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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think that MN is full of bitches?

153 replies

Stopitplease · 28/05/2008 14:15

Don't get me wrong, I think that there are some lovely, really supportive people on here as well.

Is it just me though who thinks that there is quite a lot of bitchiness and nastiness that goes on here on a fairly regular basis?

OP posts:
dizzydixies · 28/05/2008 15:48

ROFL

Saymyname · 28/05/2008 16:06

Arietty, do people really do that? CAT each other if someone has been bitchy to them on a thread?!

VictorianSqualor · 28/05/2008 16:35

Saymyname, yes.
I had to CAT lapin earlier after she called me a bar steward.

madamez · 28/05/2008 17:49

It's quite rare to find anyone in real distress getting bitched at. Posters who love a good row tend to not go and start one on the bereavement threads, for instance: I like to keep my sharp-stick moments for AIBU, Chat and In The News. And would only go and do the equivalent of mooning at someone on a sad thread if I knew the poster well enough to think that they would appreciate some black humour (some people find it comforting).
Mostly, if you get it in the neck you are either an independent thinker who should be proud of the rage you can trigger in idiot mundanes, or you are being a silly twat and should get over yourself.

UnquietDad · 28/05/2008 17:51

Hooray! madamez said "mundanes"

a beer for me on the MN drinking game

BoysAreLikeDogs · 28/05/2008 17:53

Someone CATTED me recently about a thread that went tits-up.

VictorianSqualor · 28/05/2008 17:57

Madamez, if I ever post a sad thread can you please 'moon' me.
I probably wouldn't have appreciated it without this thread, but now I will.

Squirdle · 28/05/2008 18:02

Ooh Boysarelikedogs, how catty of them

lucyellensmum · 28/05/2008 18:07

Netmums anyone??? Maybe we could infiltrate it and turn it into Netbitches

littlelapin · 28/05/2008 18:14

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Psychomum5 · 28/05/2008 18:18

I am still of the opinion that there is no bitchieness, just people taking it all in the worng way....

I reserve the right to take it all 'in the wrong way' when I have PMT however

BoysAreLikeDogs · 28/05/2008 18:19
Grin
3andnomore · 28/05/2008 18:25

YABU imho

Mhamai · 28/05/2008 18:29

YABVU imvho

merryberry · 28/05/2008 18:30

i'm not a bitch, i'm too rich and lazy to bother

IamaBitch · 28/05/2008 18:33

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littlelapin · 28/05/2008 18:34

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IAmABitchToo · 28/05/2008 18:35

Yes, well said

meglet · 28/05/2008 18:46

stopit I think some people are just more blunt than others. I, however, tend to sugar coat every post I write . The best thing is to stay away from the more controversial threads. Its the same as real life, some people don't care who they upset, others are a bit more diplomatic.

VictorianSqualor · 28/05/2008 18:52

Well, you are but a rabbit, wouldn't expect you to know everything.

ShoutyFishwife · 28/05/2008 19:06

I am not a bitch, but the other MN phenomena

triffictits · 28/05/2008 21:41

I am not a bitch. Just a fruit shoot feeding, lazy arsed mum on benefits

Has the OP fooked off now?

scottishmummy · 28/05/2008 21:50

Jesus Wept if you are so faint hearted that MN is bitchy then Yes maybe you need to get another hobby.

or grow a thicker skin
or get a sense of humour

Bitchy?Moi

Janni · 28/05/2008 21:59

What a bitchy OP.

I'm really offended by that.

cory · 28/05/2008 22:06

Right, it is one of the conditions of the internet, isn't it, that every public forum must run one of these are-we-being-horribly-nasty-and-unkind threads at regular intervals of not less than three months...or have I got something wrong?

Come to think of it, it's a long time since TropicalFishForums last did one of theirs, must be well overdue. Bye folks, off to investigate the catfish section.