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To find these New Look school uniform adverts unacceptable?

273 replies

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 13:27

Just that really - screen shot below.

mini skirts , cherries, twirling hair ?

am I a prude or are these just evidence of sexualisation of young women?

To find these New Look school uniform adverts unacceptable?
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FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 18:43

WearyAuldWumman · 11/08/2025 18:33

I doubt that parents find sexualised marketing appealing.

Re: the connotation of cherries when juxtaposed with images of schoolgirls.

I dare say that this is something that some people are unaware of, but those involved in marketing are certainly aware of this within popular culture.

The clothes in this piece of marketing are not as sexualised as the clothes many young girls are currently wearing to school.

Many mothers clearly are happy to send their daughters to school in sexualized clothing.

The problem here lies with the mothers who were allowing their daughters to wear these clothes the school. The marketers are simply responding to this trend in the market - that's what they're paid for.

user1476613140 · 11/08/2025 18:43

It's the daft suggestive facial expressions that are completely inappropriate. They're children fgs!

TaborlinTheGreat · 11/08/2025 18:43

FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 18:11

But this is what girls are wearing to school these days.
New Look are simply responding to their market.

The problem here, if you think there is one, isn't New Look, it's the mothers who allow their daughters to go to school dress like this, and in many cases, dressed in a more revealing way.

They don't necessarily 'let' them. My mother, who is about to turn 80, loved telling me how as a teenager she'd roll her skirt up and put her make-up on at the bus stop because her parents wouldn't let her go out of the house looking like that. I'm willing to bet that a lot of the students at the girls' school whereI teach do the same.

CoffeeCantata · 11/08/2025 18:44

Should have clarified- the girls were in school uniform.

FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 18:46

TaborlinTheGreat · 11/08/2025 18:43

They don't necessarily 'let' them. My mother, who is about to turn 80, loved telling me how as a teenager she'd roll her skirt up and put her make-up on at the bus stop because her parents wouldn't let her go out of the house looking like that. I'm willing to bet that a lot of the students at the girls' school whereI teach do the same.

Fair point.

FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 18:46

user1476613140 · 11/08/2025 18:43

It's the daft suggestive facial expressions that are completely inappropriate. They're children fgs!

Have you seen the facial expressions in sixteen year old girls selfies?

Nearlyneverready · 11/08/2025 18:47

Aimed at ages 9-15

ffs

To find these New Look school uniform adverts unacceptable?
mrsm43s · 11/08/2025 18:47

faffadoodledo · 11/08/2025 18:38

@330ml the cherry thing is quite an old reference. You don’t need porn sites to tell you that. In Shakespeare cherry lips are referenced and alluded to to sexuality.
Popping one’s cherry was definitely around as an idiom in the 80s when I was a teen, and it meant losing one’s virginity.

It's an old and oudated, no longer relevant reference. It's currently a trendy logo based on its use as a logo at a very popular club in the Ibiza clubbing scene, and hence why it's popular with secondary age children. It's not used currently to denote sexuality in modern culture, it's a trendy logo linked to the clubbing scene, and is a popular logo on teens clothes without sexual overtones.

PansyPotter84 · 11/08/2025 18:58

At Uni I once went out with a boy who, when I went back to his halls, I saw had a poster on the wall.

It was of a blonde teenage girl in a school uniform with her white knickers visible up her skirt who was sucking on a pencil suggestively.

The slogan on the poster was “Study hard”.

Needless to say I quickly made my excuses and never went out with him again.

That was over 20 years ago but this sort of thing is still being marketed?

Surely the Advertising Stabdards Authority should look at this?

TaborlinTheGreat · 11/08/2025 19:01

FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 18:46

Have you seen the facial expressions in sixteen year old girls selfies?

Again, some things that teenagers do should not necessarily be depicted in adverts.

FenderStrat · 11/08/2025 19:07

TaborlinTheGreat · 11/08/2025 19:01

Again, some things that teenagers do should not necessarily be depicted in adverts.

That's a morals and values based question.

Good luck with that in a marketing environment!

ThatCyanCat · 11/08/2025 19:16

PansyPotter84 · 11/08/2025 18:58

At Uni I once went out with a boy who, when I went back to his halls, I saw had a poster on the wall.

It was of a blonde teenage girl in a school uniform with her white knickers visible up her skirt who was sucking on a pencil suggestively.

The slogan on the poster was “Study hard”.

Needless to say I quickly made my excuses and never went out with him again.

That was over 20 years ago but this sort of thing is still being marketed?

Surely the Advertising Stabdards Authority should look at this?

As much as I dislike it, I don't think it's at the level where ASA would be involved. However, anyone can make a complaint.

Why couldn't they just have shown the girls chatting and giggling together in the halls or taking a happy group selfie?

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 19:35

Primethought · 11/08/2025 15:18

That's not how this will play out. There'll be dar more thinking maybe we'll find something to suit DD without breaking the bank, than will write to ASA 🤣 I mean, even you have time to post here but not to write.

Honestly if my one post influences New Looks sales so much, I can proudly claim to have finally become an influencer ;)

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CoffeeCantata · 11/08/2025 19:35

ThatCyanCat · 11/08/2025 19:16

As much as I dislike it, I don't think it's at the level where ASA would be involved. However, anyone can make a complaint.

Why couldn't they just have shown the girls chatting and giggling together in the halls or taking a happy group selfie?

I suppose because the poster image shows a young woman getting ready for her main purpose in life - to pleasure men.

The happy group selfie would show an offensively in dependent lot of young women doing their own thing together with no consideration for the preferences of men.

Shocking dereliction of duty!

TheWildZebra · 11/08/2025 19:44

BondAway25 · 11/08/2025 18:12

Completely off topic, but are the Tesco ones nice?

i live cherries & do a weekly Tesco order but haven't ordered any cherries in case they're tasteless.

Honestly quite bland. Wouldn’t recommend. Quantity is not matched by quality.

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DelphiniumDoreen · 11/08/2025 19:59

Awful

The sad thing is, at that age you have no idea that dressing like that and pouting like a porn star is exactly what blokes older than your Dad perve over. I didn’t anyway.

All this obsession with posing and pouting. Why can’t schoolgirls just be that? Someone upthread said about going into Chelsea Girl in the 80s and buying short skirts and the like. I think the difference is that CG didn’t sell school uniform and didn’t advertise underage girls lolling around looking like they were standing on a street corner….

Naunet · 11/08/2025 20:21

Primethought · 11/08/2025 13:50

I'm really surprised at how shocked people are because those girls have exactly the "look' of all the girls I see walking past to school here l, and all the girls at DC's (nicer 😆) school. If anything the girls in the ad have less exposed flesh. I have boys and am thankful I've never had to police this stuff.

So what though? Just because young girls sexualise themselves, it doesn't mean adults should too.

faffadoodledo · 11/08/2025 20:26

@Naunet
quite.
and this stuff is targeted at ages 9 upwards. I can see how a 14 year old might do the pout. But a 9 year old?

UsernameMcUsername · 11/08/2025 20:27

It's grim. IIRC 'teen' is routinely one of the top searches on 'mainstream' porn sites. That's what it makes me think of.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 21:21

I bet if you asked those teens then they wouldn't know that "popping the cherry" was a term. It's really not that common now

Like deflowered...

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 21:23

ThatCyanCat · 11/08/2025 19:16

As much as I dislike it, I don't think it's at the level where ASA would be involved. However, anyone can make a complaint.

Why couldn't they just have shown the girls chatting and giggling together in the halls or taking a happy group selfie?

If they were taking a selfie then they'd have far worse facial expressions...

ThatCyanCat · 11/08/2025 21:29

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 21:23

If they were taking a selfie then they'd have far worse facial expressions...

Not in a professional shoot with a director who's keeping it appropriate.

cosimarama · 11/08/2025 22:07

Bear in mind the level of effort and decision making that goes into these campaigns. There are so many teams involved in each aspect, slogans, models, styling, photography, director etc nothing is by accident. New Look as a fairly major British retailer aimed at tweens and women have said what schoolgirls are to them, what the children should aspire to, and it feels grotty.

There could have been an uplifting element of learning, teamwork, sport, play, empowerment. Clothes for children going to school could have included elements of comfort, durability or function. This is about slim models posing and trying to look seductive in a lot of make up.

DelphiniumDoreen · 11/08/2025 22:13

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 21:21

I bet if you asked those teens then they wouldn't know that "popping the cherry" was a term. It's really not that common now

Like deflowered...

No but a significant proportion of the population above a certain age would know.

If the cherry thing is fashionable now, where did that come from? Japanese schoolgirl trend?

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 11/08/2025 22:20

DelphiniumDoreen · 11/08/2025 22:13

No but a significant proportion of the population above a certain age would know.

If the cherry thing is fashionable now, where did that come from? Japanese schoolgirl trend?

Cherries are a popular motif as a simple fruit of summer

And also, as someone has explained, a nightclub logo

The popping the cherry connotation is fading