Or is this sense of humour failure...?

[Fufulina]

Hi - I'm 13 weeks pregnant, just had my scan and feeling positive about it for the first time. A good friend of mine had a hideous time with her first - traumatic birth, PND, etc, etc. Spoke to her yesterday about scan. All good. Spoke to her today, and she'd just been to an NCT reunion.

She said "if you'd been where I've just been you'd be booking yourself in for a termination".

Am I being unreasonable that I thought this was just a bit much?

Sorry for rant.

yanbu but she was being a little careless with what she said maybe?

bit of a distaseful thing to say, but maybe she had just had a bad day!

She sounds like a loon for want of a better word.

yanbu
what a horrid thing to say

Was she trying to be funny?

Thanks ladies. I think she'd had a bad day, and just wasn't thinking...

have you mentioned it to her about how what she said made you feel?

Definately not sense of humour failure, what a strange thing to say

YANBU - horrible thing to say - but probably just thoughtless and insensitive rather then nasty.

glad scan went ok. it's amazing isn't it? seeing those little hearts beating for the first time

Maybe it is secretly what she wishes she had done if she has had a bad time?