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Uk is in big trouble - what do you think will happen?

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hippysun · 13/08/2025 10:03

Thames water on brink of collapse. All those CEOs getting fat bonuses. Water shortages and rising bills.

the cost of living is off the chart. Every bill has gone up. Pop in to Tesco for toothpaste, butter and chicken and it costs an insane amount for just a few items.

the government are crap and taxing the hell out of us.

my salary is stuck. I feel constantly poor now. 10 years ago when I earned significantly less, I felt ok money wise. Chatted today to a colleague about science graduate son who is stuck doing a minimum wage job as there are no jobs here. I’ve noticed this myself in my town. The council have a few, other companies outsourced to India years ago, the pharma company moved out years ago and the land will soon be a new housing estate.

the nhs is a total mess.

housing costs make me want to weep! No chance of moving. Feel bad for my kids. They just keep building expensive houses here all packed into poorly designed estates. Tiny gardens. But no infrastructure. The promised schools get cancelled and drs surgeries and hospitals are rammed with patients. My mortgage of course is up.

in my industry… everyone is obsessed with AI and I’m sad to say it has taken some jobs already. There is a huge push towards AI.

there seems to be underlying tension here re migrants. People getting increasingly annoyed.

this country feels like a right mess. Making rich people richer and poor people even poorer. The middle earners are getting squeezed. I hate it.

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

why is it so terrible? And what do you think will happen?

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DuncinToffee · 13/08/2025 20:50

TheNuthatch · 13/08/2025 20:44

You can believe whatever you like. People are not going to Reform because they adore Farage. They are going to Reform because Labour have failed. Bashing Farage for previous conduct will make no difference whatsoever.

Do you really believe people would vote Reform without Farage?

smugmugg · 13/08/2025 20:50

I assumed @PandoraSocks was being sarcastic!

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 20:50

Agrumpyknitter · 13/08/2025 20:49

Rubbish. Brexit supposedly was going to give millions to the NHS (lies) and allow the UK to have sovereignty over its borders to stop the boats. Well that was a load of rubbish, wasn’t it? Farage sold those Brexit lies and has just re rebranded to Reform and the gormless believe him.

Farage isn’t for the working class he’s a public schooled millionaire grifter who sees himself as your better and don’t you forget it when there’s no NHS and you can’t afford to see the GP (if they get in).

Your irony detector is faulty.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 20:52

Agrumpyknitter · 13/08/2025 20:49

Rubbish. Brexit supposedly was going to give millions to the NHS (lies) and allow the UK to have sovereignty over its borders to stop the boats. Well that was a load of rubbish, wasn’t it? Farage sold those Brexit lies and has just re rebranded to Reform and the gormless believe him.

Farage isn’t for the working class he’s a public schooled millionaire grifter who sees himself as your better and don’t you forget it when there’s no NHS and you can’t afford to see the GP (if they get in).

So same as Starmer then? An ex-independent school, Oxford educated millionaire.
That's my point and highlights why Starmer and Labour are hated. They came in on a campaign of "we are different" "grown ups are on charge" "transparency". They are just the same as Tories but actually worse because they are hypocrites. They lied to get in and are incompetent once in.
That's why there is so much anger against them.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 20:53

smugmugg · 13/08/2025 20:39

@twistyizzy what are Reform going to do to improve the lives of those in the North or the poor?

It doesn't matter. People aren't voting for Reform because of policies, they are either a protest vote or a vote against the 2 main party system.
They don't need policies.

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 20:53

smugmugg · 13/08/2025 20:50

I think they do and Labour are seeing it in the polls

But Reforms policies are bullshit so people switching to Reform can't be bothered about lying.

I could say the same thing about Labour and people who vote for Labour 🤷‍♀️

strawberrybubblegum · 13/08/2025 20:56

Agrumpyknitter · 13/08/2025 20:45

where were you when the Tories were decimating our public services for the past 14 years? Labour is trying to put some of it right. It’s stopped the water bosses from getting bonuses as you claim, did you know that? They’re making a huge investment in the NHS and they’re committed to growth in the London Markets (I work in Financial services so this is happening right now).

all the poor non doms (millionaires who were leaving the uk in droves) because they’re finally having to pay their way and you’re only concerned now because all the papers owned by billionaires are telling you to be worried. Why is that? They don’t want to pay their way.

Even Labour are listening to lobbists and the rich and are not going as far as they should. I agree it’s always the middle who are being squeezed. But they’re committing to more green energy not allowing fracking to ruin the environment.

whats the alternative? Vote reform who will ruin the country.
Farage always votes against workers rights, will dismantle the NHS, he voted against the free breakfasts that Labour introduced and called it some ‘socialist’ nightmare and he’s great mates with Andrew Tate so that shows you how much he values women.

Non doms not paying their way?!?

The total UK income tax, capital gains tax and national insurance paid by all non-doms was £8.49 billion in the year to 5 April 2022, an average of just over £120,000 each.

How much tax did you pay last year?!? Yet somehow you think you're paying your way and they're not? 😂

And now Rachel Reeves expects them to pay IHT on their international assets: non-UK assets, earned outside the UK by non-UK citizens , and she has the gall to expect 40% ?!? Labour are the very worst CFs.

Ah well, you'll miss them when they're gone.

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 20:58

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 20:53

I could say the same thing about Labour and people who vote for Labour 🤷‍♀️

You could. You’d be wrong.

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 21:00

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 20:53

I could say the same thing about Labour and people who vote for Labour 🤷‍♀️

Yep people just dismiss it as they’re loyal to Labour.

Ratafia · 13/08/2025 21:03

You think this government is crap? Don't you remember who was in power for 14 years and brought us to this state of affairs?

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:04

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 20:47

Whataboutery as a distraction. Labour are in power now and you said you would be fuming with them.

So this week Labour have:
Anti corruption minister charged with corruption
Homeless minister making people homeless
Councillor up in court for inciting riots
Lammy fishing without a licence
Lammy spends 50K of taxpayer money on a party

Any more for any more?

Again, behave. Are you unaware of the previous government’s record?

However, if it makes you happy:

First two, outrageous, if proven, they must be sacked and/or charged iif appropriate. Obviously.

Only reference I can find to the last three is in the right wing press, so you’ll forgive me if I hold judgement and take a dose of salt?

Were by any chance any of the guests diplomats or politicians from overseas at David Lammy’s “party”?
If so, probably the going rate (Liz Truss’s in-flight entertainment bills, anyone?)
If it was a party for his kids and their mates Edith bouncy castles? Yep, would be seriously cross and expect his arse to be handed to him in a plate.

As an earlier poster said, context is everything.

Fishing without a license? Don’t be a dick. It was an official photo opportunity with the VP of the US (who, for the record, I also think is a dock).
Barrel scraping.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 21:05

Ratafia · 13/08/2025 21:03

You think this government is crap? Don't you remember who was in power for 14 years and brought us to this state of affairs?

Apparently mentioning the Tories is (very conveniently) whattaboutery.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:07

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:04

Again, behave. Are you unaware of the previous government’s record?

However, if it makes you happy:

First two, outrageous, if proven, they must be sacked and/or charged iif appropriate. Obviously.

Only reference I can find to the last three is in the right wing press, so you’ll forgive me if I hold judgement and take a dose of salt?

Were by any chance any of the guests diplomats or politicians from overseas at David Lammy’s “party”?
If so, probably the going rate (Liz Truss’s in-flight entertainment bills, anyone?)
If it was a party for his kids and their mates Edith bouncy castles? Yep, would be seriously cross and expect his arse to be handed to him in a plate.

As an earlier poster said, context is everything.

Fishing without a license? Don’t be a dick. It was an official photo opportunity with the VP of the US (who, for the record, I also think is a dock).
Barrel scraping.

You can't find the news about Rick Jones anywhere other than RW news yet it's on the BBC:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/articles/cj6yyw13w4jo.amp

Redirect Notice

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/articles/cj6yyw13w4jo.amp

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:08

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:04

Again, behave. Are you unaware of the previous government’s record?

However, if it makes you happy:

First two, outrageous, if proven, they must be sacked and/or charged iif appropriate. Obviously.

Only reference I can find to the last three is in the right wing press, so you’ll forgive me if I hold judgement and take a dose of salt?

Were by any chance any of the guests diplomats or politicians from overseas at David Lammy’s “party”?
If so, probably the going rate (Liz Truss’s in-flight entertainment bills, anyone?)
If it was a party for his kids and their mates Edith bouncy castles? Yep, would be seriously cross and expect his arse to be handed to him in a plate.

As an earlier poster said, context is everything.

Fishing without a license? Don’t be a dick. It was an official photo opportunity with the VP of the US (who, for the record, I also think is a dock).
Barrel scraping.

Fishing without a licence

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/aug/13/david-lammy-watchdog-illegal-fishing-without-license-jd-vance

Lammy refers himself to watchdog after fishing illegally with JD Vance

Foreign secretary reports ‘oversight’ to Environment Agency after failing to acquire necessary rod licence

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/aug/13/david-lammy-watchdog-illegal-fishing-without-license-jd-vance

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:08

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:04

Again, behave. Are you unaware of the previous government’s record?

However, if it makes you happy:

First two, outrageous, if proven, they must be sacked and/or charged iif appropriate. Obviously.

Only reference I can find to the last three is in the right wing press, so you’ll forgive me if I hold judgement and take a dose of salt?

Were by any chance any of the guests diplomats or politicians from overseas at David Lammy’s “party”?
If so, probably the going rate (Liz Truss’s in-flight entertainment bills, anyone?)
If it was a party for his kids and their mates Edith bouncy castles? Yep, would be seriously cross and expect his arse to be handed to him in a plate.

As an earlier poster said, context is everything.

Fishing without a license? Don’t be a dick. It was an official photo opportunity with the VP of the US (who, for the record, I also think is a dock).
Barrel scraping.

I'm a dick?

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 21:08

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 14:48

My take on the UK is to stop trying and then, you’ll stop caring by default.

Example . I had one child and then realised that I would never be able to do enough for them to make their life better than what mine was. My childhood in the 80’s was idyllic.
So I stopped at one.

My husband and I both earn between £55,000- £60,000 a year and have good saving capacity. But we don’t bother. Instead we’ve spent the past 20 years buying what our son needs and blowing the rest. Indulging in extremely expensive holidays and on beautiful jewellery. After 25 years of work, we have less than 10,000 in our bank accounts. £5000 in a joint account and then a couple of grand each in our current accounts.

We are currently on a month long trip to the states, blowing last years earnings. When we come back we will book for next year.

We will continue to live like this, as it makes life spectacularly enjoyable. When we die, we will leave the house to our son, but I might transfer that over to him sooner and buy a camper van.

My husband and I made a decision to live out our lives having a fabulous time and leave as little as possible that could be taxed - then we don’t have to worry about tomorrow. The UK is very poorly governed and much too socialist for my liking. The government love other people’s hard earned money, so spend it and enjoy it is my mantra and if you start accumulating too much (as mortgages are paid off etc) then reduce working time and earnings.

My parents are very comfortably off. Having worked hard their whole lives (My dad works a physical job for over 50 years and is nearly 70. I never remember him taking a day off sick) , they are now spending their twilight years enjoying multiple holidays in 5 star accommodation and luxurious suites. My dad is a builder and has a successful businesss working with my brother. My mum worked a stressful management job for many years in the NHS and latterly semi-retired as a cleaner. Both my brother and I have encouraged them to spend every last penny of what they have accumulated. Going by the actions of the current government, I am glad that they are doing so and am fully supportive of them.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:10

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:04

Again, behave. Are you unaware of the previous government’s record?

However, if it makes you happy:

First two, outrageous, if proven, they must be sacked and/or charged iif appropriate. Obviously.

Only reference I can find to the last three is in the right wing press, so you’ll forgive me if I hold judgement and take a dose of salt?

Were by any chance any of the guests diplomats or politicians from overseas at David Lammy’s “party”?
If so, probably the going rate (Liz Truss’s in-flight entertainment bills, anyone?)
If it was a party for his kids and their mates Edith bouncy castles? Yep, would be seriously cross and expect his arse to be handed to him in a plate.

As an earlier poster said, context is everything.

Fishing without a license? Don’t be a dick. It was an official photo opportunity with the VP of the US (who, for the record, I also think is a dock).
Barrel scraping.

You've just highlighted everything that's wrong with Labour.
They are no better than Tories yet hold themselves in much higher esteem

You excuse all the same behaviour that you damn the Tories for. Complete hypocrisy.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:11

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:10

You've just highlighted everything that's wrong with Labour.
They are no better than Tories yet hold themselves in much higher esteem

You excuse all the same behaviour that you damn the Tories for. Complete hypocrisy.

I have done no such thing.

TheNuthatch · 13/08/2025 21:11

DuncinToffee · 13/08/2025 20:50

Do you really believe people would vote Reform without Farage?

Yes I think they would in the current climate. People really loathed the tories, now they loathe Labour. Farage is a very successful communicator, but all Reform need to do.is give the disaffected and angry somewhere to go. If Farage steps down, those people will still want somewhere to go.
None of Reform's success is down to Farage, it's down to Starmer.

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 21:11

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 20:58

You could. You’d be wrong.

Well that’s your opinion. Plenty of people feel the same as I do.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:11

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 21:05

Apparently mentioning the Tories is (very conveniently) whattaboutery.

Because it is and here is a handy guide:
A rhetorical tactic where someone responds to an accusation or criticism by deflecting attention to another issue or action, often by pointing out a similar wrong committed by the accuser or a third party. It's a form of argument that shifts the focus from the original issue to a different one, often implying that the accuser is also guilty of the same or similar wrongdoing.

So when someone criticises Labour and you say "but what about the Tories" then yes, that's whataboutery.

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 21:12

smugmugg · 13/08/2025 20:50

I assumed @PandoraSocks was being sarcastic!

Well yes. I think maybe @mrsskylerwhite didn't see my username!

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 21:13

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 21:11

I have done no such thing.

You have.

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 21:13

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 21:11

Well that’s your opinion. Plenty of people feel the same as I do.

OK. So how is Reform going to pay for raising the tax threshold to £20k?

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 21:14

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 21:13

OK. So how is Reform going to pay for raising the tax threshold to £20k?

Where did I say anything about Reform?

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