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To think that if it is illegal to use a mobile phone while driving a vehicle, it must be made illegal to push a pram?

134 replies

llizzie · 02/08/2025 19:00

I have just read this on another site which was discussing how the mobile phone is killing conversation.

  ''Saw an incident two days ago: Young mother pushing child in a pushchair was glued to her smart phone, not looking to where she was going. She was heading straight towards a fixed bollard at the side of the footpath. Last few seconds, she saw it, swerved suddenly, child rocked over to the side and hit bollard full face. Stupidity of the highest order. ''
OP posts:
TeenLifeMum · 04/08/2025 18:35

llizzie · 04/08/2025 17:12

There is no judgement of others in the thread. It is a debate about whether it should be illegal to take a phone call with one hand and pushing a pram with an infant with the other. Obviously, from this thread, everyone does it and no one thinks it is wrong. Why?

You were not on the phone, but your attention was elsewhere.

No judgement? Please, your pants are giving you a full wedgy 😂

CallMeFlo · 04/08/2025 18:43

llizzie · 04/08/2025 18:05

Sore leg? If someone walks into you with a pram, or even a shopping bag, and hits your shin. It might not be just a sore leg. There is no fat layer between the shin bone and the skin. Once the skin is broken, it springs apart and causes an ulcer that could take months to heal. Don't you know that? The same for elbows and ankles.

Big oaks from little acorns grow.

Every post you make is more bstshit than the previous 🙄

Ill take my chance with a phone distracted pram pusher over a phone distracted driver any day

Unless of course you have statistics to show how many people are killed or suffer life changing injuries being run into by a pram 🙄

JeremiahBullfrog · 04/08/2025 18:43

Pram driving licence. Mandatory annual pram inspections. Prison sentence if you let your child unbuckle themselves in a pushchair.

Also make it illegal to use a phone in all dangerous situations: going upstairs, in the vicinity of an active toaster, on the sofa in the absence of a safety rail.

Doris86 · 04/08/2025 19:04

llizzie · 04/08/2025 18:00

So if Doris hasn't heard of it, it hasn't happened?

Well I’m sure someone has probably been killed by a pram at some point in history. But then I’m sure someone has probably died by walking into a lamppost and banging their head whilst distracted on their phone. Shall we make it illegal to use a mobile phone whilst walking along? You can’t legislate against all risks, no matter how unlikely.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 04/08/2025 19:35

I have often thought that television producers whose programmes have someone driving and chatting away at a camera, e.g. Worlds Most Dangerous Roads, Antiques Road Trip, Bangers and Cash, Police something or other, etc. should reconsider what they are doing... unless they just don't care. 😟

BertieBotts · 04/08/2025 19:52

I mean I am pretty sure if you carelessly barge into someone with a pram, trolley, or any other object and they get injured they can probably make a claim against you using a solicitor, and if they died from their injuries I expect it would be investigated as involuntary manslaughter, and it would be down to the judge and jury to decide whether or not the person pushing the thing was being unreasonably reckless or whether the death was a freak accident.

That would be different from someone deliberately ramming a person with intent to injure which presumably would be investigated as assault from the start.

I know other countries have more explicit laws about this kind of thing whereas the UK it's more of a small claims court thing so it probably costs more to hire the solicitor than you'd get back in compensation anyway.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 04/08/2025 20:02

This thread is bonkers 😁

Vitrolinsanity · 04/08/2025 20:06

This afternoon I rounded a junction on a green light as a young woman, on her phone, stepped off the pavement. A junction with pedestrian lights, they either hadn’t activated or hadn’t waited for. How I stopped in time I don’t know. Her friend, also on the phone, clearly felt I needed severe admonishment.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/08/2025 20:23

llizzie · 04/08/2025 16:45

Not at all. I have nothing against mobile phones. I have nothing against mothers of young children.

Nor is the thread about that. It is about a witness who saw a woman pushing a pram who lost control because she was speaking on a mobile phone. It never occurred to me that such a thing would happen, not being able to go out without being driven.

I would be horrified if I saw a powered wheelchair user on the phone, not paying due care and attention, or someone pushing a wheelchair.doing the same.

It is irresponsible, and if it happens. It seems people will do what they like until it is declared illegal.

Average weight of an adult + powerchair: 130kg (80kg + 50kg)
Average weight of an adult + wheelchair: 95kg (80kg + 15kg)

Top speed of powerchair: 4mph unless class 3 (8mph). I'm ignoring not in class, which can be far heavier, wider and faster and require a driving licence and to be driven on the road in all cases.

Now, if a class 3 user is distracted whilst travelling at 8mph, apart from the fact that they'd already be committing an offence if they are on the pavement at that speed, there would be a risk of 130kg hitting somebody with sufficient force to hurt another pedestrian.

Somebody pushing a manual chair and hurting the legs of the person sitting or causing them to fall/topples over is unpleasant and may cause more serious injuries due to medical conditions or general physical vulnerability - and would be obviously very, very frightening. But that's on the basis of weight, size and specific medical risks.

Compare to the average weight of a buggy - 15kg. Plus child aged 0-3, being up to about 14kg, travelling at up to about 3mph.

There just isn't the same level of risk of severe harm being caused.

Vitrolinsanity · 04/08/2025 20:24

Sorry, woman was pushing a pram. Pram was in the road. Thank you Vw for great brakes.

YouOKHun · 04/08/2025 20:32

llizzie · 04/08/2025 18:17

First of all, I don't mention fathers because the witness - whoever it was, not me, which is why I copied it on this site,- doesn't mention men. I have not elaborated on my post, just put it how it was put to me. In my way of life, it never occurred to me that anyone could be so stupid as to push a pram with one hand and hold a phone with the other.

Before the mobile phone, a driver could be pulled over for not putting both hands of the wheel. Eating and drinking were also illegal, anything, in fact, which distracted the driver, including looking behind to see what the kids were up to on the back seat.

''How many deaths does it take to be told, that too many people have died''?

How many injuries is enough proof for you to think it is unwise to hold a phone with one hand, push a pram, or a shopping trolley, or something similar?

“How many injuries is enough proof for you to think it is unwise to hold a phone with one hand, push a pram, or a shopping trolley or something similar?”

I don’t need to see injuries to know that it’s better not to be distracted pushing a pram etc but that’s not what you said. You said that the specific situation of using a phone when pushing a pram should be considered as the same level as phone use in a car and should therefore be similarly illegal. I would need to know how many injuries have been recorded in this specific situation and it would need to be significant numbers. There is no record of pram/phone injuries. Sure, it may have happened a few times but clearly accident investigators are not attending the scene of a pram injury or recording the factors involved and neither is there any information from the coroners and such like about distracted pram pushers! That would seem to indicate that though it might unfortunately happen from time to time it’s not a significant problem. You’re making an illogical leap in giving those two things equal status.

Clockchair · 04/08/2025 20:45

llizzie · 04/08/2025 18:05

Sore leg? If someone walks into you with a pram, or even a shopping bag, and hits your shin. It might not be just a sore leg. There is no fat layer between the shin bone and the skin. Once the skin is broken, it springs apart and causes an ulcer that could take months to heal. Don't you know that? The same for elbows and ankles.

Big oaks from little acorns grow.

You're reaching now OP 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂.

Bonkers argument to make.

Thanksforyourlackofthought · 04/08/2025 22:47

So, what happens if I stop suddenly to answer my phone and do not move to be courteous to other people and somebody walks into the back of me because I stopped suddenly?
What should happen to the person that walked into the back of me?

Rachie1973 · 04/08/2025 22:57

I use my phone and push a pram at the same time. I’m quite good at it now. I have some great methods. On a single bar I hold it in the middle, but 2 handles, and this is magic, if you push with one hand use the left hand on the right handle or vice versa lol. Seriously. I could enter buggy olympics. I think I have an idea there.

MuckFusk · 04/08/2025 23:33

llizzie · 04/08/2025 17:46

Yes, I do and am not ashamed of that. It is the use of the phone, not the phone itself.

Don't any of the posters stop when the phone rings? Doesn't anyone see the danger?

I don't stop, I just ignore my phone ringing if I'm doing something that requires my full attention. I can just call them back when I'm free to talk. Walking down the street pushing a pram wouldn't require my full attention, but I do agree that it requires enough attention that you shouldn't be looking at your phone. Talking on it is not the same. You still have the use of your eyes to see hazards. So no, I don't see inherent danger in talking on the phone while pushing a pram. There wouldn't be any for the majority of people. I suppose some people might get so involved in some sort of heated conversation that they would lose their ability to focus, but how many people do you see on the streets having those kind of intense phone conversations while walking, whether with a pram or not?

MuckFusk · 04/08/2025 23:42

JeremiahBullfrog · 04/08/2025 18:43

Pram driving licence. Mandatory annual pram inspections. Prison sentence if you let your child unbuckle themselves in a pushchair.

Also make it illegal to use a phone in all dangerous situations: going upstairs, in the vicinity of an active toaster, on the sofa in the absence of a safety rail.

While walking underneath a ladder.

During unprotected sex.

At the pub if you're underage.

When your in-laws are visiting.

While online dating.

We could do this all day. ;-)

Isitreallysohard · 04/08/2025 23:44

llizzie · 02/08/2025 21:06

I thought it might be clearer like this:

Saw an incident two days ago: Young mother pushing child in a pushchair was glued to her smart phone, not looking to where she was going.

She was heading straight towards a fixed bollard at the side of the footpath. Last few seconds, she saw it, swerved suddenly, child rocked over to the side and hit bollard full face.

Stupidity of the highest order.

Some people shouldn't be allowed to breed, unfortunately we can't sterilise people based on their IQ 🤷🏻‍♀️
Sadly, many parent are more interested in their phones than their kids 😕

MuckFusk · 04/08/2025 23:47

llizzie · 04/08/2025 16:45

Not at all. I have nothing against mobile phones. I have nothing against mothers of young children.

Nor is the thread about that. It is about a witness who saw a woman pushing a pram who lost control because she was speaking on a mobile phone. It never occurred to me that such a thing would happen, not being able to go out without being driven.

I would be horrified if I saw a powered wheelchair user on the phone, not paying due care and attention, or someone pushing a wheelchair.doing the same.

It is irresponsible, and if it happens. It seems people will do what they like until it is declared illegal.

The story you posted said "glued to her smartphone" and mentioned her not looking where she was going. That means she was looking at her phone, not just talking on it. Talking on it without looking at it doesn't prevent people from looking where they're going. Why can't you understand that?

Nat6999 · 05/08/2025 00:07

It's a qualification to live on my estate, push a pram with the basket full of cheap booze whilst smoking, texting or calling on a mobile. I failed the test miserably & was therefore only given a temporary visa to live on the estate, never been able to wear the coveted Sports Direct sportswear & banned for life from buying cheap wine & cider. I was also never allowed to give my child one of the prized chavvy names.

OldBeyondMyYears · 05/08/2025 00:11

You actually sound quite unwell OP 😢

Athreedoorwardrobe · 05/08/2025 00:37

Are you on glue?

IllBeHomeForChristmas · 05/08/2025 06:53

You’re batshit crazy!

MikeRafone · 05/08/2025 06:59

Can we stop with the accident

its a crash if a person was deliberately using a phone

it’s not unexpected if you’re busy on the phone

tigger1001 · 05/08/2025 09:30

llizzie · 04/08/2025 17:56

What if it isn't a bollard, but a person, and someone on the phone rams them with a pram? The child might be OK, but the person could lose their balance and fall, and hit their head. What then?

It was an eyeopener for me, because I never thought such things could happen.

Who pays compensation for injuries? It is hardly an accident if someone is on the phone with one hand - is it?

It is an accident though. And no one will pay compensation for these.

your posts get crazier each time!

can you imagine having to have insurance to walk up the street?

latetothefisting · 05/08/2025 20:56

llizzie · 03/08/2025 15:21

Is it just the degree of damage and injury which determines the law? Not everyone is injured in a road accident.

The witness saw a woman absorbed in her mobile phone, saw the bollard, quickly took evasive action which made the pram swerve and the child bang it's head on the bollard.

Only the person pushing the pram knows what happened next, because there is no law to make it illegal, so cannot be reported.

cannot be reported to who?

Are you suggesting the bystander (or the bollard, who would probably still make more sense than you) should report the mother to the police for endangerment by reckless pram driving?