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STOP saying holibobs!

203 replies

MyDadWasAnArse · 15/08/2025 19:42

And for reference, going to Northumberland for two weeks when you live in Burnley isn't a staycation it's a holiday, caller to the radio earlier!

OP posts:
whatsinanameeh · 15/08/2025 22:13

No!

I love going on my holibobs with the famalam. It makes me happy to say those words even though both the location and the family are shit.

WhatcakeshalIIbaketoday · 15/08/2025 22:14

ElfAndSafetyBored · 15/08/2025 19:57

People calling British holidays ‘Staycations’ is my absolute pet hate.

A staycation is when you stay at home (hence the ‘Stay’ bit) and have lots of day trips.

I blame the BBC. And the internet. And people in general.

I dislike the s word too. It’s lmplying that a holiday in the UK isn’t a proper holiday.

Hallywally · 15/08/2025 22:14

Hashtag blessed & making memories are the worst. I use “jollies” 😂 Also hate “busy mum” or “busy working mum” 🤮

AliceMaforethought · 15/08/2025 22:15

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:42

True, but more specifically than that you need to be in your own house.

No, you don't!

CommentHere · 15/08/2025 22:16

I haven't read the thread but THANK YOU! I also hate holibobs and staycation being used incorrectly.

I love staycations where I am home but do day trips. I love being a tourist in my own city.

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 22:17

AliceMaforethought · 15/08/2025 22:15

No, you don't!

Yes you do.

researchers3 · 15/08/2025 22:18

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 19:55

I think holibobs is so awful that it's actually ok. It's gone full circle.

Staycation when you aren't staying in your own house is unacceptable though.

I've got a neighbour who calls Tesco 'Tessies' and that makes me be sick in my mouth.

Can I say holibobs in an ironic way? In my head it is...

SquishedMallow · 15/08/2025 22:19

beachwalkx · 15/08/2025 22:11

Simples enrages me

usually used by someone that hasn’t read the post either

OP “I need a new job but I can’t drive as I’m severely visually impaired”

first post “driving is easy, just do automatic. Simples”

Urgh, you've reminded me of another one I hate.

"My DS has severe autism"

"I've got severe OCD"

"I've got severe depression"

"I'm severely disabled"

"I've got severe IBS"

"DD has a severe reaction to woolly jumpers and comes out with severe rashes"

"I'm severely short sighted "

"I had severe COVID"

"I've got a severe mental health problem"

"I've got a severe throat infection"

I could go on and on and on. And what it translates to to me is "I've got the same thing as all the other sufferers of said ailment, but mine is so much worse than yours " it instantly makes me think the person is prone to embellishment and that you can probably shave off 50% of the severity measured against a normal benchmark of severity.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 15/08/2025 22:20

As a pp said.

STAYCATION:

A holiday spent in one's home country rather than abroad, or one spent at home and involving day trips to local attractions.

So both camps are right. Smile

Chillax OP. You're giving angry! Grin

cobrakaieaglefang · 15/08/2025 22:21

I didn't have holidays as a child..my week at Butlins was a staycation ..wait...it was our annual holiday!
I suppose it sorts people out, probably the same ones who say 'pacifically' instead of specifically, 'brought' instead of bought, and Chester Drawers..😂

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 22:22

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:54

It's definitely more the staying at home one. That makes sense linguistically because of the word 'stay'.

A STAYcation to describe the very act of leaving your home to go somewhere else is clearly silly.

I see above that the online dictionary has adapted to people using it incorrectly, but I will not. If you're not staying where you are it's not a STAYcation. The OP is correct that people who can't comprehend this are worth avoiding.

The act of packing up your stuff and moving somewhere else for a period of time for fun or relaxation is traditionally called a 'holiday'.

People aren’t using it incorrectly, the modern way is staying in your home country. So it might not be the original but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong

Perzival · 15/08/2025 22:24

Finteq · 15/08/2025 19:43

I'm going on my holibobs next week.

Are you going with your familam? 😆

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 15/08/2025 22:24

Eleventy billion hollibobs with the hubby hubster 😆

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 22:25

SquishedMallow · 15/08/2025 22:19

Urgh, you've reminded me of another one I hate.

"My DS has severe autism"

"I've got severe OCD"

"I've got severe depression"

"I'm severely disabled"

"I've got severe IBS"

"DD has a severe reaction to woolly jumpers and comes out with severe rashes"

"I'm severely short sighted "

"I had severe COVID"

"I've got a severe mental health problem"

"I've got a severe throat infection"

I could go on and on and on. And what it translates to to me is "I've got the same thing as all the other sufferers of said ailment, but mine is so much worse than yours " it instantly makes me think the person is prone to embellishment and that you can probably shave off 50% of the severity measured against a normal benchmark of severity.

Edited

To be fair, there is such a thing as Severe Mental Illness, and GPs keep a register of people with it. People with SMI were classed as in the vulnerable group when it came to the Covid jab roll out.
Also, Severe Mental Impairment. People with that are exempt from paying council tax.

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 22:27

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 22:22

People aren’t using it incorrectly, the modern way is staying in your home country. So it might not be the original but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong

Well it is wrong, as explained, because it makes no linguistic sense.

Unfortunately, so many people are using it incorrectly that it's now seemingly become correct through common usage. But we can fight back against these idiots.

Stand strong!

A STAYcation involves STAYING where you are, not going somewhere else. It couldn't be more simple to understand.

A holiday involves packing up your things and moving to a novel location for a period of fun and/or relaxation.

SewNotHappy · 15/08/2025 22:28

TangibleLemon · 15/08/2025 19:52

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You're a monster.

NamelessNancy · 15/08/2025 22:28

WhatcakeshalIIbaketoday · 15/08/2025 22:14

I dislike the s word too. It’s lmplying that a holiday in the UK isn’t a proper holiday.

Exactly this. I think it's fine to use to describe a time where you stay at home but have day trips etc but holidaying in Scotland if you live in London is a holiday, not a staycation and to use the word in that way makes travel seem lesser for those who don't go abroad.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 15/08/2025 22:29

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 22:22

People aren’t using it incorrectly, the modern way is staying in your home country. So it might not be the original but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong

Yes, I think Staycation did USED to mean using holiday leave, and staying at home/in your house (and doing day trips to attractions in your own country.) But it also means going away and holidaying in your own country. Which is quite confusing.....

I think that the original meaning (staying at home and doing fun stuff/a few day trips on the days off you booked/arranged,) is what a Staycation should be really (as you are staying at home.) If you're on holiday in your own country (and staying away from home,) it's a holiday.... I wonder when 'Staycation' started to mean being on holiday (but in your own country..) ?

SewNotHappy · 15/08/2025 22:29

findmeaunicorn · 15/08/2025 21:08

Surely in this day and age you have more pressing things to think about ????

Some people can have more than one thought in a day.

Themomentsheknewshefkedup · 15/08/2025 22:31

Going anywhere in the UK isn’t a “holiday” it’s a trip. Uk “holidays” are shit

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 22:33

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 15/08/2025 22:29

Yes, I think Staycation did USED to mean using holiday leave, and staying at home/in your house (and doing day trips to attractions in your own country.) But it also means going away and holidaying in your own country. Which is quite confusing.....

I think that the original meaning (staying at home and doing fun stuff/a few day trips on the days off you booked/arranged,) is what a Staycation should be really (as you are staying at home.) If you're on holiday in your own country (and staying away from home,) it's a holiday.... I wonder when 'Staycation' started to mean being on holiday (but in your own country..) ?

I thought vacation was more a US term, so staycation is too.
People booking leave from work book leave. It is just time away from the workplace. They don't tend to say booking holiday as that is something different.
But in the US, vacation is both taking leave and/or going on holiday. As I understand it anyway.

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 22:33

Themomentsheknewshefkedup · 15/08/2025 22:31

Going anywhere in the UK isn’t a “holiday” it’s a trip. Uk “holidays” are shit

Speak for yourself. All I can afford is UK holidays, and they are not shit. I enjoy them.

tequilam0ckingbird · 15/08/2025 22:34

TangibleLemon · 15/08/2025 19:52

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beat me to it.

let me add to it:

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SquishedMallow · 15/08/2025 22:35

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 22:25

To be fair, there is such a thing as Severe Mental Illness, and GPs keep a register of people with it. People with SMI were classed as in the vulnerable group when it came to the Covid jab roll out.
Also, Severe Mental Impairment. People with that are exempt from paying council tax.

No I know. I do accept that for sure. But that wasn't the point of my post. And it probably isn't the people with actual diagnosed SMI using it in that way.

tequilam0ckingbird · 15/08/2025 22:35

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 22:33

Speak for yourself. All I can afford is UK holidays, and they are not shit. I enjoy them.

agree! there are many beautiful beaches here in the UK, and we've had a fantastic weather this summer.

So much easier to travel too- load up the car and take whatever you want!

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