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To have one small glass of red wine at 38 weeks pregnant?

430 replies

baby2c · 22/08/2025 20:49

I’m not a drinker at all but DH gets a bottle of red once or twice a month and tonight I really fancy just a very small glass, I’m a weirdo (according to DH) who likes ice in red wine on the rare occasion I have it. DH is only having one glass just in case I was to go into labour and he had to drive to hospital. So I was thinking of having a tiny amount with some ice and enjoying sipping it whilst watching tv in my pjs however I’m not sure if this is totally out of order or reasonable? Would you? Or did you? I haven’t touched alcohol at all since finding out I am pregnant at 4 weeks.

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Haggisfish3 · 22/08/2025 20:51

Of course yanbu.

StandFirm · 22/08/2025 20:51

Would you give your newborn a very small glass of wine in their bottle? No. As tempting as it is, the risks aren't worth it.

BonfireToffee · 22/08/2025 20:52

If you’re asking on here, you sound like the kind of woman who’ll worry if you have it. I wouldn’t, but I sympathise — I had a lovely bottle of Chardonnay in the fridge from the day before I found out I was pregnant. It taunted me for nine long months!

SleepQuest33 · 22/08/2025 20:52

Please don’t!

GammonAndEgg · 22/08/2025 20:52

I would

SaltAirAndTheRust · 22/08/2025 20:53

My mum was told to have port every month when pregnant with me, to help with iron! I turned out fine, and she says she has no regrets.

Dublassie · 22/08/2025 20:53

Of course you can !!

Mandarinaduck · 22/08/2025 20:54

I think it's OK yes.

Baby26 · 22/08/2025 20:54

I wouldn't, and didn't. You made it this far, what's another couple of weeks? Just wait!

Gowlett · 22/08/2025 20:54

No from me.

nomas · 22/08/2025 20:54

Why not a glass of non Alcock old red?’?

WakingUpTheNeighbours · 22/08/2025 20:54

I wouldn’t and didn’t.

Strawberryorangejuice · 22/08/2025 20:55

Yes I wouod

Flamingoknees · 22/08/2025 20:55

The fact that you are asking suggests that it's best you don't. You haven't long to go - good luck!

HolyMacaroniBatman · 22/08/2025 20:55

One small glass of red wine sipped slowly will get filtered out by your liver without going anywhere near your baby.

The choice is yours but medically and statistically there is no risk, don’t let anyone freak you out.

”Expecting Better” by Emily Oster is a great source of actual information on this kind of thing.

whatonearthishappenin · 22/08/2025 20:55

StandFirm · 22/08/2025 20:51

Would you give your newborn a very small glass of wine in their bottle? No. As tempting as it is, the risks aren't worth it.

Come off it, like that’s even close to being the same thing 😂

Downplayit · 22/08/2025 20:56

You're fine..a very small glass of red will do no harm. Enjoy!

ClunkyPigeon · 22/08/2025 20:56

StandFirm · 22/08/2025 20:51

Would you give your newborn a very small glass of wine in their bottle? No. As tempting as it is, the risks aren't worth it.

Genuinely interested if you a) truly believe that it is the same as directly feeding a baby a glass of wine and b) what you think the ‘risks’ are?

Keroppi · 22/08/2025 20:57

Yes, the baby is fully cooked by this point so I don't really see the issue. But then I had a small glass of bolly one Xmas when 30 something weeks pg !!

Red wine with coca cola and loads of ice is nice !! It's a thing!

Zonder · 22/08/2025 20:57

I would.

CreteBound · 22/08/2025 20:57

StandFirm · 22/08/2025 20:51

Would you give your newborn a very small glass of wine in their bottle? No. As tempting as it is, the risks aren't worth it.

This might be the most comment on the internet today.
OP have you wine, every single scientist says that amount is totally fine

Flamingoknees · 22/08/2025 20:57

Non alcoholic Guinness is lovely and very realistic (unlike n/a wine imo) - would that be to your taste?

NHS

According to the NHS, there is no known safe level of alcohol consumption during pregnancy; the safest option is to avoid alcohol completely. Drinking alcohol at any stage of pregnancy can harm your baby,

MaggieBsBoat · 22/08/2025 20:57

I used to be a leader with the LLL and honestly I would not worry about this. It is a tiny amount. Once.

SandrenaIsMyBloodType · 22/08/2025 20:57

a pregnancy is constantly full-term from 37 weeks….

CreteBound · 22/08/2025 20:57

Sorry that was ‘most stupid comment’