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STOP saying holibobs!

203 replies

MyDadWasAnArse · 15/08/2025 19:42

And for reference, going to Northumberland for two weeks when you live in Burnley isn't a staycation it's a holiday, caller to the radio earlier!

OP posts:
Jc2001 · 15/08/2025 21:25

I'm going on holinobs with my furbabies next week.

northernballer · 15/08/2025 21:26

ClearFruit · 15/08/2025 21:17

Adding 'this one'. As in, 'out shopping with this one'. No.

God so agree with this!

Date night with this one - makes me absolutely boak.

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 21:26

MyDadWasAnArse · 15/08/2025 21:16

It isn't. It's when you stay at home and have away days out.

It can be either when you go on holiday in your own country OR when stay at home and go to places for days out. So the person in the radio was not wrong

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 21:27

ElfAndSafetyBored · 15/08/2025 21:10

It’s not.

It can be either when you go on holiday in your own country OR when stay at home and go to places for days out. So the person in the radio was not wrong

AliceMaforethought · 15/08/2025 21:27

MyDadWasAnArse · 15/08/2025 21:16

It isn't. It's when you stay at home and have away days out.

No, that is only one definition. I heard the other one first.

KingfisherAmmonite · 15/08/2025 21:27

I'm going on my holibobs soon, really looking forward to it!

B1anche · 15/08/2025 21:29

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 19:55

I think holibobs is so awful that it's actually ok. It's gone full circle.

Staycation when you aren't staying in your own house is unacceptable though.

I've got a neighbour who calls Tesco 'Tessies' and that makes me be sick in my mouth.

Tessies is hilariously awful and I'm going to start saying this just to annoy my partner. (Yes I am very immature but he happily winds me up with similar things).

UnintentionalArcher · 15/08/2025 21:36

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 20:21

M & S have fully embraced ‘ picky bits’

From their website

WHAT ARE PICKY BITS?
Whether you call it girl dinner, picky tea, party tea, or picky bits, we're talking about a delicious combination of easy-to-prepare ingredients you can put together easily. At M&S we're the only destination for flavour-packed picky bits you won't find anywhere else. Pop to the Foodhall to grab your faves, pile everything up onto a grazing board, or roll out the picnic rug and head to the park.

I cannot stand this. Because of course ‘girls’ (not women, but girls) have teeny tiny appetites and just like to pick at things without eating proper meals. I’m actually surprised that M&S have gone with something so bad.

YetAnotherNewUserMoniker · 15/08/2025 21:37

Sorry, but I don’t remember the word ‘staycation’ pre the 2020 lockdown, then it cropped up as an alternative to hols to mean staying at home and holiday style days out (if you live in the South East, ruinously expensive…). Staycation as a UK holiday did not exist prior to that. Maybe language has evolved since, but honestly, a UK holiday is still a holiday for many.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 15/08/2025 21:39

UnintentionalArcher · 15/08/2025 21:36

I cannot stand this. Because of course ‘girls’ (not women, but girls) have teeny tiny appetites and just like to pick at things without eating proper meals. I’m actually surprised that M&S have gone with something so bad.

I'm not. M&S lost the plot some years ago.

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:42

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 20:52

A stay cation is when you holiday in your home country

True, but more specifically than that you need to be in your own house.

Nourishinghandcream · 15/08/2025 21:45

Alltheoldpaintings · 15/08/2025 19:56

U ok hun? Maybe u need a holibobs. We’re going on holibobs for a staycation after Crimbo, it’s only a 5 hour drive away, so easy to stop off at Tessie’s on the way :)

Edited

A 5hr drive from point A to B....... that's a roadtrip!!!!😖

Orphlids · 15/08/2025 21:46

Three sleeps till my holibobs! And my lobotomy!

EveryOtherNameTaken · 15/08/2025 21:46

Valid8me · 15/08/2025 19:51

Me and hubster love going on holibobs with our famalam 🤣

This could literally have been spoken by my Westcountry friend. Word for word.

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 21:46

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:42

True, but more specifically than that you need to be in your own house.

It’s not more specifically that, it’s either of those not one more than the other

MorrisseysMisery · 15/08/2025 21:47

MyDadWasAnArse · 15/08/2025 19:42

And for reference, going to Northumberland for two weeks when you live in Burnley isn't a staycation it's a holiday, caller to the radio earlier!

While people are at it they can stop saying "Hubby" it sounds ridiculous

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 21:50

I call them holidogs, because my dog always comes with me.

Panterusblackish · 15/08/2025 21:50

Oh dear OP, they're jollibobs round here.

A portmanteau of hollibobs and going on your jollies.

I'm sorry if that's even worse

XenoBitch · 15/08/2025 21:51

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:42

True, but more specifically than that you need to be in your own house.

I thought a staycation was when you book leave from work but don't go away anywhere.
I used to know someone who said that it was not a holiday if it was not abroad.

NuffSaidSam · 15/08/2025 21:54

Coconutter24 · 15/08/2025 21:46

It’s not more specifically that, it’s either of those not one more than the other

It's definitely more the staying at home one. That makes sense linguistically because of the word 'stay'.

A STAYcation to describe the very act of leaving your home to go somewhere else is clearly silly.

I see above that the online dictionary has adapted to people using it incorrectly, but I will not. If you're not staying where you are it's not a STAYcation. The OP is correct that people who can't comprehend this are worth avoiding.

The act of packing up your stuff and moving somewhere else for a period of time for fun or relaxation is traditionally called a 'holiday'.

LittlleMy · 15/08/2025 22:04

I also hate when people say ‘doggo’ or ‘kiddo’ 🥴

takealettermsjones · 15/08/2025 22:07

Honestly I hate it too but I now have an enormous urge to use it just because someone has told me not to 😆

cityrat79 · 15/08/2025 22:09

Don’t forget your welligogs!

beachwalkx · 15/08/2025 22:11

Simples enrages me

usually used by someone that hasn’t read the post either

OP “I need a new job but I can’t drive as I’m severely visually impaired”

first post “driving is easy, just do automatic. Simples”

JDM625 · 15/08/2025 22:12

Until this thread, I didn't know this word referred to a holiday! I have no idea why, but I thought it was a strange reference to Holly Willoughby 😕