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What's some juicy gossip that you can't share irl but can share with nosy strangers on mumsnet?

732 replies

mumofoneAloneandwell · 15/08/2025 19:39

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To improve an otherwise boring friday night in front of the TV, with my slightly poorly DD x

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 12:13

NNforthispost · 16/08/2025 11:18

New name for this as its outing.

ex boss tried it on with me. He is living with long term partner and teens, after they met at work (she was still married at time and was his secretary). After he’d admitted he’d not been faithful in the 19 years they’ve been together. He’s gone from one affair to another with short gaps in between.

Hes shagged everyone from receptionists to other senior partners at the firm.

He does generally choose people in a lower position so he has leverage 🤢.

He will ‘work’ until 1am some days but he’s actually sexting people (no not me - but not sure why he told me all this shit).

He’s currently shagging another team manager and they go on ‘work trips’ with clients so everyone must know.

Absolutely disgusted with him and he used the excuse that he’s just like roommates with his partner and they’ve not had sex since 2019. Am not surprised - I bet she knows and is just worn down.

Unfortunately she’s not working (been SAHM since they had their first) and he’s on over 170k so I bet she feels stuck.

Occasionally I see them out as a family and I’m always so tempted to say something but I don’t. He’s such a deceitful unpleasant man but has a very good ‘nice guy’ mask.

I never trust the 'nice guys' on tv, you just know that they are the biggest pricks going!

Paddy mcguinnes is this guy for me

I think his wife must know and is just there for the kids 😬😬

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Phoebesparrow · 16/08/2025 12:14

JudgeJ · 16/08/2025 11:32

I would have no hesitation in telling the boyfriend to get a DNA test, why should he be stuck with the financial burden of someone else's child and a feckless partner while he is working hard?

Normally I would,but I have to protect my children

It's a long story but as soon as my youngest is 18,he'll be getting that message

What he does with that information is up to him

The whole family have kept it a secret from him-they all know

ConnieHeart · 16/08/2025 12:23

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 12:13

I never trust the 'nice guys' on tv, you just know that they are the biggest pricks going!

Paddy mcguinnes is this guy for me

I think his wife must know and is just there for the kids 😬😬

To be fair to him, he & his wife split up a couple of years ago

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 12:38

ConnieHeart · 16/08/2025 12:23

To be fair to him, he & his wife split up a couple of years ago

Oh, no i know, i was talking about the husband in my last sentence

But before they split, i feel like he was the same to christine

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 12:40

Phoebesparrow · 16/08/2025 12:14

Normally I would,but I have to protect my children

It's a long story but as soon as my youngest is 18,he'll be getting that message

What he does with that information is up to him

The whole family have kept it a secret from him-they all know

Poor guy 😬

Some people are just bullies. It doesn't stop at school, they live their lives like that 🤢🤢

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ThreeLocusts · 16/08/2025 12:49

curiositydidnotkillthecatisaid · 15/08/2025 20:03

My DH ex girlfriend (who he has children with) moved some cocklodger in and my stepchildren kept on saying how horrible he was. I brushed it off as the kids just having loyalty to their dad as they are very close to my DH and myself UNTIL one day I popped by to drop a surprise off for the kids and while I knocked on the front door I could hear him screaming calling the kids ungrateful cunts and then opened the door all smiles to me. I was so damn angry but kept my cool.

I made a plan with one of my friends to take her car down to his car garage and flirt with him and try and get him to go on a date with her. She did. The dirty abusive “man” was happy to cheat on the woman who was letting him live in her house for free and treating my step children like crap. My friend took video recordings and pictures of their date and sent them to my DH Ex. Needless to say she was heartbroken but she did kick his butt to the curb and the kids are so much happier that he has gone

edit for spelling and to add the ex has no idea it was a set up

Edited

nicely done

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 13:08

WillyWonkasPurpleHat · 16/08/2025 09:19

That is a very specific and odd reply

😄 I dont know him! Just hazarding a guess as to the many other men

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DungareesTrombonesDinos · 16/08/2025 13:10

There are big big changes at my work and someone who has been awful to me will now not be able to go for the promotion he thinks he's entitled to. I on the other hand will be able to interview for my dream job!

LimeBasilandManderin · 16/08/2025 13:19

SeasalterSadie · 16/08/2025 08:59

MK of SB?

That was my first thought too @SeasalterSadie

InDarkModeToday · 16/08/2025 13:21

A friend of mine is having an affair with someone 40 years his junior.

And she is stunning. Absolutely beautiful. She could have anyone. He is very comfortable financially. One might even say wealthy.

He is clearly smitten and thinks it's a wonderful thing and she is just enjoying being wined and dined and 'cherished' by an experienced older man who takes her to exciting places and is devoted to her pleasure in every sense...

I don't.

NegroniMacaroni · 16/08/2025 13:24

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 08:39

He came back to work after 6 months in prison????? Omg!

I know right! He wasn't even that great at his job to begin with. I do wonder if he had some kind of dirt / info on the management, as I still don't understand why they had him back.

ChocolateBiscuitsandaCuppa · 16/08/2025 13:28

Ilikeanimalsmorethanpeople · 16/08/2025 09:12

BM from Q married to AD? 👀👀

NOOOOOO!! Don't let it be BM!
I will be inconsolable, and will have to question everyrhing I 'know'.

RainbowZebraWarrior · 16/08/2025 13:30

ChocolateBiscuitsandaCuppa · 16/08/2025 13:28

NOOOOOO!! Don't let it be BM!
I will be inconsolable, and will have to question everyrhing I 'know'.

The OP said that the wife of the 80s man was not famous in her own right so it can't be him

stclementine · 16/08/2025 13:34

I’ve started an affair with my medical director. He’s separated from an arranged marriage and really lovely, but not telling anyone at work as he’s my boss’s boss.

ChocolateBiscuitsandaCuppa · 16/08/2025 13:37

RainbowZebraWarrior · 16/08/2025 13:30

The OP said that the wife of the 80s man was not famous in her own right so it can't be him

Yes, I went back and read the rest of the thread so my impending devastation was short-lived!

Horsie · 16/08/2025 13:41

MyDeftDuck · 16/08/2025 08:20

I don’t think my dad was actually my dad………my siblings resemble him in some ways, but not me, I only look like my mum. And the colour of our eyes troubles me……dads were blue, mums were grey/greenish…….mine are brown. I’ve never mentioned any of this to my siblings and can’t ask my parents as they’re long time dead now.
Dad was fabulous though and provided for us all, was never out of work and made sure we had a fabulous childhood. But these doubts just niggle in the back of my mind although I don’t have the courage to mention anything to my siblings…….there’s something wise about letting a sleeping dog lie.

Kate has green eyes, William has blue eyes, and their boys have brown eyes! So it can absolutely happen!

Horsie · 16/08/2025 13:53

CelineDijon · 16/08/2025 08:57

Someone very well known in the music industry (beloved 80s band member who is massively respected and hugely influential) and who is known for being wholesome and family orientated - and has been married to his wife for decades - is having an affair with my friend.

I'm seriously unimpressed with both of them and I've told them as much. She met him through work and we've all been friends for ages but the affair only started earlier this year. His wife is absolutely lovely and I see her socially often which is awkward to say the least.

Pair of dickheads.

Oooh, is it Simon LeBon?

PulchritudinousLycanthrope · 16/08/2025 13:57

I used to work in a professional role that was partly a public facing role.

This might be a bit hard to follow. If I added more detail about the type of business, it would sound more believable but I can't as it would be outing. This is 100% true however.

I fancied a client and the client fancied me back. We went on a few dates and it was lovely.

My immediate superior/company owner knew this and for some reason told this client that he had shagged me himself when he certainly did not. It was an act of pure spite.

Client/ex immediately lost interest in me and I was puzzled and upset as I didn't know why.

Two years later my superior was trying to get a separate business off the ground as the first business was failing and he had hopes that this second business could save it and make a fortune into the bargain.

I met the client/ex on the street purely by accident and we stopped and chatted. He was engaged to be married by this time.

He asked me how things were going and, as I hadn't been paid for four months and I was feeling bitter, I was careful what I said but my face must have spoken volumes.

Client/ex stopped me and spoke. He seemed to know an awful lot about the second business my employer was trying to launch and then told me what my employer had told him two years ago (that he had shagged me) and also that he was considering putting a substantial sum of money into the second business my employer was trying to launch as my employer had approached him for funding and he had agreed. He knew of two other people that were planning on financing it too.

Because my employer had lied about shagging me which I knew to be out of pure spite/jealousy/whatever, I told client/ex this was a lie and that my employer was basically a scam artist who had broken the law to get the second business as far as it was (which was the truth). I told client/ex that my employers current business was about to be foreclosed (also true), and the second business was an utter scam way of trying to save the first business.

Client/ex and the three others withdrew their offers to fund in a collective letter to my employer as a result of my conversation with client/ex, although it didn't mention me. I left the same week. The business limped on for another nine months and the bank closed the doors for the last time.

I will never know if the second business would have saved the first. I don't care.

I don't know if my ex employer knew I blabbed. I don't care. He cock blocked me from a wonderful man that someone else is married to now.

I hope this all makes sense.

Klp122 · 16/08/2025 14:12

NNforthispost · 16/08/2025 11:18

New name for this as its outing.

ex boss tried it on with me. He is living with long term partner and teens, after they met at work (she was still married at time and was his secretary). After he’d admitted he’d not been faithful in the 19 years they’ve been together. He’s gone from one affair to another with short gaps in between.

Hes shagged everyone from receptionists to other senior partners at the firm.

He does generally choose people in a lower position so he has leverage 🤢.

He will ‘work’ until 1am some days but he’s actually sexting people (no not me - but not sure why he told me all this shit).

He’s currently shagging another team manager and they go on ‘work trips’ with clients so everyone must know.

Absolutely disgusted with him and he used the excuse that he’s just like roommates with his partner and they’ve not had sex since 2019. Am not surprised - I bet she knows and is just worn down.

Unfortunately she’s not working (been SAHM since they had their first) and he’s on over 170k so I bet she feels stuck.

Occasionally I see them out as a family and I’m always so tempted to say something but I don’t. He’s such a deceitful unpleasant man but has a very good ‘nice guy’ mask.

If it's a law firm then they are notorious for this sort of thing. Sounds like a Partner I once worked for.

MyDeftDuck · 16/08/2025 14:13

Horsie · 16/08/2025 13:41

Kate has green eyes, William has blue eyes, and their boys have brown eyes! So it can absolutely happen!

Thank you Horsie.

LearnSomeSocialSkills · 16/08/2025 14:22

@InBetweenTheLines im assuming the wife went home and said ‘someone hit my car but left their number’ and then left it up to her DH to phone to sort out, She probably didn’t know the location of the bump would be revealed?

ConnieHeart · 16/08/2025 14:47

LearnSomeSocialSkills · 16/08/2025 14:22

@InBetweenTheLines im assuming the wife went home and said ‘someone hit my car but left their number’ and then left it up to her DH to phone to sort out, She probably didn’t know the location of the bump would be revealed?

That'd weird, if I had a note left on my car I'd just sort it out myself

whackamole666 · 16/08/2025 15:03

MrsHiggins1 · 16/08/2025 10:36

I have regular meetings with a man who reminds me of the gay men on the Benidorm show. He is older and has a wife and children. I have never and will never say anything

When you say 'meetings' do you mean in a work context? Or rumpy puppy?

LearnSomeSocialSkills · 16/08/2025 15:38

@ConnieHeart as would I but, as the wife was driving when the car was hit and the phone number left, but it was the husband that phoned, it’s the only obvious explanation.

Upsidedownyourturningme · 16/08/2025 15:56

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/08/2025 12:09

Ooo 👀

Were you tempted? Was he hot?

I'll share this secret - if I recieved such a proposal as a single woman now, I'd go for it 🙈🤭

He is an ex from forever ago.

I have always thought about him a lot over the years. we had a pretty wild time together (in the ahem bedroom)

If I was single I would happily do it for free! I'm not however. I am not sure where the money aspect came from but in a fantasy only way it was pretty illicit and exciting! (I'm aware women aren't for sale but this was almost like him desiring me so much he'd pay £1000s of pounds for a night with me?!) Crazy.

Alas. Not single so can't happen paid or unpaid lol.