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To want slightly more than a link to an instagram post whenever I get a message from a friend?

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Barbarella73 · 26/08/2025 09:05

Just that really. I get lots of messages with links to insta posts rather than actual messages. I understand this is ‘pebbling’, I think I’m just pebbled out!!!

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Ivenoname · 26/08/2025 09:10

Never heard of pebbling.

Interacting with people sounds really really hard work these days.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/08/2025 09:13

People communicate in different ways, if you value her as a friend you can just ignore generic updates

One of my dearest friends leaves long voice messages when a text saying 'is 6pm ok?' would do. Drives me bonkers

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