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To find these New Look school uniform adverts unacceptable?

273 replies

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 13:27

Just that really - screen shot below.

mini skirts , cherries, twirling hair ?

am I a prude or are these just evidence of sexualisation of young women?

To find these New Look school uniform adverts unacceptable?
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BCBird · 11/08/2025 22:23

Disgraceful. It is hard trying to enforce school uniform in schools because shops sell clothes that are unsuitable under the guise of school uniform.

Biculturalfamily · 11/08/2025 23:50

cosimarama · 11/08/2025 22:07

Bear in mind the level of effort and decision making that goes into these campaigns. There are so many teams involved in each aspect, slogans, models, styling, photography, director etc nothing is by accident. New Look as a fairly major British retailer aimed at tweens and women have said what schoolgirls are to them, what the children should aspire to, and it feels grotty.

There could have been an uplifting element of learning, teamwork, sport, play, empowerment. Clothes for children going to school could have included elements of comfort, durability or function. This is about slim models posing and trying to look seductive in a lot of make up.

Yep, nothing is by accident. I hope that some New Look executives are reading this and either rethinking their strategy or getting v worried

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 11/08/2025 23:58

Xiaoxiong · 11/08/2025 13:37

The cherries are just grim. Reference to "popping the cherry" I assume <vom>

Oh god, I bought my 14yo a lovely purse with cherrys on, it never occurred to me 🤦‍♀️. She’s not used it so I expect I could sneak it out of her room and she wouldn’t notice. It’s a shame though because it’s really nice.

I teach at secondary level and to be honest this is what a lot of year 10 and 11 girls seem to look like these days. I didn’t really register it as inappropriate because I see it every day and I guess I’m desensitised. It’s interesting seeing it through other people’s eyes though.

Inyournewdress · 12/08/2025 00:28

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 11/08/2025 23:58

Oh god, I bought my 14yo a lovely purse with cherrys on, it never occurred to me 🤦‍♀️. She’s not used it so I expect I could sneak it out of her room and she wouldn’t notice. It’s a shame though because it’s really nice.

I teach at secondary level and to be honest this is what a lot of year 10 and 11 girls seem to look like these days. I didn’t really register it as inappropriate because I see it every day and I guess I’m desensitised. It’s interesting seeing it through other people’s eyes though.

I wouldn’t worry about cherries as a pattern on an item so much, it’s the random placement of the ones superimposed on the advert that is odder.

Inyournewdress · 12/08/2025 00:30

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 21:21

I bet if you asked those teens then they wouldn't know that "popping the cherry" was a term. It's really not that common now

Like deflowered...

i bet the marketing team know what it means though

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 12/08/2025 00:58

Inyournewdress · 12/08/2025 00:30

i bet the marketing team know what it means though

Depends

If they are made up of young "hip" types around the main demographic age of the target market... I'd not be surprised they didn't

It's really not modern slang and the cherry motif is everywhere

BondAway25 · 12/08/2025 02:47

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 19:44

Honestly quite bland. Wouldn’t recommend. Quantity is not matched by quality.

Oh, thanks for confirming my suspicion!!

There's a green grocers in the next town over, so I must pop over before the season ends!!

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 12/08/2025 06:39

I can testify that teenagers knew the implications of cherries circa 2010. Understanding sexual innuendo is high priority for teenagers, so I don't see it having slipped out of vocabulary that fast. It's not like using a rotary phone.

OrangeAxolotyl · 12/08/2025 07:42

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 11/08/2025 23:58

Oh god, I bought my 14yo a lovely purse with cherrys on, it never occurred to me 🤦‍♀️. She’s not used it so I expect I could sneak it out of her room and she wouldn’t notice. It’s a shame though because it’s really nice.

I teach at secondary level and to be honest this is what a lot of year 10 and 11 girls seem to look like these days. I didn’t really register it as inappropriate because I see it every day and I guess I’m desensitised. It’s interesting seeing it through other people’s eyes though.

I'm surprised you're desensitised. Where I work we seem to get so many Safeguarding and Child Protection updates it tends to make me more aware. Plus, we're always told to err on the side of caution, be aware of signs, CPOM if in doubt.

OrangeAxolotyl · 12/08/2025 07:43

The problem, as pp have said,is the marketing. Presenting young girls as sexually aware and flirtatious, at the very least. It's not appropriate.

faffadoodledo · 12/08/2025 07:44

@UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld I have checked with a young friend (29 yo) who is an account manager at a big London branding company and also an english lit grad. She knows what cherries signify - innocence interrupted. She knew the other allusion too, because she is VERY hip indeed. But she's also bright, and knew the older allusion.

I conclude the use of the motif was deliberate on two levels.

SunnyDolly · 12/08/2025 07:47

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 19:35

Honestly if my one post influences New Looks sales so much, I can proudly claim to have finally become an influencer ;)

This has been my thought too - I had no clue NL did uniform and I’ve gone straight to their site to take a look! Take a bow, OP 🤣

faffadoodledo · 12/08/2025 07:48

Biculturalfamily · 11/08/2025 23:50

Yep, nothing is by accident. I hope that some New Look executives are reading this and either rethinking their strategy or getting v worried

Sadly I don' think they'll be worried. This thread has demonstrated a lack of awareness and concern about the looks and imagery shown in the advert. If anything they'll be thinking oh goodie, we've got some traction here.

Very depressing.

Just show girls learning or doing - as a mother that's what would draw me to spend money.

Isittimeformynapyet · 12/08/2025 09:47

Momstermash94 · 11/08/2025 16:07

Believe it or not those girls skirts are longer than some of them on the school girls I've seen around here. Some of them are horrifically short and cover nothing

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It's amazing how many of you totally missed the point of the thread. This is not about skirt length.

myplace · 12/08/2025 09:55

An advert for clarks shoes came on last night. Compare and contrast. It was kids of both sexes running, jumping, careening around… not a hip pop or a placed toe to be seen.

The13thFairy · 12/08/2025 10:12

Primethought · 11/08/2025 13:32

I think the photos are OK, more demure than what teen girls here are wearing irl, but I'm not sure what the cherries are there for...

We know why the cherries are there.

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 12/08/2025 11:15

It’s giving Britney Spears in the ‘00s.

330ml · 12/08/2025 11:58

The13thFairy · 12/08/2025 10:12

We know why the cherries are there.

Yes, it was explained in this earlier post.

“It's an old and oudated, no longer relevant reference. It's currently a trendy logo based on its use as a logo at a very popular club in the Ibiza clubbing scene, and hence why it's popular with secondary age children. It's not used currently to denote sexuality in modern culture, it's a trendy logo linked to the clubbing scene, and is a popular logo on teens clothes without sexual overtones”

DelphiniumDoreen · 12/08/2025 13:59

330ml · 12/08/2025 11:58

Yes, it was explained in this earlier post.

“It's an old and oudated, no longer relevant reference. It's currently a trendy logo based on its use as a logo at a very popular club in the Ibiza clubbing scene, and hence why it's popular with secondary age children. It's not used currently to denote sexuality in modern culture, it's a trendy logo linked to the clubbing scene, and is a popular logo on teens clothes without sexual overtones”

For 80% of the population, it DOES denote sexuality.

PeonyPatch · 12/08/2025 14:15

I agree that the cherries and their placement is soooo random and weird!!!

PansyPotter84 · 12/08/2025 19:54

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 12/08/2025 11:15

It’s giving Britney Spears in the ‘00s.

THAT Britney Speers video would be banned now.

The 00s was as icky as the 70s.

Clubs used to do school uniform
nights which no doubt attracted the pervs.

Glad we don’t see those any more.

PansyPotter84 · 12/08/2025 19:55

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ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 13/08/2025 09:35

OrangeAxolotyl · 12/08/2025 07:42

I'm surprised you're desensitised. Where I work we seem to get so many Safeguarding and Child Protection updates it tends to make me more aware. Plus, we're always told to err on the side of caution, be aware of signs, CPOM if in doubt.

Oh I’m not desensitised to all the safeguarding stuff, you couldn’t be working in a school. But to teenage girls presenting like this I am desensitised. The school before my last one had rather lost control of the makeup situation and over half the year 11 girls were coming in with a full face of makeup every day. There were also a lot of false eyelashes and nails. It’s really sad, but when they’re all doing it it becomes less of an obvious sign of concern if that makes sense.

faffadoodledo · 13/08/2025 11:07

There's a clear distinction though isn't there, @ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine , between kids doing it to themselves and adults presenting those kids for profit? Nothing wrong with profit - I'm a capitalist like the rest of us. But those images are obv made by adults, and feature children. As you say, you can get used to the kids looking like that, but when one realises it's adults doing it, it becomes yucky doesn't it?

I think that's a difference a lot of people don't seem to be able to grasp

OrangeAxolotyl · 13/08/2025 15:32

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 13/08/2025 09:35

Oh I’m not desensitised to all the safeguarding stuff, you couldn’t be working in a school. But to teenage girls presenting like this I am desensitised. The school before my last one had rather lost control of the makeup situation and over half the year 11 girls were coming in with a full face of makeup every day. There were also a lot of false eyelashes and nails. It’s really sad, but when they’re all doing it it becomes less of an obvious sign of concern if that makes sense.

No, it's a Safeguarding issue if you can see a young girl's bottom because her skirt is so short. So I never ignore how they dress, and report if it causes concern.
I've been teaching for many years. I'll never get desensitised.