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Thread 11: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 29/07/2025 15:01

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...
2nd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found
3rd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video
4th Observer ‘I felt I was being gaslit’ – the landlord who helped Ray...
Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn
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New posters welcome. It would be helpful to read at least the four Observer items above before posting. There are currently 10 items on The Observer website The real Salt Path | The Observer

To all - Please be extremely cautious when it comes to naming or implicating people and addresses not in the public eye or with no direct connection to the story, and around the understandable health speculations, especially where details are unclear or still emerging. Please do not engage with visitors who seem to have their own agenda and seek to derail. Avoid @'ing and quoting them as - from experience - this will only encourage them back to the threads. We have done amazingly well together for ten very interesting, very serious and very silly threads so far. I can't be here as much as I'd like so all help with keeping our discussion walking along in a healthy and civil fashion is very welcome.

No saltiness. Keep to the path.

Does stolen fudge taste better?

The real Salt Path | The Observer

The real Salt Path | The Observer

<p>The truth behind the blockbuster book and film</p>

https://observer.co.uk/collections/the-real-salt-path

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onlyinitforthefudge · 01/08/2025 13:24

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 13:14

I imagine that is more referring to those ‘Patrons rude at their own risk’ type signs on amusement parks, but said park still obviously being liable if you fall out of their rollercoaster?

On an entirely separate issue — we’ve talked a lot about fudge, but I have always wondered what kind of noodles they were. Can’t be Pot Noodles because they’d be too awkward to carry (and not cheap), but what kind of instant noodles are very cheap, light to carry, and available even in quite small village shops? TW says they left Bude with ‘enough 20p packs of noodles to last a week’, but Bude has supermarkets. I would have thought the very cheapest instant noodles would be own brand in supermarkets or bulk buy shops, or maybe Asian groceries, not necessarily in small village shops where they must have done much of their food shopping?

I’m not in the UK these days. Are 20p noodles readily available?

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Cheapest noodles in ASDA are 25p atm, so with COL they would have definitely been about 20p in supermarkets at the time, not sure about corner shops.

Fandango52 · 01/08/2025 13:25

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 13:14

I imagine that is more referring to those ‘Patrons rude at their own risk’ type signs on amusement parks, but said park still obviously being liable if you fall out of their rollercoaster?

On an entirely separate issue — we’ve talked a lot about fudge, but I have always wondered what kind of noodles they were. Can’t be Pot Noodles because they’d be too awkward to carry (and not cheap), but what kind of instant noodles are very cheap, light to carry, and available even in quite small village shops? TW says they left Bude with ‘enough 20p packs of noodles to last a week’, but Bude has supermarkets. I would have thought the very cheapest instant noodles would be own brand in supermarkets or bulk buy shops, or maybe Asian groceries, not necessarily in small village shops where they must have done much of their food shopping?

I’m not in the UK these days. Are 20p noodles readily available?

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I’m not in the UK these days. Are 20p noodles readily available?

Not after Liz Truss’s mini-budget, that’s for sure 😂 But maybe they were readily available in 2013!

AldoGordo · 01/08/2025 13:28

Cornflowerz55 · 01/08/2025 13:05

This is very interesting. I recalled that Moth had been claimed to have been given a definitive terminal diagnosis which formed one half of the emotional hook for TSP. Was there never a claim of definitive terminal diagnosis?

TSP recounts how a diagnosis of CBD is given. The only caveat is the Dr cannot be certain about that diagnosis until after death. But it is what the Dr believes and he makes a clear point, in RW's account, that "the best thing I can do for you Moth, is to give you a diagnosis." So I would say this very much presents clear diagnosis in terms of the act of diagnosing. I'm not a medical expert but my understanding is that diagnoses can always change when new signs and symptoms are presented, so a diagnosis is sometimes subject to change if it's a particularly difficult and unsual thing to diagnose. Indeed, if we look at TSP, RW wrote that Drs had initially been led to think TW had Parkinson's disease, but that was later ruled out.

SereneLilac · 01/08/2025 13:30

@Sunstreaming
I'm starting to think the whole thing is a much bigger fraud than it appears. Less a case of they did most of it and retrofitted some events, more they did a bit of it and made up the rest.

Catwith69lives · 01/08/2025 13:33

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 13:14

I imagine that is more referring to those ‘Patrons rude at their own risk’ type signs on amusement parks, but said park still obviously being liable if you fall out of their rollercoaster?

On an entirely separate issue — we’ve talked a lot about fudge, but I have always wondered what kind of noodles they were. Can’t be Pot Noodles because they’d be too awkward to carry (and not cheap), but what kind of instant noodles are very cheap, light to carry, and available even in quite small village shops? TW says they left Bude with ‘enough 20p packs of noodles to last a week’, but Bude has supermarkets. I would have thought the very cheapest instant noodles would be own brand in supermarkets or bulk buy shops, or maybe Asian groceries, not necessarily in small village shops where they must have done much of their food shopping?

I’m not in the UK these days. Are 20p noodles readily available?

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Eating instant noodles makes good sense if you want cheap lightweight calories that you can eat when wild camping.
The health and environmental benefits of eating industrial quantatities of them are less compelling, particularly if you are a self proclaimed 'eco-warrior'.
The cheap brands are invariably fried in palm oil and harvested from plantations of former rainforest in areas of SE Asia such as Indonesia. Not great news if you are an orangutan in that part of the world!

DisappointedReader · 01/08/2025 13:33

I have sent you a PM @mauvishagain

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Hyenana · 01/08/2025 13:34

Cornflowerz55 · 01/08/2025 13:05

This is very interesting. I recalled that Moth had been claimed to have been given a definitive terminal diagnosis which formed one half of the emotional hook for TSP. Was there never a claim of definitive terminal diagnosis?

From the Penguin TSP page:

"Just days after Raynor learns that Moth, her husband of 32 years is terminally ill,
the couple lose their home and their livelihood. With nothing left and little time, they make the brave and impulsive decision to walk the 630 miles of the sea-swept South West Coast Path, from Somerset to Dorset, via Devon and Cornwall.

They have almost no money for food or shelter and must carry only the essentials for survival on their backs as they live wild in the ancient, weathered landscape of cliffs, sea and sky. Yet through every step, every encounter, and every test along the way, their walk becomes a remarkable journey.

The Salt Path is an unflinchingly honest, inspiring and life-affirming true story of coming to terms with grief and the healing power of the natural world. Ultimately, it is a portrayal of home, and how it can be lost, rebuilt, and rediscovered in the most unexpected ways."

FurryHappyKittens · 01/08/2025 13:34

I couldn't sleep last night so spent some time working on the timeline!

It's now in three sections (posts) as it's now a six page document in Word! 😁🤪😬🙄😮

Yes, Simon Armitage makes an appearance...🧑

  1. 1960 - 2013
  2. 2013 - present
  3. Links to all the references

I'll add a small bit about Sally's job history when I'm next at my laptop.

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 13:43

Hyenana · 01/08/2025 13:34

From the Penguin TSP page:

"Just days after Raynor learns that Moth, her husband of 32 years is terminally ill,
the couple lose their home and their livelihood. With nothing left and little time, they make the brave and impulsive decision to walk the 630 miles of the sea-swept South West Coast Path, from Somerset to Dorset, via Devon and Cornwall.

They have almost no money for food or shelter and must carry only the essentials for survival on their backs as they live wild in the ancient, weathered landscape of cliffs, sea and sky. Yet through every step, every encounter, and every test along the way, their walk becomes a remarkable journey.

The Salt Path is an unflinchingly honest, inspiring and life-affirming true story of coming to terms with grief and the healing power of the natural world. Ultimately, it is a portrayal of home, and how it can be lost, rebuilt, and rediscovered in the most unexpected ways."

But RW didn’t write that. And I imagine the position of whoever did would be ‘Well, the author has signed a contract saying it’s true, and I didn’t have enough space on a blurb to say ‘possible diagnosis of something usually terminal but which can only be definitely diagnosed post-mortem’. ‘

FurryHappyKittens · 01/08/2025 13:45

One of the things that wasn't quite clear in the timeline was exactly when Rick Stein was at Hayes Farm for the first time. I've got late 2022 / early 2023, as the programme aired 14 Feb 23.

Can anyone narrow this down?

Bill Cole talks about it, and the Walkers leaving, but it's not fully clear exactly when it happened.

LetsBeSensible · 01/08/2025 13:47

AlertCat · 01/08/2025 07:00

I don’t know why you are so angry at Mauvish because there is quite a lot of support for the mind-body connection in all sorts of ailments and dis-ease, not to mention the exacerbation caused by the inflammatory responses seen in chronic stress. This article outlines it pretty well and there is a substantial list of references at the end. This quote directly supports what Mauvish said:

More recently, studies have found that conditions such as chronic illnesses, hormonal imbalances, nutritional deficiencies, and even gut health disruptions influence mood, exacerbate anxiety and depression, and impact cognitive function (Herselman & Bobrovskaya, 2023; Sonali et al., 2022).
These effects also work in the other direction. States such as stress, joy, and anxiety can trigger biochemical responses that affect immune function, heart rate, digestion, and even pain perception (Nahid & Alipoor, 2022; Ishikawa & Furuyashiki, 2021).”

I won’t continue engaging on this subject but it was a pretty unnecessary attack on a poster on what’s generally been a really nice and supportive thread, and especially when the attack is just wrong.

https://positivepsychology.com/body-mind-integration-attention-training/

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These aren't biomedical studies.
They are psychological ones, which is exactly my point.

Uricon2 · 01/08/2025 13:56

FlyAgaricc · 01/08/2025 09:40

@TheBrandyPath that reading room is the dream...

When me and DH moved in together, I was initially unaware of the 53 packing cases of books that would accompany him. I also had books.

Who really needs a spare room, though?

Mind you this is as nothing compared to an old lecturer of mine where every room in his house was full of floor to ceiling piles of neatly stacked and well dusted academic tomes.

AldoGordo · 01/08/2025 14:00

I'm not sure if this has been noticed or flagged before, so apologies if this is a repeat, but I was looking at the 2015 letter again and tallying it with the TSP timeline of medical info.

Something rather interesting came to light.

In TSP, RW wrote about the 2013 appointment with the consultant, mentioning that “endless trips to Drs waiting rooms had begun 6 years previously." Therefore, accordingly, TW first went to a GP in 2007.

Meanwhille, the 2015 letter states that "Mr Walker's symptoms began 9 or 10 years ago...it was not until 2009 that he [TW] attended the surgery for an assessment."

So first of all we have a pretty big inconsistency. But also note the similarity: Both specify that TW first saw a doctor 6 years before the diagnosis.

If RW was truthful about the 6 years fact, then this gives even more weight to the idea that the 2015 consultation was indeed the consultation.

Hyenana · 01/08/2025 14:00

Catwith69lives · 01/08/2025 13:33

Eating instant noodles makes good sense if you want cheap lightweight calories that you can eat when wild camping.
The health and environmental benefits of eating industrial quantatities of them are less compelling, particularly if you are a self proclaimed 'eco-warrior'.
The cheap brands are invariably fried in palm oil and harvested from plantations of former rainforest in areas of SE Asia such as Indonesia. Not great news if you are an orangutan in that part of the world!

@Catwith69lives

Eating instant noodles makes good sense if you want cheap lightweight calories that you can eat when wild camping.

I'm not even sure it does - of course dried food weighs less, but if you are wild camping and have to carry all the water you need, including that for cooking the noodles, you haven't won anything regarding weight. Or do they cook them in sea water? They never say.
Also cooking needs fuel, and they never seem to have to buy any. The only mention of them not having enough is about not being able to cook a rabbit or seeaweed at one point - can't you eat seaweed raw?

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 14:02

onlyinitforthefudge · 01/08/2025 13:24

Cheapest noodles in ASDA are 25p atm, so with COL they would have definitely been about 20p in supermarkets at the time, not sure about corner shops.

Fair enough. I think they just seemed so sure that noodles were always there and affordable, no matter how tight things got, whereas the little rural shop I’m currently reliant on for anything I didn’t bring with me definitely doesn’t stock them. Though I suppose that if little shops along the SWCP get a lot of LD walkers, that will impact on what they choose to stock?

TheBrandyPath · 01/08/2025 14:02

NoCowardSoul · 01/08/2025 13:43

But RW didn’t write that. And I imagine the position of whoever did would be ‘Well, the author has signed a contract saying it’s true, and I didn’t have enough space on a blurb to say ‘possible diagnosis of something usually terminal but which can only be definitely diagnosed post-mortem’. ‘

But did have enough space to write: unflinchingly honest/inspiring/life-affirming/true/coming to terms with grief/ the healing power of the natural world.....etc.

The diagnosis is ever-present in the book - one of the main themes, like this:

Moth: "I don’t know about the longer term, don’t know if I’ve got a longer term, ........."

AzureStaffy · 01/08/2025 14:03

@NoCowardSoul

"But TSP carefully doesn’t make any medical claims. The legal team will have been all over it,"

If you mean Penguin Random House legal team, then wouldn't they have found the claims about the house repossession and challenged it?

AldoGordo · 01/08/2025 14:05

Hyenana · 01/08/2025 14:00

@Catwith69lives

Eating instant noodles makes good sense if you want cheap lightweight calories that you can eat when wild camping.

I'm not even sure it does - of course dried food weighs less, but if you are wild camping and have to carry all the water you need, including that for cooking the noodles, you haven't won anything regarding weight. Or do they cook them in sea water? They never say.
Also cooking needs fuel, and they never seem to have to buy any. The only mention of them not having enough is about not being able to cook a rabbit or seeaweed at one point - can't you eat seaweed raw?

They buy gas in one of the places, Penzance I think. Apparently it's the last can in an old hardware store having found none of the correct type in the outdoor shops.

Fandango52 · 01/08/2025 14:06

FurryHappyKittens · 01/08/2025 13:45

One of the things that wasn't quite clear in the timeline was exactly when Rick Stein was at Hayes Farm for the first time. I've got late 2022 / early 2023, as the programme aired 14 Feb 23.

Can anyone narrow this down?

Bill Cole talks about it, and the Walkers leaving, but it's not fully clear exactly when it happened.

Haye Farm’s Facebook page has a post from 2024 saying Rick Stein visited them ‘last year’, which suggests he went in 2023. That suggests he must have gone in Jan 2023, if the programme aired in Feb 2023.

AldoGordo · 01/08/2025 14:07

Fandango52 · 01/08/2025 14:06

Haye Farm’s Facebook page has a post from 2024 saying Rick Stein visited them ‘last year’, which suggests he went in 2023. That suggests he must have gone in Jan 2023, if the programme aired in Feb 2023.

Can't be, the leaves are on the trees and apples on the ground. Must have been 2022.

FlyAgaricc · 01/08/2025 14:10

Uricon2 · 01/08/2025 13:56

When me and DH moved in together, I was initially unaware of the 53 packing cases of books that would accompany him. I also had books.

Who really needs a spare room, though?

Mind you this is as nothing compared to an old lecturer of mine where every room in his house was full of floor to ceiling piles of neatly stacked and well dusted academic tomes.

Its a dream of mine to have a massive shelved wall full of books. Don't know if it will ever happen though. Marie Kondo says you should get rid of them but I like to keep them all as they tell the story of my life. Apart from The Salt Path rubbish ones

Uricon2 · 01/08/2025 14:10

Hyenana · 01/08/2025 14:00

@Catwith69lives

Eating instant noodles makes good sense if you want cheap lightweight calories that you can eat when wild camping.

I'm not even sure it does - of course dried food weighs less, but if you are wild camping and have to carry all the water you need, including that for cooking the noodles, you haven't won anything regarding weight. Or do they cook them in sea water? They never say.
Also cooking needs fuel, and they never seem to have to buy any. The only mention of them not having enough is about not being able to cook a rabbit or seeaweed at one point - can't you eat seaweed raw?

The incessant noodles thing is odd. OK they're light, but there are cheap nutricious things that can be eaten from a can if you planned ahead not to have to carry them too far. Sardines, even cold baked beans or soup. Very cheap and actually containing some protein.

FlyAgaricc · 01/08/2025 14:14

This is what moths are associated with apparently

Thread 11: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?
TheBrandyPath · 01/08/2025 14:15

@NoCowardSoul Though I suppose that if little shops along the SWCP get a lot of LD walkers, that will impact on what they choose to stock?

At least one of them, right near the path, is more like a dinner party dash. Tinned dolmades, for a start!

AldoGordo · 01/08/2025 14:17

Uricon2 · 01/08/2025 14:10

The incessant noodles thing is odd. OK they're light, but there are cheap nutricious things that can be eaten from a can if you planned ahead not to have to carry them too far. Sardines, even cold baked beans or soup. Very cheap and actually containing some protein.

Yes, and they were passing through so many towns and villages that it was probably not very often they'd be more than a day's walk from reaching another shop.

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