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He’s come back steaming drunk

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forevergrateful1 · 17/08/2025 23:31

I mentioned to my boyfriend I am starting to get drained. If it’s not his debt, it’s his overwhelming emotions he piles on. He is very clingy and I put up another post about this. I told him today as I’ve been so drained emotionally it’s become physically draining that I’m constantly needing to sleep.

Although I have been feeling drained and low myself, he made commitments to see his friend which I was supposed to go. I didn’t go because we both don’t have the money especially him.

he’s come back steaming drunk been sick all over the toilet and has run up a tab to pay for these drinks. He even brought others drinks on this tab. I was fuming I got his clothes and told him to leave and he started crying. He’s slumped at the front door sleeping and won’t move now.

I don’t know what to do I’m so mad that I had to post.

OP posts:
Thepeopleversuswork · 18/08/2025 13:54

Please. He's a drunk with debt and he has no respect for you or himself. What's the point of him?

More to the point, what on earth has happened in your life to make you think you can't do better?

Bananalanacake · 18/08/2025 17:36

How long have you been together, do you live together. If he has no claim on your home kick him out. Clingy usually means controlling, What's he like when you go out with your friends without him.

BauhausOfEliott · 18/08/2025 17:40

Why on earth are you still with this exhausting, clingy, whinging twat?

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