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MIL comments on my clothing sale haul

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LP87 · 10/08/2025 21:50

I need to vent…MIL popped round this evening. I went to M&S earlier and picked up quite a few bits in the sale.

In the Kitchen preparing some drinks, DH mentioned to MIL that I’d got a few bits and she asked to see them.

DH emptied my shopping bag on the table and comments included:

-‘no idea who would have paid full price for them’ re. A pair of trousers

-‘good price but they don’t feel the best quality’ - re. A pair of shoes

-‘oh blimey, they don’t leave much to the imagination do they? I can’t imagine they’d be comfortable to wear. Don’t let him (DH) force you to wear things for his benefit’ - re. a pair of knickers - not risquĂ© at all! Slightly mesh at the back.

I think it’s the final comment which got to me, just so embarrassing!

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Daffodilsarefading · 10/08/2025 21:52

Serves her right for looking at your knickers!
Who cares what she thinks.

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 10/08/2025 21:52

Is this normal behaviour for her? Because if so I’d be annoyed with DH for showing her the shopping.

tarheelbaby · 10/08/2025 21:53

Yeah. She's not wearing them is she. So I'd not worry about her opinions. You've bought the right clothes for you and on sale too so crack on.

My MIL is great, a really lovely person but our taste in clothing is very different. I would not want her to choose for me and vice versa.

cupfinalchaos · 10/08/2025 21:57

I actually laughed when I read this. She commented on your knickers? So many delicious replies to choose from.

Panterusblackish · 10/08/2025 22:00

Hey at last she's got your back when it comes to not pandering to the male gaze, even her own son's!

Topseyt123 · 10/08/2025 22:01

Just tell her "its fine MIL, nobody's asking you to wear them!"

Screamingabdabz · 10/08/2025 22:01

Aw it’s bantz surely? I know my mother would similarly take the piss.

PinkCampervan · 10/08/2025 22:09

She's got no manners

Autumn38 · 10/08/2025 22:19

The last comment would be the one I’d be least offended by! That one would just make me laugh. Surely you needed to say ‘oh ok I’ll only take them off for his benefit then!’

Agapornis · 10/08/2025 22:51

Bet she's a fashion icon

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