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to think that if this isn't racism, then what the hell is?

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YourFavouriteFalafel · 20/08/2025 19:10

According to the comments I've seen from Tommy Robinson's supporters, this isn't racism - he's just doing his best to protect white children and raise awareness! The article mentions he still hasn't deleted the video, despite the threats and abuse the family are facing. What will it actually take for his blind followers to wake up and smell the coffee?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters?

Family in fear after Tommy Robinson shares video of black man with white granddaughters

Exclusive: Olajuwon Ayeni racially abused and falsely labelled a paedophile as far right weaponises clip of family in park

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

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Piggywaspushed · 20/08/2025 21:03

PhilippaGeorgiou · 20/08/2025 20:51

Another thread on this subject and within a dozen posts there they came - apparently it's sad that innocent people get caught up in the crossfire because people are twitchy about [and I am repeating what was said, not what I believe] illegal immigrants hanging around playgrounds.

Yeah, I saw that.

JorgyPorgy · 20/08/2025 21:07

YourFavouriteFalafel · 20/08/2025 20:09

They talk as if every non-white male is a threat to the country. I despair.

I generally assume racists are a bit thick.
This poor man. It’s good he’s confronted this head on.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/08/2025 21:14

JorgyPorgy · 20/08/2025 21:07

I generally assume racists are a bit thick.
This poor man. It’s good he’s confronted this head on.

Me too. I also assume they're abusers themselves.

FusionChefGeoff · 20/08/2025 21:37

I’m really confused it feels like there’s a chunk of this story missing - it’s a video of a man playing with his grandchildren in the park. I can’t even work out what angle Tommy was going for?!?!!! Because he’d black and they’re white they can’t be related?? But even if it’s that, the video doesn’t show any inappropriate behaviour so it’s a fucking gigantic leap from that to paedophile?! It’s such an innocuous video how on earth did it escalate so quickly?!?

TY78910 · 21/08/2025 10:21

I read this thread yesterday and then this update from Haven and immediately thought of this thread (screenshot uploading). All this misinformation that’s being fed by people with influence is only going to lead to more damage. I can just see someone reading the posts alluding to housing migrants at Haven, verbally or even physically attacking a random family enjoying their (extortionate UK) holiday because of the colour of their skin.

to think that if this isn't racism, then what the hell is?
Reallynotsure25 · 21/08/2025 10:35

Out and out blatant racsim. I see none of the not- -so- closet racists have tried to defend this, but guess there still is time. There is a nasty undercurrent of racism around at the moment as more and more of these thick tw*ts are being emboldened to spout their ignorance by the right wing media, the desperate Tories and the likes of Farage & Yaxley Lennon.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 11:36

Reallynotsure25 · 21/08/2025 10:35

Out and out blatant racsim. I see none of the not- -so- closet racists have tried to defend this, but guess there still is time. There is a nasty undercurrent of racism around at the moment as more and more of these thick tw*ts are being emboldened to spout their ignorance by the right wing media, the desperate Tories and the likes of Farage & Yaxley Lennon.

I see none of the not- -so- closet racists have tried to defend this, but guess there still is time.

They are all on the other thread!

Piggywaspushed · 21/08/2025 11:37

Reallynotsure25 · 21/08/2025 10:35

Out and out blatant racsim. I see none of the not- -so- closet racists have tried to defend this, but guess there still is time. There is a nasty undercurrent of racism around at the moment as more and more of these thick tw*ts are being emboldened to spout their ignorance by the right wing media, the desperate Tories and the likes of Farage & Yaxley Lennon.

I think even they know this would be defending the indefensible.

caramac04 · 21/08/2025 11:38

Absolute racism.

Blarn · 21/08/2025 11:46

It is completely racist. Does he get offended every time he sees a male with children?

When I read the story I also wondered why on earth he came across the video of children playing in the park. Odd algorithm he has there...

WhereIsMyJumper · 21/08/2025 11:50

I’m normally quite critical of the word ‘racism’ being bandied about but, making a false assumption about a man simply because he is black is the absolute definition of racism.

WhereIsMyJumper · 21/08/2025 11:53

Don’t get me started on “we are only trying to protect kids” bullshit. If that was the case, you would assume that any man who is with children has nefarious intentions.

It’s like the men who have used rape and sexual abuse of women as a reason to protest against immigration. By all means, protest if you like but don’t use the fact that a woman was raped and assaulted to further your aim because unless you’re out on the streets protesting every single time a woman is attacked (and let’s face it, if they did they would be out on the streets continuously) you’re a hypocrite.
Smacks of “stop raping our women, that’s our job” to me.

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 21/08/2025 11:59

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/08/2025 21:14

Me too. I also assume they're abusers themselves.

They are. Robinson's EDL was famously riddled with paedophiles. It's classic projection—they're pieces of shit, so they believe all other men are too.

Dogs have more advanced theory of mind than these morons.

YourFavouriteFalafel · 21/08/2025 13:01

TY78910 · 21/08/2025 10:21

I read this thread yesterday and then this update from Haven and immediately thought of this thread (screenshot uploading). All this misinformation that’s being fed by people with influence is only going to lead to more damage. I can just see someone reading the posts alluding to housing migrants at Haven, verbally or even physically attacking a random family enjoying their (extortionate UK) holiday because of the colour of their skin.

The new trend seems to be filming POC at the beach, as apparently they’re encroaching on a British pastime. I saw someone comment “those makeshift walls you see are for them to go to the toilet and then they just bury their shit” … they were windbreakers!! The comment had 72 likes Confused

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DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 13:04

Revolting. Thick as fucking mince he is, and his followers.

TY78910 · 21/08/2025 13:10

YourFavouriteFalafel · 21/08/2025 13:01

The new trend seems to be filming POC at the beach, as apparently they’re encroaching on a British pastime. I saw someone comment “those makeshift walls you see are for them to go to the toilet and then they just bury their shit” … they were windbreakers!! The comment had 72 likes Confused

There is an epidemic of just cruel posts on Facebook. Someone posted on my local page about “confirmed ISIS asylum seekers looking to behead our children soon” - this information allegedly came from Pakistani community that can speak Afghanistani….. I mean it’s laughable that people actually believe this. Afghanistani is not even a language and these come from ‘blue tick’ accounts so people think they’re real. It’s astonishing really.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 21/08/2025 13:42

Absolutely disgusting

who on earth thinks thats not racism!

DeLaRuiz · 21/08/2025 13:49

It’s almost like the word racism isn’t a negative, it’s just a term, like “ liberal” or “gay”. I think “no shame” has extended the acceptance vibe to racism.

YourFavouriteFalafel · 21/08/2025 14:13

RufustheFactualReindeer · 21/08/2025 13:42

Absolutely disgusting

who on earth thinks thats not racism!

Currently standing at 28 people on the poll, but none have explained why they disagree that it’s racism…

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LizzieW1969 · 21/08/2025 15:15

Because those 28 posters are racist, and don’t want to be called out on their racism. None of them do.

Clavinova · 21/08/2025 15:19

FusionChefGeoff
I’m really confused it feels like there’s a chunk of this story missing - it’s a video of a man playing with his grandchildren in the park

Just to point out that the man is aged only 34 (35 next month) - it's a bit odd to call him a grandfather even if he is married to the girls' grandmother (she is 18 years older than him). He must have been in his twenties when the girls were born, although of course most onlookers would assume he was their stepfather/mother's partner rather than a random stranger.

Katemax82 · 21/08/2025 15:43

They obviously assumed they were just random black men with unrelated white girls. Very very wrong to circulate this on sm!!

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:47

Racists never see their racism as racism.

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:49

ConfusedSloth · 20/08/2025 19:40

Of course it’s racism. They know it’s racism. They don’t care that they’re racist. They just don’t like other people calling them racist.

Ding ding JACKPOT!!!

I notice this constantly. People have zero issue being racist, but react with outrage when you call them that

JHound · 21/08/2025 16:03

myplace · 20/08/2025 20:06

I was astonished at that article. It is so self evidently unreasonable. There’s no reason it should have been left up.

I’m struggling to find the words to be honest. It’s irrational and pointless.

That’s the thing. Even if it was just “save the children” nonsense he knows he is wrong so why is it still up?