads

287 replies

PhilippaGeorgiou · 27/08/2025 13:11

Wasn't sure where to post this, but I thought AIBU would be ok. I am not running this as a poll, because I don't care about anyones opinions on the matter. And if anyone wants to respond with more racism, don't bother because I won't be engaging for even a second.

Right at the moment this site is not being overrun by racists because MNHQ has determined that there are no racists on the site and it's abuse to tell anyone they are a racist (even when they are). However, there are multiple threads expressing racism every single day, all rehearsing the same old misinformation and bogus narratives. Not one of those posters want to engage - they become abusive and offensive if anyone produces remotely evidenced facts. Their "facts" are the only truthful facts. Everyone else is a "woman hating woke leftist". Which is apparently not abus, according to MNHQ. MNHQ have made is abundantly clear that they will not moderate misinformation, and are blithely happy to allow most abuse to stand.

Here's the thing - there's pretty much nobody on those threads that is genuinely interested in having a discussion or debating information. There is nobody jumping on those threads saying that they don't really understand the different views and positions and would like to know more. Unsurprising, anyone who actually wants to explore the issue, the absolute last place to look to do that would be yet another toxic thread here. Probably the only good thing is that it really is highly unlikely anyone with a real curiousity about the subject would look to form opinions based on the toxic formula of MN.

The only thing that these threads are good for is clicks and ££££'s in the bank for Justine and the site.

So anti-racists - I suggest that we all stop answering these threads altogether. I know it is hard to see the racism stand (although apparently not for the owners of the site or the moderators) unchallenged, but every single challange does nothing but feed the flames and earn money for MN. You all know that the people who are not racists will spend 20% of their posts posting misinformation and 80% posting goady barbs and personal insults, just to keep the threads going. It will be incredibly boring for them if they only have each other to talk to. The threads will die without oxygen. And MN makes no money out of clicks that haven't happened. It's a win all around.

And if you want to do something proactive, instead of engaging with people who aren't going to listen, why not raise your concerns about the racism with the advertisers? They are being associated with it by their presence, and are clearly far more likely to influence the owners of the site than the people posting on it.

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SpidersAreShitheads · 27/08/2025 17:40

TeenagersAngst · 27/08/2025 17:18

I have a view on this. All these people have already passed through several safe countries before making a trip which actually puts them in danger - the Channel crossing.

If they are fleeing from danger and seeking safety, why do they do this? We know why - their economic prospects are probably better in the UK maybe because of language, connections already established in the UK. So surely that turns them from asylum seekers into economic migrants.

None of these people need to flee France unless we're saying France isn't safe?

Now, I know the law isn't written in this way and that they are perfectly entitled to seek asylum in a safe country of their choosing. But I think people feel that what they're doing is something different to seeking asylum based on what I've said above.

So, just to be clear, are you suggesting that all asylum seekers should stop at the first safe country they reach?

Which means that, as an island, we probably wouldn't have any.

That might suit the agenda of some, but that's hardly fair?

Doesn't it make sense for asylum seekers to request refuge in a country where they have a better chance of carving out a life because they already speak the language? It makes perfect sense to me that those who speak English would prefer to seek asylum in Britain because if granted, they could more easily work and become a valuable part of society. Seeking refuge in a country where you don't speak the language makes it less likely that you can make a contribution and settle effectively - and surely no one wants that?

France has historically always had high numbers of French-speaking asylum seekers from African nations. It's the same thing.

I think the point is that some people seem to think the UK is taking vast swathes of asylum seekers when the reality is that other countries are taking far more. Last year we were the 17th in Europe when calculated using the number of asylum seekers per capita.

It's a very long way from the claim that everyone is making their way to us. There's a general world increase in asylum seekers, but it feels as if the world is particularly volatile, so it's perhaps not a surprise. The fact is we take LESS than the European average, and fewer per capita than many other nations.

I can't see how it's fair that we don't take asylum seekers just because we're not attached to the mainland.

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:41

PhilippaGeorgiou · 27/08/2025 17:39

@RingoJuice And "you" were non-white only 533 years ago. I bet they are regretting welcoming the immigrants. The USA was built on racism.

Edited

Yeah, it’s kind of a cautionary tale about what can happen if you cannot or will not defend your borders.

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:41

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:34

You were like 95% white 30 years ago. Race politics has only just begun for you.

And tbh I actually thought you were curious about the question you asked.

Edited

I hate to point out the obvious but not much more than a few hundred years ago your land was 100% non White.

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:42

Just seen your response . That's an interesting response to the attempt to wipe out the North American Indians.

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:45

Rizzz · 27/08/2025 17:39

Most of the threads I remember where in AIBU and Chat.

I don't think I've ever looked at the Staff Room topic.

They most certainly weren't .

People claimed they 'didn't realise' they were in Staffroom or that the threads were 'In Active' so it was for anyone to comment.

I've seen the same said to people in eg Black Mumsnetters.

borisjohnsonsforgottencondom · 27/08/2025 17:45

I do find it interesting that many posters are quick to call others and the content of their posts racist, but will argue against themselves being labelled transphobic.

I imagine the majority of both “racists” and “transphobes” are coming from a place of genuine concern. I would also guess that the ones doing the labelling can’t see past their own viewpoint and narrow life experiences of not being impacted by misogyny or migration and therefore resort to name calling.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 27/08/2025 17:46

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:34

You were like 95% white 30 years ago. Race politics has only just begun for you.

And tbh I actually thought you were curious about the question you asked.

Edited

Why does it matter what the ratios of various skin-tones are ?

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:47

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:41

I hate to point out the obvious but not much more than a few hundred years ago your land was 100% non White.

This is sadly what happens when you cannot or will not defend your borders. Maybe you should reconsider your stance if you think what happened to them was tragic and sad (I do!)

Or maybe you think, hey! We are all human beings anyway, and there’s no such thing as an ethnic native american since they arrived in different waves of migration and never saw each other as a unified people anyway!!!!

TeenagersAngst · 27/08/2025 17:48

SpidersAreShitheads · 27/08/2025 17:40

So, just to be clear, are you suggesting that all asylum seekers should stop at the first safe country they reach?

Which means that, as an island, we probably wouldn't have any.

That might suit the agenda of some, but that's hardly fair?

Doesn't it make sense for asylum seekers to request refuge in a country where they have a better chance of carving out a life because they already speak the language? It makes perfect sense to me that those who speak English would prefer to seek asylum in Britain because if granted, they could more easily work and become a valuable part of society. Seeking refuge in a country where you don't speak the language makes it less likely that you can make a contribution and settle effectively - and surely no one wants that?

France has historically always had high numbers of French-speaking asylum seekers from African nations. It's the same thing.

I think the point is that some people seem to think the UK is taking vast swathes of asylum seekers when the reality is that other countries are taking far more. Last year we were the 17th in Europe when calculated using the number of asylum seekers per capita.

It's a very long way from the claim that everyone is making their way to us. There's a general world increase in asylum seekers, but it feels as if the world is particularly volatile, so it's perhaps not a surprise. The fact is we take LESS than the European average, and fewer per capita than many other nations.

I can't see how it's fair that we don't take asylum seekers just because we're not attached to the mainland.

Did I suggest that alll asylum seekers should stop at the first safe country? No.

I was responding to a post in which the poster asked why another poster didn’t believe the asylum seekers are genuine.

I then made an observation that people coming to the UK have already travellled through safe European countries and chosen to take a dangerous journey across the Channel. This feels counter intuitive to their status as people fleeing from danger.

And this may be why some people in the UK and on Mumsnet view them as economic migrants rather than asylum seekers.

I don’t know what I think, if I’m honest.

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:50

HangryLikeTheHulk · 27/08/2025 17:46

Why does it matter what the ratios of various skin-tones are ?

People divide themselves among their own ethnic communities.

You may not like that, but it’s human nature and you’d have to be literal fascist to get them to stop.

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 17:50

nomas · 27/08/2025 17:39

I'm up for a bit of goat and scone derailing.

I'm cream first, then jam. On the scone, not the goat.

It's jam first and scone rhymes with stone. I will not be persuaded otherwise.

TeenagersAngst · 27/08/2025 17:51

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:34

You were like 95% white 30 years ago. Race politics has only just begun for you.

And tbh I actually thought you were curious about the question you asked.

Edited

There’s a common misconception that migration has been happening for centuries in Britain.

It hasn’t. The number of migrants in the last 30 years is more than all the migrants combined from the 5th century to the Second World War.

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:52

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:47

This is sadly what happens when you cannot or will not defend your borders. Maybe you should reconsider your stance if you think what happened to them was tragic and sad (I do!)

Or maybe you think, hey! We are all human beings anyway, and there’s no such thing as an ethnic native american since they arrived in different waves of migration and never saw each other as a unified people anyway!!!!

I'm as American as you are, sweetie. Just so you know and can stop informing me about my own history.

Timelineuk · 27/08/2025 17:54

TopPocketFind · 27/08/2025 17:38

Actually he is supporting Lowe and Robinson now.

same shit

nomas · 27/08/2025 17:54

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:47

This is sadly what happens when you cannot or will not defend your borders. Maybe you should reconsider your stance if you think what happened to them was tragic and sad (I do!)

Or maybe you think, hey! We are all human beings anyway, and there’s no such thing as an ethnic native american since they arrived in different waves of migration and never saw each other as a unified people anyway!!!!

We are all human beings anyway, and there’s no such thing as an ethnic native american since they arrived in different waves of migration and never saw each other as a unified people anyway!!!!

Native just means they're from there, not that they were there at the same time.

TopPocketFind · 27/08/2025 17:54

I like cheese scones with a bit butter

Rizzz · 27/08/2025 17:55

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:45

They most certainly weren't .

People claimed they 'didn't realise' they were in Staffroom or that the threads were 'In Active' so it was for anyone to comment.

I've seen the same said to people in eg Black Mumsnetters.

Yeah true, but there were absolutely loads in AIBU and Chat.

I mean the majority of posters moaning about teachers or posting about school problems, didn't post in the Staff Room topic because why would they?

HangryLikeTheHulk · 27/08/2025 17:55

TeenagersAngst · 27/08/2025 17:51

There’s a common misconception that migration has been happening for centuries in Britain.

It hasn’t. The number of migrants in the last 30 years is more than all the migrants combined from the 5th century to the Second World War.

Conveniently ignoring the 1950s, 60s, 70s, 80s, and half of the 90s ?

nomas · 27/08/2025 17:57

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 17:50

It's jam first and scone rhymes with stone. I will not be persuaded otherwise.

Jam first is wrong because cream acts like a foundation that masks the cracks of the scone. Like plaster on a wall.

Scone rhymes with gone, because in my house they're all gone.

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:58

Rizzz · 27/08/2025 17:55

Yeah true, but there were absolutely loads in AIBU and Chat.

I mean the majority of posters moaning about teachers or posting about school problems, didn't post in the Staff Room topic because why would they?

There's no point in going over this. Because they did. They thought they had a right to post.

Ancient history but definitely a reason not to start the same tactic because the people being stonewalled sure didn't like it , and it didn't work .

TeenagersAngst · 27/08/2025 17:58

HangryLikeTheHulk · 27/08/2025 17:55

Conveniently ignoring the 1950s, 60s, 70s, 80s, and half of the 90s ?

Not really. If you want to add those decades in, it just makes the numbers of recent migration even higher. I said that people believed migration into Britain had been happening for centuries. My point still holds true.

But migration in between 1945 and 1997 was still relatively low. It’s been on steroids since Blair.

RingoJuice · 27/08/2025 17:58

nomas · 27/08/2025 17:54

We are all human beings anyway, and there’s no such thing as an ethnic native american since they arrived in different waves of migration and never saw each other as a unified people anyway!!!!

Native just means they're from there, not that they were there at the same time.

Obviously that’s why they have that label, but it was applied for the convenience of settlers. Of course they never saw each other as a unified people. And they had every right to do so, since they aren’t necessarily close kin. But it left them very vulnerable.

GreenFlag · 27/08/2025 17:58

MN is full or tree huggers who have no prejudices.

In all my years on MN I’ve never seen racism, transphobia, homophobia, or misandry.

nomas · 27/08/2025 17:58

TopPocketFind · 27/08/2025 17:54

I like cheese scones with a bit butter

Cheese scones are a frankenstein food.

Rizzz · 27/08/2025 17:59

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 17:58

There's no point in going over this. Because they did. They thought they had a right to post.

Ancient history but definitely a reason not to start the same tactic because the people being stonewalled sure didn't like it , and it didn't work .

Edited

We may have to settle for 'Recollections may vary' 😁

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