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To think the RNLI are 100% in the right

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SanFranBear · 29/07/2025 09:44

I've just seen this story on the BBC news homepage where the RNLI are being accused of acting as a taxi service for migrants trying to enter the UK on small boats from Europe.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8dejyg4l37o

The organisation and volunteers quite rightly have responded to say they make no apologies for saving lives at sea and that their work has no political motivation.

Damn straight - one of the volunteers further down the article explains the profound impact he feels of encountering people struggling in our waters.

It makes me wonder what critics of the service expect them to do - just sail away, leaving the people to die? Pick them up and cross the channel to dump them back 'where they came from'?

What is wrong with them? Where is their compassion? Regardless of your thoughts on immigration, this is so cold and inhuman....

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SnipSnipMrBurgess · 29/07/2025 11:07

Phobiaphobic · 29/07/2025 10:45

I'm curious at what point the non-knuckle-draggers would say enough is enough. Would you be comfortable if the numbers of small boat migrants doubled? How about a factor of 10? Or 100? At what point would you acknowledge that we have a problem?

Just assume your only choices were they are in the sea and picked up or they drown with out help.

Which are you choosing?

Kossak · 29/07/2025 11:08

You're right. It's a strict rule of being at sea that your vessel MUST where possible go to the assistance of anyone in danger or at the very least stand by to help. No exceptions. Husband spent a lot of his professional life at sea and the RNLI is entirely in the right as well.

Tia247 · 29/07/2025 11:08

KassandraOfSparta · 29/07/2025 11:01

It's a really hard situation.

I totally see where the RNLI are coming from, they are a charity which rescues people at sea and this is exactly what they are doing. Saving lives.

However the real issue here is the organised criminals who are running the "taxi" boats for migrants and charging them huge sums of money for their trip. Being able to use the RNLI in their sales pitch - don't worry if anything goes wrong they'll pick you up - just means they will keep sending off boats which are dangerously overloaded and people will die if the RNLI don't get there quickly enough.

There needs to be a better way of stopping the boats leaving France. And not the shitty 50 people sent back a week which is deterring nobody. What that better way is though - not sure.

There needs to be a really well organised and resourced, world wide (as much as possible) agreement to dismantle the organised criminals involved in people smuggling. Countries working together on this - and on other illegal activities such as drugs. Well IMO anyway.

Simonjt · 29/07/2025 11:08

Zebedee999 · 29/07/2025 10:55

Not if they enter the country illegally... they are criminals. No countries allows people to enter their country illegally, it is why they have laws around it and why those breaking those laws are criminals. Honestly this is why the country is in a mess, we are allowing people in who then justify those entering illegally... absolutely zero respect for the rule of law.
It's too late to maintain standards in this country, it is a free for all.

Can you detail which law you personally believe is being broken?

Smallsalt · 29/07/2025 11:09

If you stumble into newspaper threads about the RNLI there is a whole foaming mouthed class of in breds spouting this stuff.
About how they will never give them another penny.....like they ever did.

It's vile.

JaneJeffer · 29/07/2025 11:09

"When we took that little girl - who was probably four years old - off that boat, she looked at me straight in the eye and she said 'Thank you. I love you.'"
🥺

AllKindsOfThingsAreInteresting · 29/07/2025 11:09

FurryHappyKittens · 29/07/2025 09:47

I like when stories like this hit the news. It means the RNLI get an influx of donations.

Yes, I set up a monthly standing order last time there was a news story like this.

Hillsmakeyoustrong · 29/07/2025 11:10

I live near the coast and I support the RNLI. I walked past a fundraiser literally last week and got into conversation. He was telling me that only earlier that day he had been verbally abused by a woman for saving all lives at sea. He was really depressed by it. In my view, they are not unlike doctors in that they have a duty to save human life no matter who that human is or where they are. Maybe the protesters should consider if saving drowning babies and children is a political matter.

pointythings · 29/07/2025 11:10

Phobiaphobic · 29/07/2025 10:57

France. They are leaving FRANCE. I mean the French can be annoying, but in all the time I've spent there, they've never made me feel particularly unsafe.

And? So? They can go where they want to. Their reasons for choosing the UK are well documented. Want to stop it? Then provide legal routes for seeking asylum from outside the UK (there are none at present) and tackle the shadow economy hard.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 29/07/2025 11:11

Well done RNLI. Statements against them doing this from Nigel Farage and his lot are evil.

Smallsalt · 29/07/2025 11:12

This country entered multiple countries around the world illegally and in much greater numbers.
Generally the desperate immigrants are from desperate counties are in desperate situations, due to British interference directly or indirectly.

Pancakeaddict · 29/07/2025 11:13

Simonjt · 29/07/2025 11:08

Can you detail which law you personally believe is being broken?

It is illegal if you don't claim asylum when you arrive. The act of crossing is illegal but our law effectively sees it as justifiable if you are escaping mortal danger as an asylum seeker.

To think the RNLI are 100% in the right
NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/07/2025 11:13

Pancakeaddict · 29/07/2025 10:56

I agree which is why I don't think the OP is being unreasonable. The RNLI is mopping up after decades of government negligence and political reluctance to actually solve the problem. There aren't enough resources to go round and on some days difficult choices will have to be made about who is rescued by officials. It can't go on.

I don't think it would be an acceptable situation if an ambulance couldn't get to a serious, life-threatening situation and called in kind passers-by without proper training or equipment to volunteer to help instead.

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The existence of community defibrillators that can be used by people without training and community response volunteers for the Red Cross and St John Ambulance do both of those things. And any decent human being in the location.

It's been the Law of the Sea for all boats to help anybody who requests it for centuries - because one day it might be them needing help from somebody in the location, the Sea being an exceedingly large place.

There's no failure in requesting boats to assist, because it's physically impossible to be everywhere at once and the international rule of assisting anybody in trouble at sea existed long before the RNLI.

Itisnotdownonanymap · 29/07/2025 11:13

BCBird · 29/07/2025 10:25

I totally agree. I remember the comedians Smith and Jones did a sketch e
where there was a list of fatalities/ injuries- can't remember. It was done in a hierarchy. Think some animals were placed above certain nationalities. It was clearly a dig and not comedy. Got my teenage brain thinking back then

Well several people wanted cats and dogs taken out of Afghanistan before humans

nomas · 29/07/2025 11:13

BIWI · 29/07/2025 10:18

So who are the 13 or so people who think YABU? And why haven’t they had the courage of their convictions to argue their point?

Yep, the usual posters seem very quiet today.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 29/07/2025 11:14

TennisLady · 29/07/2025 10:57

This gets so tiresome to read doesn’t it. Any local Facebook page discussing anything from new houses, to signs of work at an abandoned business, a new hotel or development etc. you just get brainless idiots commenting “it’s for the boat people!”

Along with flat screen tvs and latest iPhones, that they’re all supposedly given 🤦‍♀️.

It’s so fucking tiresome when they say this bullshit all the time!

KassandraOfSparta · 29/07/2025 11:17

And then you're back into the argument that nobody leaving France is in "mortal danger".

The whole system is a mess and Labour really need to get a handle on it or Farage will goosestep into No 10 next election. People are worried about the "boat people", because they are by and large young men. The system can't cope with them, it would be a different matter if asylum claims were heard in a week but they're not. Get across the Channel and you're guaranteed at least a year here before your claim is decided, that gives you loads of time to disappear into the grey economy anywhere in the UK.

There are no easy answers to this but shouting down people who raise concerns isn't helpful. We need to be having these discussions.

Zebedee999 · 29/07/2025 11:18

pointythings · 29/07/2025 11:06

Once again for the hard of thinking at the back: It is not illegal to come to the UK in a small boat.

Yes it is. You are peddling lies

British law requires a visa or other special permission to enter the country. Punishable by four years in prison.
If on arrival they claim asylum then any criminal case is put on hold pending an outcome.
However that asylum claim “should” be invalidated as international law requires people to claim asylum in the first safe country they enter… which isn’t the uk.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 29/07/2025 11:18

@SanFranBear well, i think they are running a taxi service. they are picking up people who are in boats which are perfectly serviceable. nothing wrong with the boats, so the people are not in danger. i will not be donating to them again and know many, many others who also refuse to donate to them! all those people on the boats come of the rnli with new iphones. who is providing those?? the uk government should be patrolling the channel and turning the boats round back towards france. as for feeling sorry, where are the mothers, why are they mostly strong young males? If there are mothers, why have they endangered their childrens' lives? they are meant to stop in the first country they reach! think of me what you want!

RainSoakedNights · 29/07/2025 11:19

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 29/07/2025 11:18

@SanFranBear well, i think they are running a taxi service. they are picking up people who are in boats which are perfectly serviceable. nothing wrong with the boats, so the people are not in danger. i will not be donating to them again and know many, many others who also refuse to donate to them! all those people on the boats come of the rnli with new iphones. who is providing those?? the uk government should be patrolling the channel and turning the boats round back towards france. as for feeling sorry, where are the mothers, why are they mostly strong young males? If there are mothers, why have they endangered their childrens' lives? they are meant to stop in the first country they reach! think of me what you want!

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Do you have a source to show that the RNLI routinely carries new iPhones with them, and hands them out to people getting into difficulty? I need an upgrade, maybe I should just go swimming…

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/07/2025 11:20

The RNLI aren't the border police, they are a rescue service.

You would have to be seriously fucked up in the head to think RNLI volunteers should watch people drown when they realise they are migrants instead of saving them.

Boing98 · 29/07/2025 11:21

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 29/07/2025 11:18

@SanFranBear well, i think they are running a taxi service. they are picking up people who are in boats which are perfectly serviceable. nothing wrong with the boats, so the people are not in danger. i will not be donating to them again and know many, many others who also refuse to donate to them! all those people on the boats come of the rnli with new iphones. who is providing those?? the uk government should be patrolling the channel and turning the boats round back towards france. as for feeling sorry, where are the mothers, why are they mostly strong young males? If there are mothers, why have they endangered their childrens' lives? they are meant to stop in the first country they reach! think of me what you want!

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You forgot to mention flat earth and vaccines.

nomas · 29/07/2025 11:21

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/07/2025 11:20

The RNLI aren't the border police, they are a rescue service.

You would have to be seriously fucked up in the head to think RNLI volunteers should watch people drown when they realise they are migrants instead of saving them.

Yep and I'm guessing those people are tucked up in their cosy homes and don't have to do what the RNLI do.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 29/07/2025 11:22

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 29/07/2025 11:18

@SanFranBear well, i think they are running a taxi service. they are picking up people who are in boats which are perfectly serviceable. nothing wrong with the boats, so the people are not in danger. i will not be donating to them again and know many, many others who also refuse to donate to them! all those people on the boats come of the rnli with new iphones. who is providing those?? the uk government should be patrolling the channel and turning the boats round back towards france. as for feeling sorry, where are the mothers, why are they mostly strong young males? If there are mothers, why have they endangered their childrens' lives? they are meant to stop in the first country they reach! think of me what you want!

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And here we have a “get new iPhones” nonsense! I’m so glad I posted about this before this was put up, proved a perfect point.

When do you think they get the “flat screen tvs”.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/07/2025 11:22

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 29/07/2025 11:18

@SanFranBear well, i think they are running a taxi service. they are picking up people who are in boats which are perfectly serviceable. nothing wrong with the boats, so the people are not in danger. i will not be donating to them again and know many, many others who also refuse to donate to them! all those people on the boats come of the rnli with new iphones. who is providing those?? the uk government should be patrolling the channel and turning the boats round back towards france. as for feeling sorry, where are the mothers, why are they mostly strong young males? If there are mothers, why have they endangered their childrens' lives? they are meant to stop in the first country they reach! think of me what you want!

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they are meant to stop in the first country they reach!

Would you say that if you lived in the first safe country they reach, or would you say that all safe countries should be doing their fair share?