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To not understand the JD Vance weird face meme all over the Cotswolds?

250 replies

BlueJuniper94 · 15/08/2025 11:45

So I understand he is not popular and has recently been holidaying in the Cotswolds. But I don't understand this big exaggerated AI face some group has been putting on billboards and driving around.

Firstly, are they mocking his appearance? That's not very nice, no matter what someone's politics are, their actions should be the target not what they look like.

And if it is about his remarks about free speech - again, I really don't understand how this image "owns" him, he's a foreign politician. UK gov aren't going to care about that, wouldn't it make sense to prove the point by criticising power that is actually British?

Fill me in please, I don't understand - what am I missing?

OP posts:
quickncncncnc · 15/08/2025 15:59

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 15:39

I mean Nigel Farage

I don’t think far right means what you think it means 😊

pointythings · 15/08/2025 15:59

BlueJuniper94 · 15/08/2025 15:08

Has a Labour Councillor today not been cleared of any wrong-doing for his 'cutting throats' speech? Can you explain the nuance here that I must be missing - because his case seems very similar to that of a high profile sentence given to a certain woman last year

The difference is that Lucy Connolly chose to plead guilty. Had she not done that and gone to jury trial instead, I doubt the verdict would have been Guilty. That would have been wrong; the Ricky Jones verdict is also wrong. But two wrongs do not make a right.

Rallentanda · 15/08/2025 16:03

BlueJuniper94 · 15/08/2025 15:05

The tide has turned somewhat. But for a long time mumsnet was the only place. Without which, the movement wouldn't have made the progress is has. Sarah Pederson has written an excellent book about this.

When I encounter comments like yours I have two options: I can believe you genuinely believe this, and I can respond by listing numerous court cases and tribunals which have found in favour of women who have suffered very serious consequences for speaking in favour of women's rights. Consequences designed to silence anyone else who would risk saying the same.

Or I can doubt your sincerity, and believe people like you are typically participants in these disciplinary processes for women who you disagree with.

I'm erring on the later. I'd love to believe there was the potential for a good faith exchange to be had between us, but I suspect this optimism is misplaced, and that you don't care about the truth, whatever that may be. As such, it would be a waste of my time and yours. And both of us continue, further entrenched in our views.

I have as little to do with that topic as I possibly can, especially on Mumsnet.
You are correct that I don't care: about what you believe the truth to be. I have seen some horrendous twisting going on in various places and I don't engage.

Actually it is really annoying to have yet another thread be brought down to this.

pointythings · 15/08/2025 16:06

I am someone who has been aggressively challenged in a female toilet because clearly I don't woman well enough. Don't tell me the GC brigade are all well meaning, decent and acting in my best interests. Bollocks to that idea, there are as many zealots on one side as on the other.

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:06

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 15:39

I mean Nigel Farage

I'm not sure I'd call Nigel Farage far right.

I was expecting you to say he'd been meeting up with Tommy Robinson!!

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 16:06

quickncncncnc · 15/08/2025 15:59

I don’t think far right means what you think it means 😊

I think it does

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 16:07

I certainly perceive his repugnant views as to the far right of politics.

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 16:11

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:06

I'm not sure I'd call Nigel Farage far right.

I was expecting you to say he'd been meeting up with Tommy Robinson!!

Really? You don’t consider Farage far right?

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:12

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/08/2025 15:25

Some US visa types require social media profiles to be disclosed, and the ESTA has a question about it social media profiles which, although optional, in true US style it’s not necessarily obvious to all that it is optional. Even if you don’t disclose it, as you say, immigration can still ask. And to many in real free countries that seems like an overreach reach - a little too ‘thought police’ for a proper democracy!

Thank you, didn't know that re: US visa types. I expect it to look for possible links to terrorism.

Wrt entry into the US. Imo it's always been a bit crazy. I can remember being surprised at getting the 3rd degree the first time I went there in about 1994.

A few years before that I worked with someone (middle aged staff nurse, not obviously public enemy number 1) who was actually refused entry to the US and escorted to a return flight !!

She was really upset, had planned the holiday for some time and to make it worse they wouldn't tell her why she was refused entry.

US border control have always been a bit maverick i think.

Locutus2000 · 15/08/2025 16:13

BlueJuniper94 · 15/08/2025 14:56

I think it's morally wrong to criticise anyone's appearance in order to emotionally wound them. For whatever reason. As I said, their deeds and words should be the target, always. Just because Trump does something doesn't make it legitimate or good, do you generally follow his example? This is an odd argument

I can't be bothered getting into it with you, you aren't interested in anyone's opinion other than your own.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 15/08/2025 16:29

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 16:11

Really? You don’t consider Farage far right?

Technically, he's a populist, not far right. If the public wanted to abolish the monarchy and introduce the Internationale as the new anthem, he'd be advocating it everywhere if it would get the most votes.

Populism is generally constructed on foundations of right wing thinking because it puts "us" on a collision course with an alleged corrupt or out-of-touch elite, is often characterised by anti-establishment rhetoric and a claim to represent "the will of the people". It frequently involves a strong sense of nationalism and a suspicion of outsiders, including immigrants and other minority groups. It's about lowering everything to an emotional level with a distinct lack of any real ideology or thought process involved. It's harder (but not inpossible) to get that "rampant" single-mindedness on the left because the left is chracterised by ideology and therefore debate. Hence the left fractures more around disagreements on policy / ideology; the right fractures around people.

DdraigGoch · 15/08/2025 16:31

BlueJuniper94 · 15/08/2025 15:05

The tide has turned somewhat. But for a long time mumsnet was the only place. Without which, the movement wouldn't have made the progress is has. Sarah Pederson has written an excellent book about this.

When I encounter comments like yours I have two options: I can believe you genuinely believe this, and I can respond by listing numerous court cases and tribunals which have found in favour of women who have suffered very serious consequences for speaking in favour of women's rights. Consequences designed to silence anyone else who would risk saying the same.

Or I can doubt your sincerity, and believe people like you are typically participants in these disciplinary processes for women who you disagree with.

I'm erring on the later. I'd love to believe there was the potential for a good faith exchange to be had between us, but I suspect this optimism is misplaced, and that you don't care about the truth, whatever that may be. As such, it would be a waste of my time and yours. And both of us continue, further entrenched in our views.

The results of the court cases prove that the law was on the side of free speech all along. Despite the attempts by some organisations to "get ahead of the law"

StMarie4me · 15/08/2025 16:35

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 11:55

Someone wasn’t allowed in the USA because they posted that meme face.
he apparently hates it.

he called the uk an irrelevant country. Yet wanted to holiday here
he said we don’t have free speech.
He shut down an entire village with an entourage larger than the kings.
He stopped people getting freely to their homes and having visitors.
he had meetings with political far right figures on his supposed holiday.
his (not so) secret service knocked on doors asking for people’s social media handles.

All of this.

Plus he wants to reduce women’s rights wholesale.

Why WOULDN’T people take the piss?

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:37

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 16:11

Really? You don’t consider Farage far right?

Not really, no. I suppose it depends where you're viewing him from. I'm viewing him from the centre but if someone is very left wing then he'll appear to be far right to them.

Poppingby · 15/08/2025 16:39

Mustbethat · 15/08/2025 15:58

That’s not what they did though.

they made an incorrect statement.

so they’re basing their shock on “cultural differences” that don’t exist.

bit like me saying I’m shocked that no one in the us can show their ankles. Not saying it’s wrong, or expressing support either way, just acknowledging a point of stress.

No, we don't have "freedom of speech" in the UK. They are not incorrect. Read @Tryingtokeepgoing's post on the different systems. Maybe we can say what we want unless it's illegal to say it, but that is not the same as the constitutional right to free speech Americans have (or are supposed to - currently debatable).

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 16:43

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:37

Not really, no. I suppose it depends where you're viewing him from. I'm viewing him from the centre but if someone is very left wing then he'll appear to be far right to them.

I’m viewing him from the centre too! His long- held views on immigrants, his xenophobia, his views on women, etc, qualify him as pretty far right to me, and indeed how many ‘ centre ground’ media outlets describe him.
Perhaps a more useful debate opener would be, why do you consider him not far right? Genuinely interested in your view, not trying to be snarky!

PhilippaGeorgiou · 15/08/2025 16:43

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:37

Not really, no. I suppose it depends where you're viewing him from. I'm viewing him from the centre but if someone is very left wing then he'll appear to be far right to them.

I am very, very left wing. I still say he isn't far right. He's a populist.

To be fair, if he was to the far right of me by about 500 miles right now, I'd be happy with that position. He'd be somewhere in the middle of the North Atlantic and hopefully without a boat of any size.

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 16:44

PhilippaGeorgiou · 15/08/2025 16:29

Technically, he's a populist, not far right. If the public wanted to abolish the monarchy and introduce the Internationale as the new anthem, he'd be advocating it everywhere if it would get the most votes.

Populism is generally constructed on foundations of right wing thinking because it puts "us" on a collision course with an alleged corrupt or out-of-touch elite, is often characterised by anti-establishment rhetoric and a claim to represent "the will of the people". It frequently involves a strong sense of nationalism and a suspicion of outsiders, including immigrants and other minority groups. It's about lowering everything to an emotional level with a distinct lack of any real ideology or thought process involved. It's harder (but not inpossible) to get that "rampant" single-mindedness on the left because the left is chracterised by ideology and therefore debate. Hence the left fractures more around disagreements on policy / ideology; the right fractures around people.

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LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:45

It's harder (but not inpossible) to get that "rampant" single-mindedness on the left because the left is chracterised by ideology and therefore debate.

With respect @PhilippaGeorgiou as
a recovering Guardian reader I would strongly disagree with the lefts openess for debate 😂

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:49

Clafoutie · 15/08/2025 16:43

I’m viewing him from the centre too! His long- held views on immigrants, his xenophobia, his views on women, etc, qualify him as pretty far right to me, and indeed how many ‘ centre ground’ media outlets describe him.
Perhaps a more useful debate opener would be, why do you consider him not far right? Genuinely interested in your view, not trying to be snarky!

My far-right-a-meter uses someone like Hitler to compare against. Farage is no where near that right wing.

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 16:49

I’m centre left and think his views are far right.
i hope this explanation makes sense.
the amount of coverage he’s had means he’s legitimised racist views. He’s made it ok and normal to say abhorrent things. Which has made him seem not so far right. Ultimately he’s still spouting racist, misogynistic xenophobic views. Putting him on the bbc every week, doesn’t make that ok. It’s just normalised it

PhilippaGeorgiou · 15/08/2025 16:51

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:45

It's harder (but not inpossible) to get that "rampant" single-mindedness on the left because the left is chracterised by ideology and therefore debate.

With respect @PhilippaGeorgiou as
a recovering Guardian reader I would strongly disagree with the lefts openess for debate 😂

With respect, there is no "the left". There are so many differences that you could not possibly get a uniform view. I didn't suggest that "debate" is the same thing as "agreed conclusion". I also don't think the Guardian has ever been "the left". I am not requiring recovery from Das Kapital. It is still the only rational explanation for the last 150 years or so of the world economy.

FatherFrosty · 15/08/2025 16:53

I grew up in a town with a massive national front group. The stuff Nigel Farage says is the same stuff they spouted. He just does it with a smile and a suit

LittlePigRobinson · 15/08/2025 16:57

PhilippaGeorgiou · 15/08/2025 16:51

With respect, there is no "the left". There are so many differences that you could not possibly get a uniform view. I didn't suggest that "debate" is the same thing as "agreed conclusion". I also don't think the Guardian has ever been "the left". I am not requiring recovery from Das Kapital. It is still the only rational explanation for the last 150 years or so of the world economy.

@PhilippaGeorgiou,
Sorry, you've lost me. You were the one who initially referred to 'the left'.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/08/2025 17:01

He was pretty mocking and disrespectful about Zelenskys attire at the White House so I feel lost any concession to that card a long time ago.

And he’s a shit stirring, disrespectful twat anyway.