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AIBU to think the judge’s comments in this case are completely inappropriate?

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Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Top Tory blasts 'soft' sentence for man who raped 13-year-old girl

The judge who sentenced Sorosh Amini, 21, said he did not consider the rapist to be a 'dangerous person.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14973083/Iranian-man-raped-girl-13-alleyway-jailed-just-SEVEN-years-judge-didnt-think-dangerous-person.html

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JHound · 06/08/2025 00:41

SummerEve · 05/08/2025 23:40

Alternatively we could use all that time, effort and money preventing crime instead.

We can do both.

JHound · 06/08/2025 00:42

Comtesse · 06/08/2025 00:02

What a reprehensible comment. Try reading @JaniceBattersby explanation - some facts would not go amiss…

Try reading more of the comments.

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 00:42

ActiveLog · 06/08/2025 00:35

Sickening to think that despite such a heinous crime committed against a child, some people are apologists of it and feel sympathy for the perpetrating predator!

And it is their INSTANT go to. They've read nothing, researched nothing, just want to silence the victims and those who want the rapists to be properly sentenced.

JHound · 06/08/2025 00:45

Ponoka7 · 05/08/2025 23:36

Part of the problem with cases involving immigrant men is that they come from countries were rape isn't prosecuted. They also often murder, or cut out of the tongue of rape victims, so they can'tbe identified. There'sakso beencases were they'veblinded their victim. Children certainly aren't off limits.. So no-one can judge how dangerous these men are.

We live in a country where rape is not prosecuted - you do realise how low our conviction rates are right?

(What are the conviction rates in the countries you are referring to? And where do they typically murder / cut out the tongue of rape victims.)

JudgeJ · 06/08/2025 00:46

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 22:09

It’s a direct quote from the judge - also reported in the guardian.

I’m not sure what your media snobbery adds to the conversation?

There are those on here who avidly know all the Mail prints but do nothing but criticise it for not following their party line! The same people swallow every word from the Grauniad though which is just as biased but in the 'right' way.

JHound · 06/08/2025 00:50

UninterestedBeing12 · 06/08/2025 00:31

Are you satisfied with the metropolitan police account of events? Are you happy with the detective inspectors account who led this investigation?

Because it's exactly the same as the daily mail report. Honest to god what's wrong with you.

That doesn’t contain details of the judge’s comments and the context within which they were made.

JHound · 06/08/2025 00:51

SummerEve · 05/08/2025 23:37

Don’t be stupid. It adds nothing to the debate.

Ok.

JHound · 06/08/2025 00:52

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 00:34

I would love to know what ‘what actually happened’ means - how much wiggle room is there for optics when a 13 year old is raped? What sort of stunning revelation would throw a different light over it all?

I think they are talking about the judge’s comments as reported by the DM. Not the attack against this young girl.

JudgeJ · 06/08/2025 00:53

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 22:37

Why would him being discriminated against be a defence for rape?

Because it's yet another excuse for lenient sentencing, the unproven allegation of 'discrimination'. What about the discrimination against the child he brutally raped? That's OK is it?

ToWhitToWhoo · 06/08/2025 00:55

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/08/2025 23:23

That’s unfair. He is a rapist and the sentence was wrong. The overwhelming majority of immigrants aren’t.

Agree, Too many judges are far too lenient on rapists, that's assuming the rapists ever get to court in the first place, which most don't.

But that doesn't mean it's all about immigration.

VaseofViolets · 06/08/2025 01:04

ToWhitToWhoo · 06/08/2025 00:55

Agree, Too many judges are far too lenient on rapists, that's assuming the rapists ever get to court in the first place, which most don't.

But that doesn't mean it's all about immigration.

No one ever said it was all about immigration.

Two things can be true at the same time. Do we have a problem with British rapists? Yes. Do we have a significant problem in now adding to their number with foreign nationals from countries with different standards in the treatment of women and girls? Also yes.

miraxxx · 06/08/2025 01:05

VaseofViolets · 05/08/2025 22:20

Are we not allowed to hate rapists? That’s news to me.

Not if they are brown or muslim or asylum seekers. Same old same thing that has been going on with grooming gangs phenomenon for decades.

askmenow · 06/08/2025 01:18

It would give me the greatest pleasure to drive a Rusty nail through the perps balls.

Let’s see which judge dictates his “human rights”say he cannot be thereafter deported.

These animals should be thrown out of our country back to the hovels they came from.
That girl will live with the memory for the rest of her life.
I truly think our judges and police force are totally divorced from reality and corrupt.

We need a damned good clearout of the dross in our judicial system.

DreamTheMoors · 06/08/2025 01:25

A white college-age swim star raped an unconscious 18-yr-old girl (was she 17?) outside behind a dumpster in California years ago now. Two other young men came upon the scene and stopped him - luckily.
I believe the judge stated that the young man had his whole life to live and he came from a very good family and he didn’t want to ruin his life or swim career, so he sentenced him to 3 or 6 months or some ridiculously easy punishment.
It was all over the news and people were outraged.
It was sickening - and I think they ran the judge off the bench. It wasn’t in my area and it was years ago so I don’t remember the particulars.

Judges can be awful - because judges are people. And occasionally they forget why they are sitting up there in their black robes deciding exactly who gets to keep their head, and who loses theirs.

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 02:25

miraxxx · 06/08/2025 01:05

Not if they are brown or muslim or asylum seekers. Same old same thing that has been going on with grooming gangs phenomenon for decades.

Correct.

The reality is that nobody here advocating for the rapist's correct punishment gives a flying fuck in a windstorm what ethnicity the rapist is, decent people want him locked up for 20 plus years to life because he raped a child. Those who give zero shits about raped children do not.

The bigger problem however is that judges are regularly on the side of the rapists. And yes, they should have their hard drives checked.

There is one correct and acceptable way to feel about a child rapist, or indeed any rapist - horror, disgust and a desire to see him locked up for decades. Anyone who tries to minimise deflect or derail that simple requirement is dangerous and not to be trusted.

SummerEve · 06/08/2025 07:27

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2025 00:29

A capital idea!

Have your proposals on my desk Monday morning.

If only it were that simple.

What a stupid, facetious comment. Actually, it can be that simple.

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 07:38

SummerEve · 06/08/2025 07:27

What a stupid, facetious comment. Actually, it can be that simple.

No, it really can’t. If there was a way of preventing all crime that we could simply through money at, somewhere round the world would’ve done this and achieved 0% crime right. It hasn’t happened, even in utopias like Iceland.

SummerEve · 06/08/2025 07:43

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 07:38

No, it really can’t. If there was a way of preventing all crime that we could simply through money at, somewhere round the world would’ve done this and achieved 0% crime right. It hasn’t happened, even in utopias like Iceland.

We haven’t thrown money at it as people still don’t see it as a priority spend. There is also the prevailing view, often apparent on MM, that we should lock everyone up forever.

Runnersandtoms · 06/08/2025 07:55

Having heard a lot of sentencing remarks, I can say that dangerousness is a legal term, and the parameters are very strict, usually reserved for people who have committed multiple specified serious offences, who show no remorse and who have been assessed by professionals to be likely to reoffend.

In addition 'severe psychological harm' means in addition to that normally expected to flow from the offence otherwise judges can be accused of double counting in appeal. Also there has to be evidence of this severe harm eg self harming, suicidality, inability to sleep/leave the house etc etc.

Judges have to justify every single decision they make according to actual guidelines. They don't just pick a sentence out of the air.

Honon · 06/08/2025 07:59

JaniceBattersby · 05/08/2025 22:34

In any serious case like this a judge must assess ‘dangerousness’ based on a very strict set of criteria. They include past offending, behaviour since the incident, remorse, and likelihood of reoffending (which itself is judged by probation officers using a matrix, as well as their own subjective opinion on top of that). He may not be at risk of reoffending because he will be deported at the end of his sentence.

It’s basically a legal term that the DM have used to provoke an emotional reaction. I was in a case last week where a rapist had offended against 3 people in the most horrific ways, but because his offences were a decade ago and he had not (on the face of it) reoffended, he was not deemed to be dangeorus. It happens literally every day in crown courts up and down the country. I’ve never framed a headline on it, because it would be disingenuous of me to do so.

ETA the ‘psychological harm’ to the victim also has to fall within strict parameters. If the victim doesn’t describe ongoing mental health issues or trauma in her interviews or victim personal statements then the court cannot assume she has it. They are asked lots of questions about trauma and can hand over medical records if necessary. The court will have considered all of this.

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I understand the dangerous definition element but the psychological harm part seems so illogical. It sounds like the victim has to be on some level performative to ensure the perpetrator gets a maximum sentence? How could that ever be expected of a child? She could well develop these issues in years to come.

And just in principle, if two victims of the same crime respond differently, how does that make one crime worse than the other?

Not blaming the judge, I understand they have to follow guidelines, just seems the law is flawed and unfair.

Ddakji · 06/08/2025 08:01

JHound · 05/08/2025 22:46

Thanks.

This probably paints in a different light (and I know the DM definitely writes articles in a way
to forment hatred against foreigners and non-whites) but I then still have an issue with the sentencing guidelines.

It should not be the case that 7 years is ever viewed as acceptable for a rape case.

Here are those responsible - the sentencing council.

shame on every last one of them.

www.sentencingcouncil.org.uk/sentencing-and-the-council/about-the-sentencing-council/sentencing-council/

KatieNutKins · 06/08/2025 08:03

Too soft Britain! I bet the judge would think differently if it was their 13 year old daughter that had been raped by this ‘man’.

Runnersandtoms · 06/08/2025 08:03

Honon · 06/08/2025 07:59

I understand the dangerous definition element but the psychological harm part seems so illogical. It sounds like the victim has to be on some level performative to ensure the perpetrator gets a maximum sentence? How could that ever be expected of a child? She could well develop these issues in years to come.

And just in principle, if two victims of the same crime respond differently, how does that make one crime worse than the other?

Not blaming the judge, I understand they have to follow guidelines, just seems the law is flawed and unfair.

I take your point but I don't see what they can do about it. They cannot guess at possible future trauma (or possible undisclosed traima).

Also more than once I have heard the phrase 'you take your victim as you find them' so if you happen to attack someone who already has a heart condition and they die because of your attack but a healthy person would have made a full recovery, tough shit. You are punished for the outcome. The same has to be true the other way round. If the victim is a resilient person not particularly badly affected by the crime then the harm done is less.

Boredlass · 06/08/2025 08:03

DartmoorWanderer · 05/08/2025 22:10

Is it? Or did he follow the sentencing guidelines and the daily mail has twisted it?

DM et al have a vested interest in causing unrest.

So do you by the sound of it.

KatieNutKins · 06/08/2025 08:06

Juststop2025 · 06/08/2025 02:25

Correct.

The reality is that nobody here advocating for the rapist's correct punishment gives a flying fuck in a windstorm what ethnicity the rapist is, decent people want him locked up for 20 plus years to life because he raped a child. Those who give zero shits about raped children do not.

The bigger problem however is that judges are regularly on the side of the rapists. And yes, they should have their hard drives checked.

There is one correct and acceptable way to feel about a child rapist, or indeed any rapist - horror, disgust and a desire to see him locked up for decades. Anyone who tries to minimise deflect or derail that simple requirement is dangerous and not to be trusted.

Judges are on the wrong side a lot of the time and that is why people get away with a lot of things. This country is too fucking soft and the judges are too fucking stupid.