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To ask if you've ever reported somebody for benefit fraud

202 replies

Fragmentedbrain · 17/08/2025 21:07

And if the DWP subsequently came for them

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Bananapotato · 18/08/2025 16:30

TigerRag · 18/08/2025 16:27

I was told the 3 night rule was a myth and it's where they're registered for bills, etc

That’s what I was told too.

Phoebesparrow · 18/08/2025 16:35

LadyKenya · 18/08/2025 15:12

You would be better off calling the Council, or the Police, about her anti-social behaviour. Her being worse off financially, due to you reporting her for benefit fraud, is going to help you how exactly?🙄

I have reported her to the council
Many bloody times-they send her a letter
Which she rips up and carries on
The dwp is my next step

Typicalwave · 18/08/2025 16:42

Bananapotato · 18/08/2025 16:26

Do you mean I protected the haves? I didn’t, I reported.

You reported them, and you lost your job. The ‘haves’ were protected.

meanwhile th rest of TW nation are more interested in wether women have me staying ovef whilst the fathers continue their lives with impunity

Bananapotato · 18/08/2025 16:43

I’m sorry but can you explain this:

meanwhile th rest of TW nation are more interested in wether women have me staying ovef

I am usually not too bad at autocorrects but that has stumped me.

Fragmentedbrain · 18/08/2025 16:44

SomeOfTheTrouble · 18/08/2025 12:47

Just wondering how many of those so keen to report people for benefit fraud have ever paid tradesmen in cash for a discount because they’ve avoided VAT?

Why VAT? Relatively unusual to hit the threshold but lots of people do a wee bit of tutoring on the side undeclared etc etc for income tax and NICs

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Typicalwave · 18/08/2025 16:45

So going off your original op ,is it only if claimants you stalk?

SomeOfTheTrouble · 18/08/2025 16:47

Fragmentedbrain · 18/08/2025 16:44

Why VAT? Relatively unusual to hit the threshold but lots of people do a wee bit of tutoring on the side undeclared etc etc for income tax and NICs

As I said, there was a thread on here recently about paying tradesmen cash in hand for a discount (due to them avoiding VAT) and on that particular thread the vast majority of posters were in favour of it. That’s why I used that example.

bugalugs45 · 18/08/2025 16:58

I have twice with 2 different people , neither was followed up, know this for a fact as definitely would have heard, ironically both of them still work cash in hand 3 or 4 days a week in quite a public role ( in a pub/ restaurant ) whilst claiming as a single parent working 16 hours .
I can only assume that it’s considered small fry and they’re inundated with these kind of reports .

Chocolatecoveredshitpig · 18/08/2025 17:18

No, but I wish I had. The people concerned are now retired, (early), and enjoying their life of leisure and holidays after being able to save an absolute fortune due to years of one half of the couple claiming fraudulently as a single person, while the other person lived there, whilst also renting out their own property cheap to a ‘mate’, meaning they could not only pocket the rent, they also had all their post etc sent there and picked it up once a week. Oh and they were a police officer, btw.

MiddleNameDilema · 18/08/2025 17:34

alphabetti · 17/08/2025 21:42

I haven’t but do know someone whose told our friendship group that’s he gets PIP mobility for not being able to walk far but she walks perfectly fine and is able to dance when out drinking. She just gives reminders of no one videoing her and posting on social media.

She has 3 children receiving PIP and charges them admin fees for completing forms for them! Told the council her adult sons live with her so she got a 3bed council house all rent paid but they live with their dad. If i had her address id report her as it’s a joke

Know someone else who says can’t do daily tasks and needs a spare bedroom as her daughter is her carer but she works cash in hand and spends her time babysitting her grandchildren so her daughter can work cash in hand (claims UC too)

Someone else told UC she’s single and living with her parents but just uses that address and lives mostly with her wealthy partner.

Not sure if i do have it in me to report but we cannot afford to keep paying out all this money. And it doesn’t sit right some of us working and paying our way with not much left over whilst some benefitting from handouts.

You definitely should for these cases, that's shocking.

I did it once and would do it again, friends and I are debating whether to do it for another friends absolute shirker of a partner who wants to marry and move in with her but be supported totally by her so they still get benefits, but genuinely worried she could get a custodial because it has been so long and would run into the £££££ and don't want to do that to our friend.

Maverickess · 18/08/2025 18:29

MiserableMrsMopp · 18/08/2025 11:17

If someone actively asks for cash in hand payment for work, does that count?

It's very hard (I presume) to prove cash in hand work. I guess unless the DWP have photographic evidence?

Ok so that covers one part of it, but you said that they claim 'maximum single parent benefits despite living with a partner who also works cash in hand', mention 'hand outs from her parents' and said there was 'no investigation by DWP'

How do you know without a doubt about the other things and what has been declared when claiming? Or that there was no investigation, or that there was and because you've seen no change in her circumstances, the outcome wasn't that there was no fraud happening?

My point is that because you don't see someone carted off in handcuffs, read about or hear of their prosecution through the grapevine, or that don't suddenly have a massive and noticeable change in the bits of their life you see, it doesn't mean that they are just getting away with it because the DWP can't be arsed.

GarlicLitre · 18/08/2025 18:57

Oh, no, @LakieLady, that's so sad. I'm glad you were able to help her but that year must have been horrible for her. People make their own judgements based on nothing but their imaginations, and just thoughtlessly wreck lives.

From my experience, getting the eventual arrears doesn't make up for it either. By then you've run up all sorts of debts, had services cut off, and the back pay isn't enough to put things right.

Blackbirdsinthegarden · 18/08/2025 19:22

No I haven’t, but I have been tempted to. A few years ago a single mother moved into a privately rented bungalow at the end of our drive. She subsequently then went on to have two more children with two other different partners (not judging as it’s her choice). The first partner was taken away by the police in handcuffs. Their relationship was very volatile and neighbours often heard shouting etc. She, apparently, according to her next door neighbour, was as bad as he was and was more violent than him.

The second partner who moved in definitely lived there and didn’t work. However, he did offer his services as a sort of gardener/handyman to the many people around us. The bungalows are quite small and many pensioners reside in them. We didn’t avail ourselves of his services, but our 90 year old next door neighbour did, and paid him £150 to clean his gutterings! He even asked us if we could lend him our lawn mower, as his broke! (We said no by the way, on the basis that we didn’t have one, and that a retired guy down the drive cut our grass, which was true).

The straw that broke the camel’s back was a few weeks ago, when I saw her at the hairdresser’s. She was having hair extensions (which aren’t cheap!). I regularly see them in Asda with their trolley piled high (again, no judgement , as feeding a family of five doesn’t come cheap), taking a taxi back. An online shop may have been cheaper, but as they have nothing else to do, I suppose it passes the time.

I wouldn’t report them, because there are children involved, but I’m pretty sure she is claiming as a single person and he is too and claiming he doesn’t live there. I may be wrong, and maybe they are claiming jointly, but the money he’s making cash in hand and ripping pensioners off must be considerable. He charges one OAP £1 to wheel her bins out! I told her that she only had to ask the Council to do this (as a disabled person) and they would so it for free!!!! Couldn’t get through to her though. Doesn’t seen fair as he is getting away with cash in hand jobs and she’s using benefits to pay for hair extensions!

AgentPidge · 18/08/2025 19:33

XenoBitch · 18/08/2025 16:11

How many times a week is a partner allowed to stay over? I can not find anything online. I claim UC, and my DP stays over sometimes.

I couldn't tell you what the rules are now - this was years ago.

bumbaloo · 18/08/2025 19:56

mumofoneAloneandwell · 18/08/2025 00:22

Just benefit fraud 🥰 - literally couldn't give a shit

Which is in no way comparable to child porn or dv 😭

Do you have an elastic view of the law then. You feel only some laws are valid. How about the sewage in the public waterways or turning a house into one of multiple occupancy without permission?

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/08/2025 20:16

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/08/2025 10:34

I take it you also would report anyone for minor benefit fraud. We can’t rule for the posh and the elite and another for Karen from the estate now can we. What’s right and moral for the goose is right and moral for the gander

Sorry I should have said I take it you "wouldn't" report any one for minor benefit fraud

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/08/2025 20:19

Madammew · 18/08/2025 07:19

Yes I have.
A person I know very well and so am 100% sure of my facts.

Despite living a luxury lifestyle in a beautiful country house looking after her horses and competing at show jumping this woman claims highest level PIP and ESA by pretending she has CFS and fibromylagia.

I have seen her climbing gates, mucking out her horses, carrying bales of hay, walking her dogs for miles and driving the horses off to shows where she mostly wins the jumping classes she enters.

She then gets out the crutches she carries in car (but never normally uses) when she goes to the doctor or dwp assessments and she cries and asks for a bed to lie down on whilst she waits because she is in too much pain to sit on a chair.

Her wealthy partner pays all the household bills. Her PIP is just used to keep her horses.

The vast majority of people claiming disability benefits are genuine.
This woman is insulting them and smearing the reputation of disabled people with her behaviour.

Well that's entirely different to a single mum cleaning a few hours a week to earn an extra say an extra 40 pound.

StarlightRobot · 18/08/2025 20:22

I haven’t but do wonder about
where those at my DC’s school get their money. The demographic is very modest with many single parents who work only part time. And yet they can afford multiple holidays abroad each year and taking their
kids to Disneyland Florida is pretty commonplace! We can’t afford that and my DH and I both work full time in good jobs. We pay a tonne of tax and sometimes I wonder if we are the idiots financing everyone else.

XenoBitch · 18/08/2025 20:26

x2boys · 18/08/2025 09:49

Is she thinking of carers allowance?

No, she thought her mum could get that because she says she is her carer (she isn't - she doesn't see her often). Her mum lives miles away and spends a lot of time in the US. So she set her sights on AA. I said it is for pensioners, and she insisted it is for anyone... I just thought she can go ahead and apply and be disappointed (more like be convinced the system is in the wrong, not her).

StarlightRobot · 18/08/2025 20:27

Frankly I would report someone if I was sure they were committing fraud. We have had to make sacrifices as a family with both parents working full time and I should not be subsidising someone else to work less off the back of my hours at work. Neither of us have ever claimed any form of benefit and we do not expect anything because we are healthy and can support ourselves and our family. Any person who has committed fraud can bloody well pay back the amounts they defrauded and repay to the government what has been stolen by those who work really hard and make sacrifices along the way- missed sports days, fewer play dates, late pick ups and exhaustion.

ForWittyTealOP · 18/08/2025 21:57

I was almost tempted once but I realised it would have been done in anger and a spiteful thing to do. I don't want to be that sort of person. I think a lot of benefit fraud is down to organised criminal gangs anyway. I also think if benefits were a genuine safety net instead of a system set up to punish and humiliate, and if wages were actually enough to live on rather than barely subsist, rates of benefit fraud would go down. Plus the hoops that people have to jump through for their measly few quid almost invite some to circumvent the system.

ForWittyTealOP · 18/08/2025 21:58

StarlightRobot · 18/08/2025 20:22

I haven’t but do wonder about
where those at my DC’s school get their money. The demographic is very modest with many single parents who work only part time. And yet they can afford multiple holidays abroad each year and taking their
kids to Disneyland Florida is pretty commonplace! We can’t afford that and my DH and I both work full time in good jobs. We pay a tonne of tax and sometimes I wonder if we are the idiots financing everyone else.

Are you King Charles or something? You must be pretty rich to fund the Florida trips of everyone in an entire school.

chachahide · 18/08/2025 22:03

I have reported to HMRC, someone who hasn’t paid tax in 15 years and was a massive wanker.

I have also reported to social services. In both cases something was done.

Never benefits, but I would, this country just can’t afford our ridiculous welfare bill anymore.

XenoBitch · 18/08/2025 22:05

chachahide · 18/08/2025 22:03

I have reported to HMRC, someone who hasn’t paid tax in 15 years and was a massive wanker.

I have also reported to social services. In both cases something was done.

Never benefits, but I would, this country just can’t afford our ridiculous welfare bill anymore.

Social services would be a safeguarding thing, surely? YANBU to report that at all.

billandtedsexcellentadventure · 18/08/2025 22:10

It’s a tricky one. I think it’s hard when you go to work all the time and see people not working and going on lavish holidays and constantly having nice things. However I have a friend who doesn’t work. Looks after her two young children. The dad is crap. He lives with them but he’s not on the books. However he doesn’t contribute financially so if he was on the books then how would she manage financially. I totally get she needs to make him step
up but it’s the kids that suffer isn’t it. But then again I see pictures of what the kids have which I can’t afford foR my own kids and I work full time!