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To think the RNLI are 100% in the right

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SanFranBear · 29/07/2025 09:44

I've just seen this story on the BBC news homepage where the RNLI are being accused of acting as a taxi service for migrants trying to enter the UK on small boats from Europe.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8dejyg4l37o

The organisation and volunteers quite rightly have responded to say they make no apologies for saving lives at sea and that their work has no political motivation.

Damn straight - one of the volunteers further down the article explains the profound impact he feels of encountering people struggling in our waters.

It makes me wonder what critics of the service expect them to do - just sail away, leaving the people to die? Pick them up and cross the channel to dump them back 'where they came from'?

What is wrong with them? Where is their compassion? Regardless of your thoughts on immigration, this is so cold and inhuman....

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EasternStandard · 31/07/2025 13:27

cardibach · 31/07/2025 13:20

The existence of increasing numbers of multi millionaires and billionaires threatens society and culture because they are taking wealth out of circulation and making everyone else poorer. That increases tensions and pits people against each other. It threatens a lot of our cultural norms like politeness and tolerance.

If those people were all to leave do you think we would fare better?

ETA given that you’ll likely say yes what does the tax take look like, who is paying more?

LakieLady · 31/07/2025 13:27

cardibach · 31/07/2025 09:35

Sly? Someone fleeing because their house has been bombed, say, or because they have to run unexpectedly due to being about to be arrested and tortured - those people shout be able to get a passport and other paperwork?
Just give it a moment’s thought and you’ll see the problems.

When my Kurdish friend fled her home country, she fled with just what she was wearing. She didn't go back home to collect her passport and other documentation, for fear that she would be taken by the security forces, imprisoned again, and possibly tortured again, and that she might also jeopardise her family's safety.

LakieLady · 31/07/2025 13:35

suburburban · 31/07/2025 10:37

As a Nation we enjoy sports, theatre and music and have plenty of history

we have a Christian heritage that enshrines our laws

.... and breaks them.

CofE child abuse

Lit candles in church

Church of England abuse cases run to hundreds - report

The Church's Past Cases Review looks at cases relating to living clergy, officials and volunteers.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63144354

cardibach · 31/07/2025 13:43

EasternStandard · 31/07/2025 13:27

If those people were all to leave do you think we would fare better?

ETA given that you’ll likely say yes what does the tax take look like, who is paying more?

Edited

I haven’t a solution. I’m just presenting the problem. We’ve allowed inequality to grow - it started before covid but accelerated in that period. Unless we can solve it governments and the middle class will find life increasingly difficult, and the poorest will find it impossible.

2dogsandabudgie · 31/07/2025 13:47

cardibach · 31/07/2025 13:20

The existence of increasing numbers of multi millionaires and billionaires threatens society and culture because they are taking wealth out of circulation and making everyone else poorer. That increases tensions and pits people against each other. It threatens a lot of our cultural norms like politeness and tolerance.

You're saying that rich people are the problem and that if we didn't have them then everyone would get along? You're living in a fantasy world if you actually believe that.

cardibach · 31/07/2025 13:49

2dogsandabudgie · 31/07/2025 13:47

You're saying that rich people are the problem and that if we didn't have them then everyone would get along? You're living in a fantasy world if you actually believe that.

I’m saying inequality is the problem. Like a stick with 2 ends, the increasing wealth of the 1% reduces the wealth of everyone else.
We’ve had long enough to show trickle down doesn’t work. Unless we sort out inequality we are all in trouble. Even you, unless you are (at least) a multi millionaire.

TheNuthatch · 31/07/2025 14:09

cardibach · 31/07/2025 13:22

But you said letting Eritrean men in would make our cities unsafe. Letting violent men be at large does. Most of those aren’t Eritrean. And now you agree not all (or even most?) Eritrean men.

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Eh?
Are you saying that men the world over have exactly the same attitudes towards women and girls?

cardibach · 31/07/2025 14:13

TheNuthatch · 31/07/2025 14:09

Eh?
Are you saying that men the world over have exactly the same attitudes towards women and girls?

This thread is almost entirely made up of straw man arguments.
No. I didn’t say that. I’m saying men from anywhere can be a risk. And also men from anywhere may not be a risk. There are lots of reasons cities in Eritrea might be unsafe for women while Eritrean immigrants might not be a problem (not least that they left Eritrea for a reason - could it be they don’t like the way their female relatives are treated?).

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/07/2025 14:29

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 31/07/2025 09:40

so it’s ok for our own people to drown while the RNLI are off helping illegal immigrants???

Three things with that;

  1. Most British people whether in the process of drowning or not wouldn't be able to answer the Life in the UK questions. Are you suggesting that somebody clinging to a bit of flotsam or a rapidly deflating inflatable flamingo undergoes an assessment of their understanding of the offside rule and the principle of fronted adverbials - or are you actually suggesting that the person on the phone at the lifeboat station says 'Umm, maybe we could fit them in - what colour are their faces? Can you ask them? Oh...nope, we've got a separate call coming in for a pissed up bloke from Sedgeley who's dropped an oar whilst fishing, we'll have to go and pick him up from just outside the marina first 'cos he's white and nobody can tell that his grandma had a fling with a Polish Spitfire pilot in 1943, so can you tell them they'll have to wait a bit?'
  2. There's no passport pocket in a lifejacket.
  3. Have you any comprehension of the international nature of fishing, merchant/trade shipping, oil and gas extraction, scientific research, tourism and commercial transport? They've always, and I mean always, been absolutely founded upon crew from multiple countries employed on the basis of their skills, knowledge and experience.
suburburban · 31/07/2025 15:26

LakieLady · 31/07/2025 13:35

.... and breaks them.

CofE child abuse

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Yes I know and it isn’t right

Notonthestairs · 31/07/2025 16:24

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 12:37

So would it be legal for the RNLI to drop them back in France?

Not unless they have consent from French authorities. Do they?

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:40

Notonthestairs · 31/07/2025 16:24

Not unless they have consent from French authorities. Do they?

So this is a legal problem rather than a moral one?

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:42

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/07/2025 14:29

Three things with that;

  1. Most British people whether in the process of drowning or not wouldn't be able to answer the Life in the UK questions. Are you suggesting that somebody clinging to a bit of flotsam or a rapidly deflating inflatable flamingo undergoes an assessment of their understanding of the offside rule and the principle of fronted adverbials - or are you actually suggesting that the person on the phone at the lifeboat station says 'Umm, maybe we could fit them in - what colour are their faces? Can you ask them? Oh...nope, we've got a separate call coming in for a pissed up bloke from Sedgeley who's dropped an oar whilst fishing, we'll have to go and pick him up from just outside the marina first 'cos he's white and nobody can tell that his grandma had a fling with a Polish Spitfire pilot in 1943, so can you tell them they'll have to wait a bit?'
  2. There's no passport pocket in a lifejacket.
  3. Have you any comprehension of the international nature of fishing, merchant/trade shipping, oil and gas extraction, scientific research, tourism and commercial transport? They've always, and I mean always, been absolutely founded upon crew from multiple countries employed on the basis of their skills, knowledge and experience.

The people on the boats don’t need a passport pocket. They’ve already burnt all their documentation.

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:53

So the most pressing problem this country is facing is not hordes of young blokes illegally entering the country and then being deposited en masse in small market towns in hotels right next to secondary schools. The most pressing problem facing this country is actually (checks notes) billionaires. Have I got that right?

Notonthestairs · 31/07/2025 18:58

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:40

So this is a legal problem rather than a moral one?

Is what a moral problem?

The RNLI is a charity that saves lives at sea.

EasternStandard · 31/07/2025 19:07

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:53

So the most pressing problem this country is facing is not hordes of young blokes illegally entering the country and then being deposited en masse in small market towns in hotels right next to secondary schools. The most pressing problem facing this country is actually (checks notes) billionaires. Have I got that right?

Billionaires was cited yes

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/07/2025 19:13

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 18:42

The people on the boats don’t need a passport pocket. They’ve already burnt all their documentation.

But you'd expect British fishermen, tourists, holidaymakers, hobby sailors and the like to prove their eligibility to be pulled out of the sea or be left to drown? Seems a little harsh.

TheNuthatch · 31/07/2025 19:20

cardibach · 31/07/2025 14:13

This thread is almost entirely made up of straw man arguments.
No. I didn’t say that. I’m saying men from anywhere can be a risk. And also men from anywhere may not be a risk. There are lots of reasons cities in Eritrea might be unsafe for women while Eritrean immigrants might not be a problem (not least that they left Eritrea for a reason - could it be they don’t like the way their female relatives are treated?).

No I dont think that the men come to here because they're upset about women's rights back home.

AlbusAttica · 31/07/2025 19:43

TheNuthatch · 31/07/2025 19:20

No I dont think that the men come to here because they're upset about women's rights back home.

So it's completely inconceivable to you that someone may flee a country because of concern for the safety of their daughters. Why?

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 19:44

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/07/2025 19:13

But you'd expect British fishermen, tourists, holidaymakers, hobby sailors and the like to prove their eligibility to be pulled out of the sea or be left to drown? Seems a little harsh.

You don’t tend to see sixty holiday makers crushed together on a small rubber dinghy.

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 19:46

AlbusAttica · 31/07/2025 19:43

So it's completely inconceivable to you that someone may flee a country because of concern for the safety of their daughters. Why?

So they’re concerned about the safety of their daughters and their solution is to leave the daughters in danger and travel alone to this country?

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 19:48

Notonthestairs · 31/07/2025 18:58

Is what a moral problem?

The RNLI is a charity that saves lives at sea.

If the legalities could be sorted out you would be okay with the RNLI or the navy picking up the illegal immigrants and depositing them back in France?

AlbusAttica · 31/07/2025 19:51

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 19:46

So they’re concerned about the safety of their daughters and their solution is to leave the daughters in danger and travel alone to this country?

Last time I checked it wasn't just single men travelling in small boats.

TheNuthatch · 31/07/2025 20:00

AlbusAttica · 31/07/2025 19:51

Last time I checked it wasn't just single men travelling in small boats.

Around 80% are men.

suburburban · 31/07/2025 20:14

Funeraltango · 31/07/2025 19:48

If the legalities could be sorted out you would be okay with the RNLI or the navy picking up the illegal immigrants and depositing them back in France?

yes

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