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To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

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Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:19

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock.

It's a very small town in the Midlands near a city. Yes it's ex-mining but does reasonable ok now, not deprived eg no contextual offers for my dc for uni, but not massively desirable or trendy. Has a Labour MP now but hasn't always in recent years. Voted for Brexit but only just. In 2019 more people voted against Tories AND Brexit than for them - split the vote so we still got a Tory, but still.

In other words, I did not expect this. It's horrible - looks ugly and badly done even before you get started on the thinking behind it. AIBU to ring the council on Tuesday and ask when they are going to deal with this vandalism?

I did a four hour round-trip on the motorway today too and the amount of flags on bridges was shocking - just make it stop.

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Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 11:12

justasking111 · 25/08/2025 11:11

Nor us in Wales.

Nor here in England.

Just the crazy lefties virtual signalling the usual contempt.

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 11:13

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:10

No one is telling you you can't. What people are challenging you on is - why now? Why not before? A simple question asked and you say it means you cannot do something. Oh absolutely you can. But be prepared to answer questions of curiosity about why now?

Remember there is freedom of speech to ask that question or is that only for one side?

A question you have yet to answer.

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I just literally got told I couldn’t fly it ?!? I also just said I’ve never flown it previously or planned to, but tempted now I’m being told not to.
That is the answer to both questions.

RubySquid · 25/08/2025 11:14

healthyteeth · 24/08/2025 23:07

Wow. So many people missing the entire point of the recent display of flags. No one is offended by the image of the flag or event the general display of flags.

It’s not the flags per se. It’s the INTENT behind them. It’s the fact that this has all come about because right wing groups called for it!! It’s a calculated, coordinated effort to suddenly display thousands of flags. It’s not just a casual single flag on the Eiffel Tower or on a town hall FFS.

It makes people ‘feel sick’ because of the message it sends. Get it?!

But that's assuming everyone who is displaying a flag has the same intent?

That's a huge assumption.

kalevalaa · 25/08/2025 11:20

healthyteeth · 24/08/2025 23:34

Yes but this is not a display of patriotism! It’s a coordinated campaign called Raise the Colours. Meant to send a message.

Google who is behind it.

My husband made me a cup of English Breakfast tea this morning and I was shaking and crying.

He forgot to add sugar. I called the police immediately.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:20

RubySquid · 25/08/2025 11:14

But that's assuming everyone who is displaying a flag has the same intent?

That's a huge assumption.

That's just it, though, isn't it?! Racist thugs seem to have co opted the flag as theirs. Of course not everyone will have the same intent. Why is everyone wanting to do it right now though, why have they not been proudly flying it before if all it was was that they were just proud of being British/English?

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:21

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 11:13

I just literally got told I couldn’t fly it ?!? I also just said I’ve never flown it previously or planned to, but tempted now I’m being told not to.
That is the answer to both questions.

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Who literally said you are not to fly it?

So care to answer the question, who told you that before today to make you not fly it and why did you not defy them before?

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:21

kalevalaa · 25/08/2025 11:20

My husband made me a cup of English Breakfast tea this morning and I was shaking and crying.

He forgot to add sugar. I called the police immediately.

Way to completely ignore the actual post that you quoted and shoehorn in a piss take instead.

ClassicalQueen · 25/08/2025 11:22

I’ve not seen any roundabouts painting with St George’s flag yet but I have seen plenty of flags displayed across the motorway bridges and bunting displayed in the local town centre. I think we should fly our flag with pride. Other countries do it with no shame.

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:24

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:20

That's just it, though, isn't it?! Racist thugs seem to have co opted the flag as theirs. Of course not everyone will have the same intent. Why is everyone wanting to do it right now though, why have they not been proudly flying it before if all it was was that they were just proud of being British/English?

It is odd isn't it.

People suddenly become patriotic at the same time...
Racism increases on social media and at the same time....
Racism increases in society and at the same time...
People are told to burn buildings with immigrants in it and at the same time...
People are saying all brown men are rapists and paedos and at the same time...
A group created on facebook openly racist told them to and at the same time....

A random group that has not seen any of the above just decided it was a nice thing to do.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:25

People are getting told not to fly flags. People are getting accused of racism for flying flags. Someone went on the news and moaned that the Union flag and England flag are symbols of oppression. Pathetic moaning wet wipe hypocrites who in the same vein would wave Palestine flags around.

THAT is why a lot people are doing it. Adults do not like being told what they should and shouldn’t do and nobody has the right to try and stop anyone waving a flag.

I found the argument from the man who went on I think GMB saying those flags are symbols of oppression waved when conquering other countries and they’re triggering, idiotic. If he knew his history he’d know how many times British forces have allied with commonwealth countries when they’ve been in danger or have been conquered by other countries. Unlike HIS argument, this is in living memory. It’s a symbol of allyship.

People are DESPERATE to come across as so progressive and inclusive and for some reason they think that means shitting on the legacy of other groups they see as “privileged”. A half wit mentality and we shouldn’t pander to it, ever

The roundabout thing is cringe though, and also vandalism.

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 11:26

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Corfumanchu · 25/08/2025 11:27

WatermelonGatorJerky · 25/08/2025 10:22

If councils embraced this movement, put up their own flags, used the flag to promote pride in a person’s community, then the handfuls of racists using the flag wouldn’t matter.

I’d love two flags, on a deck either side of my front door (very American). I think it looked lovely and I think I’d have an American flag and a Union Jack. The American flag because the USA is my first love and the UJ because I need to take more pride in being a Brit, which I hate right now.

I have no doubt that some racists and ignorant people are using the flag to represent ugly views or intimidate, but that doesn’t mean we give them our flag. A. Nations flag is too important, so we drown them out. We ensure it truly means pride in one’s nation.

Shouting that the flag makes you sick and that flags are decisive will only stoke the problem, because it angers people who see the flag as part of our national identity and feel that identity is being diluted or taken away. Even KS speech where he said we will become an island of strangers…no flag…no identity…no pride means what exactly?
Which makes me feel that people are showing pride in being British now because they are frightened. They fear losing their nation and culture.

And the UK does have culture and sometimes I am reminded of how unique and beautiful that is. Weirdly when I visit Epcot, and the UK pavilion is one of 11 pavilions, I see the UK in a different light. The pavilion features a pub, a castle, gardens, bandstands, a fish and chip shop, red phone boxes, shops selling tea and family coats of armour. It reminds me that the UK does have as much culture and uniqueness as Morocco or France or China and yes, we do need to protect that because today people often claim that the UK is culture-less. That it’s immigrants that add culture. But that’s not true.
Immigration is fine. Needed in many many cases. Probably a bit high right now (policy opinion). But what needs to happen is immigrants coming over need to integrate more (governments fault) and the government should be ensuring they are introduced to British culture and respect/embrace our culture to prevent divides.

So I say we should feel nothing but pride for our flag. We should not feel apologetic for our nation, culture or even history. We shouldn’t hand it over to people who use it nefariously.

But don’t graffiti the flag into buildings or roundabouts and spoil surroundings for other people. I can’t get on board with that. It is vandalism.

This.
Taking ownership back of the union jack (and i am deliberately using the incorrect name it has been called colloquially fpr generations) and St Georges flag is tbe best way to beat the racists! Fly them everywhere.
Although the lroblem if illegal immigration needs quicklu and decisively addressing, immigration is not the reason there are holes on the road and you can't get a doctor's appointment. The vadt majority of immigtants pay thousands for visas, need to show they can support tnemsrlves and on top of thst pay the NHS surcharge.
The problem is decades of deliberate underfunding, asset stripping of the country and self serving political leaders

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:27

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:25

People are getting told not to fly flags. People are getting accused of racism for flying flags. Someone went on the news and moaned that the Union flag and England flag are symbols of oppression. Pathetic moaning wet wipe hypocrites who in the same vein would wave Palestine flags around.

THAT is why a lot people are doing it. Adults do not like being told what they should and shouldn’t do and nobody has the right to try and stop anyone waving a flag.

I found the argument from the man who went on I think GMB saying those flags are symbols of oppression waved when conquering other countries and they’re triggering, idiotic. If he knew his history he’d know how many times British forces have allied with commonwealth countries when they’ve been in danger or have been conquered by other countries. Unlike HIS argument, this is in living memory. It’s a symbol of allyship.

People are DESPERATE to come across as so progressive and inclusive and for some reason they think that means shitting on the legacy of other groups they see as “privileged”. A half wit mentality and we shouldn’t pander to it, ever

The roundabout thing is cringe though, and also vandalism.

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Who has told people not to fly flags or is it...

People are purposely putting flags in places that they know will get taken down and then they can show it on social media to whip up the masses saying they were not allowed to fly it?

That is what is happening - doing it on purpose in order that it gets taken down so they can play the victim and whip up a storm.

And the gullible drink it in!

They've covered speed cameras near me then are crying when it gets removed, knowing that putting one there would ensure it got removed and then they can post about the 'injustice' and not being able to fly our flags etc online.

Odd too that they always seem to be there to film it being taken down. One would question as to why they know that will happen and be hanging around waiting for it. I mean, it isn;t as if they did that on purpose so it got took down and they hung around on purpose to film it and cry 'not being allowed to put a flag up' of course. How cynical of me.

Then along comes the rest of the lemmings wanting to put up flags to 'show them'.

thepariscrimefiles · 25/08/2025 11:28

justasking111 · 25/08/2025 11:10

The government local and central started all this mess years ago demonising the flag to appease those who lobbied/shouted.

I remember the hoo hah at the proms a few years ago to ban patriotic music. Ridiculous.

I live in Birmingham where this all started and the Union Jack has always been flown on Birmingham City Council House.

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 11:29

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/08/2025 11:29

Thing is, the mindset of certain individuals means that not only will they go after their intended targets, they will also go after people they deem supporters of their targets and societal division and unrest will keep devolving until we see the authorities clamping down on everyone regardless.

The authorities are most invested in power, money and order to preserve and further their objectives. They won't actually care if gen pop are wiping each other out, regardless of which side they're on. They're not going to give a shit about "patriots" unless there's a political advantage to it. Principles count for not alot in the modern world. Manipulation and money are everything.

lkjhgfdsa · 25/08/2025 11:30

MycatLarry · 25/08/2025 11:08

I'm Scottish and just can't understand the attitude that a country's national flag is 'racist' Confused

The flag isn't racist. The people organising the current flag flying are racist. HTH

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Union Jacks and the crosses of St George have begun to appear on lampposts up and down the UK in recent days. Much of the right-wing media has celebrated, with the Daily Mail dubbing those behind it an “army of patriots.”

While there is nothing wrong with flying the nation’s flags, HOPE not hate can reveal that the key organisers behind much of this activism are hardened and extreme far-right activists.

While many instances of flags being raised, or crosses being painted on roundabouts or walls, are being carried out by ordinary people inspired by posts on social media, the main organising force behind the campaign is “Operation Raise the Colours”.

HOPE not hate can reveal that the co-founder and organiser of the group is longtime Stephen Lennon (AKA Tommy Robinson) ally Andrew Currien (AKA Andy Saxon). Formerly a key member of the English Defence League’s leadership bodyguard team, and now running security for the far-right party Britain First, Currien has previously been jailed for his part in a racist death. He was one of six men convicted in 2009 after a 59-year-old man was crushed to death by a car following a violent brawl.

Currien’s X account links to a fundraising page where he is collecting money to “help us purchase new flags so we can continue putting them up”. He has also posted: “In the last 24hrs, we have supplied 6 districts with a thousand flags. These districts include Wolverhampton, West Bromwich, Worcester, Dudley, Stourbridge and Staffordshire.”

Across the country, many of the small groups that have come together to raise the flags are being organised by well-known far-right extremists. The group in Nottingham, for example, is headed by another of Lennon’s associates, Guramit Singh. Having been a key member of EDL from the early days, Singh now runs the Predator Hunter series for Lennon’s media outlet Urban Scoop media. The only break in his longrunning activism came due to a spell in prison after Singh and two accomplices tied up a shop assistant and threatened to slash his throat in an attempted robbery at a hydroponic shop in Hucknall, Notts.

Similarly, the far-right group Britain First claims to have provided many of the flags in the North West. “Britain First has, so far, donated 75% of its flag stock to local teams in Manchester and the West Midlands for ‘Operation Raise The Colours’,” tweeted leader Paul Golding. “Most of the flags in this photo are now on lampposts and bridges in Manchester and Birmingham!”

HOPE not hate can also reveal that football hooligan chat groups have been encouraging their supporters to get involved and numerous ‘firms’ are known to have raised flags in their local areas.

Again, there is nothing wrong with raising the Union Jack or cross of St George. Despite what people claim on social media, it’s not illegal to be proud to be English or British! It’s also true that not everyone who has raised a flag is far right. But the fact that much of this wave of activism is being organised by well-known racists and extremists does raise questions about the motivations behind much of Operation Raise the Colours.

https://hopenothate.org.uk/2025/08/22/operation-raise-the-colours-organised-by-well-known-far-right-extremists/

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 11:30

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ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:30

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:27

Who has told people not to fly flags or is it...

People are purposely putting flags in places that they know will get taken down and then they can show it on social media to whip up the masses saying they were not allowed to fly it?

That is what is happening - doing it on purpose in order that it gets taken down so they can play the victim and whip up a storm.

And the gullible drink it in!

They've covered speed cameras near me then are crying when it gets removed, knowing that putting one there would ensure it got removed and then they can post about the 'injustice' and not being able to fly our flags etc online.

Odd too that they always seem to be there to film it being taken down. One would question as to why they know that will happen and be hanging around waiting for it. I mean, it isn;t as if they did that on purpose so it got took down and they hung around on purpose to film it and cry 'not being allowed to put a flag up' of course. How cynical of me.

Then along comes the rest of the lemmings wanting to put up flags to 'show them'.

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I’m confused - do you want full names?

The point is nobody should be taking the flags down at all. Its not offensive in any way, it’s a flag.

I live in a town that has permanent Union flag bunting and an England flag flying from our local castle. Is that provocative?

You have no idea why people are putting flags up, you’re making a sloppy assumption.

I also find it quite funny that you’re insisting “nobody is saying you can’t fly flags! Nobody!” while in the same sentence saying “People know the flags will get taken down”. So which is it - are people allowed to do it or not? Who is taking the flags down? The fairies?

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:31

The flag isn't racist. The people organising the current flag flying are racist. HTH

This. I don't know why it's so hard to understand.

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 11:32

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ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:33

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:31

The flag isn't racist. The people organising the current flag flying are racist. HTH

This. I don't know why it's so hard to understand.

Because - how do you know?

Have you spoke to all of them?

Is it always racist, or just people who don’t it over the last week? Are they allowed racist? Or are you assuming?

We always have these flags flying in my hometown. Are we racist? Or is it ok because we did it before last week?

Is waving a Palestinian flag something to be concerned about?

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 11:34

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 25/08/2025 11:30

I’m confused - do you want full names?

The point is nobody should be taking the flags down at all. Its not offensive in any way, it’s a flag.

I live in a town that has permanent Union flag bunting and an England flag flying from our local castle. Is that provocative?

You have no idea why people are putting flags up, you’re making a sloppy assumption.

I also find it quite funny that you’re insisting “nobody is saying you can’t fly flags! Nobody!” while in the same sentence saying “People know the flags will get taken down”. So which is it - are people allowed to do it or not? Who is taking the flags down? The fairies?

I live in a town that has permanent Union flag bunting and an England flag flying from our local castle. Is that provocative?

No, it's not. What are you finding so hard to grasp?

Audiwannabe · 25/08/2025 11:34

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 11:27

Who has told people not to fly flags or is it...

People are purposely putting flags in places that they know will get taken down and then they can show it on social media to whip up the masses saying they were not allowed to fly it?

That is what is happening - doing it on purpose in order that it gets taken down so they can play the victim and whip up a storm.

And the gullible drink it in!

They've covered speed cameras near me then are crying when it gets removed, knowing that putting one there would ensure it got removed and then they can post about the 'injustice' and not being able to fly our flags etc online.

Odd too that they always seem to be there to film it being taken down. One would question as to why they know that will happen and be hanging around waiting for it. I mean, it isn;t as if they did that on purpose so it got took down and they hung around on purpose to film it and cry 'not being allowed to put a flag up' of course. How cynical of me.

Then along comes the rest of the lemmings wanting to put up flags to 'show them'.

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Thing is both sides are playing into this with their actions and speech.
People filming themselves ripping them down, declaring themselves "Devastated" it's all about the same thing, causing division and unrest in people you don't agree with, and taking the most extreme position possible.

Absolutely nothing will be solved because people on both sides are far too interested in getting the stage and being the only voice heard rather than actually solving the issues that are bothering both sides and coming to a compromise.

MycatLarry · 25/08/2025 11:35

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Why? That's not what I meant at all.

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