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To think rich people steal money all the time and that’s often why they’re rich?

647 replies

MyAmusedOpalCrab · 05/08/2025 16:48

We hear so much about “hard work” and “smart investments” but let’s be honest, so many rich people didn’t get wealthy by being ethical. From dodgy business practices to exploiting workers, tax dodging, insider deals and straight-up corruption, wealth often comes at someone else’s expense.

Governments bail out billionaires while ordinary people struggle to afford rent. CEOs cut wages and benefits while pocketing massive bonuses. Huge corporations find loopholes to avoid taxes while the rest of us get squeezed.

Obviously not every rich person is a thief but AIBU to think that a lot of them are? That the system is rigged in their favour and they keep getting richer by bending or outright breaking the rules?

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Sally20099 · 06/08/2025 20:17

Switcher · 06/08/2025 20:04

That's what seems entirely lost on most people.

…and they already pay 30% of ALL income tax! 1% pay 30% of all income tax. That’s why all countries try their best to hang on to them.

JayJayEl · 06/08/2025 20:19

McWoman · 06/08/2025 19:40

Well, you wont have to worry about the rich any longer, as most have bu**ered off to places such as Dubai, Monacco as the taxes are so high here. This leaves the rest of us ' moderate' tax payers to pay for the 4 star hotels, food, mobile phones, pocket money, free health, free taxi services, free gaming equipment etc for those huge numbers of 'boat people' that keep coming over every day.

Oh, and here enters the McXenophobic McRacist I was waiting for! 👏🏽

JayJayEl · 06/08/2025 20:20

MyNameIsX · 06/08/2025 20:16

Dry your eyes, princess.

Life is tough, always has been, always will be.

Haha, what? Your response doesn't make any sense...

Pedallleur · 06/08/2025 20:20

Which class do you think is the richest? However, the more you have the more the system works for you. You can use Banks, Investment companies to minimise your liabilities, to move investments offshore, own homes via a Company registered offshore, counter HMRC or IR with expensive lawyers. If you are a Monarch you avoid Inheritance Tax completely because you got the rules changed. A substantial lottery win may see any of us taking advantage of financial advice or leaving to more financially advantageous places

PetuniaT · 06/08/2025 20:22

Poopeepoopee · 05/08/2025 16:56

I agree.

The super-rich have brought up all the worlds resources and are selling them back to us for 20 x what they paid for them.

like what?

TaupeFox · 06/08/2025 20:23

I’ve thought about this lots of times over the years and I agree with you completely.
No matter how hard a person works you will not accumulate that sort of wealth through just pure ethical graft.
It’s either inheritance, a lot good luck, or shady, unethical practices and deals or a combination of the lot. What ever way you look at it, the person is wealthy due to a lot of people not being rich and being exploited.

twistyizzy · 06/08/2025 20:24

It is when they pay the majority of tax in this country!

notsadnotlonely · 06/08/2025 20:25

This thread is based on one thing.

ENVY.

MillieMinx · 06/08/2025 20:26

Zanzara · 05/08/2025 16:54

What do you consider to be rich OP?

That’s what I came to ask as well all have a different perception of what is rich!

Epidote · 06/08/2025 20:27

I haven't read the thread or the updates but the rule of the thumb is that big fortunes are not made only with hard work. Call it stealing may be a bit too much but definitely they stretch the law, the opportunities and the possibilities in some many ways we can't even think about. So you have a point in my opinion.

BIossomtoes · 06/08/2025 20:32

notsadnotlonely · 06/08/2025 20:25

This thread is based on one thing.

ENVY.

Not in the slightest on my part at least. Hatred of unfairness. In what universe is it right for a few people to have more money than the annual budget of a small country when many, many others don’t have a roof over their head or enough to eat? I don’t know how they can sleep at night.

Magpie105 · 06/08/2025 20:55

MumOfManyAliases · 06/08/2025 19:21

I know some rich people - extremely wealthy. They certainly aren’t the types to steal other peoples’ money. They are very humble, dont drive flashy cars and do a lot of good for the local community - probably a lot more than you. They have got where they are through hard work and because they are clever people. I find all this moaning about rich people really tiresome. You get different people in all walks of life; rich, poor. Try not to be so envious of others. It’s not a nice trait.

I don’t dispute what you say but I think this is also not really the debate. I manage money for a living and when you talk about serious wealth the scales really are tilted in their favour. For instance, huge government policy support has boosted asset prices which allows them to continually generate large earnings from buying up the assets. You throw in a tax system that then works in their favour (I.e collateralising to reduce tax bills) and it is no surprise inequality keeps getting worse.

Pliudev · 06/08/2025 20:58

MyNameIsX · 06/08/2025 18:29

Yeah, that would be the simple reason why Reeves is nursing a GBP 51 bn deficit (and growing).

So you think benefit cheats and boat people are responsible for the 51 billion?

Barbadossunset · 06/08/2025 21:02

Hatred of unfairness

Blossomtoes how much money can someone have before it becomes unfair?

BIossomtoes · 06/08/2025 21:13

Barbadossunset · 06/08/2025 21:02

Hatred of unfairness

Blossomtoes how much money can someone have before it becomes unfair?

More than they can spend in a lifetime.

Helpmeplease2025 · 06/08/2025 21:29

BIossomtoes · 06/08/2025 21:13

More than they can spend in a lifetime.

So they should just… give it away?

LoveLifeBeHappy · 06/08/2025 21:38

A family member of mine became a millionaire over time. Do I consider him a thief? No. Did he sacrifice a lot? Probably too much.

ThistleTits · 06/08/2025 21:42

FenderStrat · 05/08/2025 16:49

I'm more upset about benefits cheats.

"Don't look at me, look at them" a drop in the ocean compared to tax avoidance. Wake up.

ThistleTits · 06/08/2025 21:50

@Helpmeplease2025 you can only work so much. People are working ft and ot, still have to claim uc to top up their take home pay. Working full time and having to get charity handouts to feed and dress their families. This is still a drop in the ocean compared to tax avoidance. Greed is the reason why some people have zilch and others have more than they could ever need.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 06/08/2025 21:59

McWoman · 06/08/2025 19:40

Well, you wont have to worry about the rich any longer, as most have bu**ered off to places such as Dubai, Monacco as the taxes are so high here. This leaves the rest of us ' moderate' tax payers to pay for the 4 star hotels, food, mobile phones, pocket money, free health, free taxi services, free gaming equipment etc for those huge numbers of 'boat people' that keep coming over every day.

This leaves the rest of us ' moderate' tax payers to pay for the 4 star hotels

Free gaming equipment etc for those huge numbers of 'boat people' that keep coming over every day

Spending tax money on this might not sit well with everyone, and that’s totally fair. But to put it in perspective, the UK brings in about £915 billion in tax revenue each year. The cost of housing asylum seekers in hotels is around £3.1 billion.

That works out to just 0.34% of the total — a small fraction in the bigger picture.

Lockdownsceptic · 06/08/2025 21:59

Yes, you have come across a universal truth. Now you have discovered what most of us have known all our lives what are you going to do about it?
The answer, of course, is that there is nothing you can do except ensure that everything you yourself do is done with honesty and integrity. You will have to accept, though, that you will never be rich

Lockdownsceptic · 06/08/2025 22:00

LoveLifeBeHappy · 06/08/2025 21:59

This leaves the rest of us ' moderate' tax payers to pay for the 4 star hotels

Free gaming equipment etc for those huge numbers of 'boat people' that keep coming over every day

Spending tax money on this might not sit well with everyone, and that’s totally fair. But to put it in perspective, the UK brings in about £915 billion in tax revenue each year. The cost of housing asylum seekers in hotels is around £3.1 billion.

That works out to just 0.34% of the total — a small fraction in the bigger picture.

That's £3.1 billion too much in my book.

PollyBell · 06/08/2025 22:02

Maybe the rich use their brains more to realise not to generalise? And what does the rich provide us that we wouldn't have otherwise

We may lose all the cheap crap we buy because we delude ourselves we need it, what other lifestyle choices would we have to give up? Holidays to sit in the sun for 2 weeks because there would be no airlines?

Waterweight · 06/08/2025 22:05

FenderStrat · 05/08/2025 16:49

I'm more upset about benefits cheats.

That's what your supposed to be - ignore the big issue & worry about the small ones

Lockdownsceptic · 06/08/2025 22:06

BIossomtoes · 06/08/2025 20:32

Not in the slightest on my part at least. Hatred of unfairness. In what universe is it right for a few people to have more money than the annual budget of a small country when many, many others don’t have a roof over their head or enough to eat? I don’t know how they can sleep at night.

It's called the Matthew principle named for the passage in St. Matthew's gospel which says, " to them that hath shall be given more, and from them that hath not shall be taken away even that which they hath." Jesus was not saying it was right, he was saying that it will always happen.