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To think the RNLI are 100% in the right

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SanFranBear · 29/07/2025 09:44

I've just seen this story on the BBC news homepage where the RNLI are being accused of acting as a taxi service for migrants trying to enter the UK on small boats from Europe.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8dejyg4l37o

The organisation and volunteers quite rightly have responded to say they make no apologies for saving lives at sea and that their work has no political motivation.

Damn straight - one of the volunteers further down the article explains the profound impact he feels of encountering people struggling in our waters.

It makes me wonder what critics of the service expect them to do - just sail away, leaving the people to die? Pick them up and cross the channel to dump them back 'where they came from'?

What is wrong with them? Where is their compassion? Regardless of your thoughts on immigration, this is so cold and inhuman....

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Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:19

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 29/07/2025 14:46

Clearly charity ends at home for some.

Some people manage to have jobs and families and a bit of compassion for others. But I guess not everyone has the capacity to look beyond their own self interest.

I think labelling everyone who doesn’t want to volunteer to help economic migrants as purely self interested covers 99.9% of the population 🤣🤣

Mumsnet is truly mad, no more or less.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:23

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 15:36

The ones profiting massively from having them there. No one wants to live in a vermin infested, hovel.Hmm Its brainwashed delusion and/or racism to think otherwise.

If the hotel in my town has been wrecked in 4 months it is the people living there who have done it. Or they are literally living in a 4-star hotel. I didn’t say it was a hovel that’s what mumsnet chorused at me 🙄

Zellycat · 29/07/2025 16:31

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 29/07/2025 13:47

But we are in the UK, so how is EU guidance relevant to us now?

They have arrived from a safe country in the EU. FFS why unwilling to understand that if person leaves “unsafe” Syria a person likely travels thru 8-10 “safe” countries where SHOULD claim asylum before hopping in a small boat in France.

If person is fleeing unsafe France, then yes UK could reasonably be first safe country.

DuncinToffee · 29/07/2025 16:36

EasternStandard · 29/07/2025 16:16

I didn’t vote for Brexit but the stuff that gets repeated on the DA just doesn’t stack up. If it did the rest of the EU wouldn’t be facing pretty much the same as us.

The inability to send people ‘back’ somewhere, first countries can refuse under the DA and the numbers are very low, and the lack of security. They are evident problems still in the EU rn and increasing.

In answer to your question I don’t think we have much less ability to deal with it due to Brexit, and actually could have more if voters give mandate.

Although things could change with a new EU pact, not sure how that will pan out.

Can you explain what you mean with actually could have more if voters give mandate?

Give mandate for what?

2dogsandabudgie · 29/07/2025 16:38

Lavender14 · 29/07/2025 15:20

So, your "non knuckle dragging" solution is to just allow the avoidable drowning of men women and children? You personally would feel OK to stand by and watch from a boat as they drowned in front of your eyes, knowing you could save them but you just... won't?

You don't think that is in any way morally bankrupt? Traumatic for the rnli staff and volunteers you're expecting to carry this out?

You don't solve crime and exploitation by just killing off vulnerable people.

This is a multifaceted problem - our asylum process is unfit for purpose for a start. We have an ingrained problem with housing and cost of living and sustainability of key services because of decades long austerity and intentional under funding by the government. The UK has long been involved in the destabilising of countries for financial gain and now we are surprised people are fleeing those same countries. The lack of resources we've left in our wake is exactly what's allowed for extremism and gangs and violence to take over which is where these people smugglers are stemming from. Our NHS etc is dependent on immigration for staffing. A tiny proportion of immigrants depend on benefits- the rest work and contribute to our economy. We have plenty of criminals who are locally grown and if you want to address the issue of integration then again that takes gov to stop under funding community level services the way they have been and continue to do. Plenty of ways to tackle this although none a fast fix. Just killing off the people who are in genuine need - that's not it.

@2dogsandabudgie do you understand how bad the living conditions in refugee camps in other countries are? The lack of safety for women and children? Issues with disease or lack of food or fire risk etc? Yes. There is need. In an ideal world our asylum system would be better, more efficient and easier for vulnerable people to navigate and they would choose that instead but the reality is, it isn't fit for purpose so that's not an option for many people.

Are you saying that countries like France, Spain, Belgium, Germany, Holland and numerous other EU countries are so bad that asylum seekers/migrants need to make the crossing? Give over.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 29/07/2025 16:40

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:23

If the hotel in my town has been wrecked in 4 months it is the people living there who have done it. Or they are literally living in a 4-star hotel. I didn’t say it was a hovel that’s what mumsnet chorused at me 🙄

You clearly haven't a clue how "stars" are awarded. They are not based on the shell of a building - they are about service, facilities, food and beverage options, location, comfort, safety measures etc., etc. You do not seriously think that all the nice furniture is left in there, and there is room service, do you? You can turn a 4 star hotel into a 0 star hotel just by removing the furniture and staff - which is exactly what is done before asylum seekers are moved in.

DuncinToffee · 29/07/2025 16:45

2dogsandabudgie · 29/07/2025 16:38

Are you saying that countries like France, Spain, Belgium, Germany, Holland and numerous other EU countries are so bad that asylum seekers/migrants need to make the crossing? Give over.

Plenty of asylum seekers do stay in those countries.

FortheloveofCheesus · 29/07/2025 16:51

The RNLI are doing exactly what they are supposed to do.

I don't really understand how there aren't beach patrols stopping these boats (from a safety perspective) when they are visibly overloaded setting off. The people on board often can't swim and these boats are regularly clearly not seaworthy, they are basically allowing catastrophic accidents to happen.

usernamealreadytaken · 29/07/2025 17:03

TheHouseofElrig · 29/07/2025 10:55

No one puts their child on a dinghy unless the water is safer than the land they are leaving.

Bloody hell MN, cancel your holidays to France, it's dangerous there 🙄

TherelsALightThatNeverGoesOut · 29/07/2025 17:04

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:19

I think labelling everyone who doesn’t want to volunteer to help economic migrants as purely self interested covers 99.9% of the population 🤣🤣

Mumsnet is truly mad, no more or less.

Compassion, which is what the poster you're responding to mentioned, costs nothing, not even your time.

If being compassionate means you're mad, I'd rather be mad than purely self interested.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 17:18

TherelsALightThatNeverGoesOut · 29/07/2025 17:04

Compassion, which is what the poster you're responding to mentioned, costs nothing, not even your time.

If being compassionate means you're mad, I'd rather be mad than purely self interested.

No, I was told that I had to volunteer with asylum seekers.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 17:20

PhilippaGeorgiou · 29/07/2025 16:40

You clearly haven't a clue how "stars" are awarded. They are not based on the shell of a building - they are about service, facilities, food and beverage options, location, comfort, safety measures etc., etc. You do not seriously think that all the nice furniture is left in there, and there is room service, do you? You can turn a 4 star hotel into a 0 star hotel just by removing the furniture and staff - which is exactly what is done before asylum seekers are moved in.

There is nothing wrong with the building. Or at least there wasn’t.

Why are you so adamant that all the accommodation people are living in is a hovel? Where is your evidence for this? I’m sure some is bad, but to assert that somewhere you’ve never been is now a hovel is really very arrogant.

Horseytwinkletoes321 · 29/07/2025 17:23

I have to be honest this situation makes me hesitant to donate in future, which is a real shame. The system currently in place seems deeply flawed and in need of a serious rethink. I believe there should be a more structured and firm approach to handling these illegal crossings. While I absolutely do not want to see anyone come to harm, especially at sea, I think those attempting to cross in this way should either be safely escorted back to French waters for their authorities to respond, or be brought to a secure processing centre where they are properly identified and then returned via appropriate means. Applications for asylum should not be accepted from those arriving via this route, if they were automatically declined and had fingerprints/photos taken to identify them they would be less likely to take the risk.

I fully support using our lifeboats for genuine emergencies where lives are at immediate risk, regardless of who is involved but I also feel we need dedicated resources to manage these specific migration challenges, so our rescue services can stay focused on critical, time-sensitive incidents.

It’s also worth acknowledging that many of these individuals are leaving a country widely regarded as safe and stable, I’m taking my own family there on holiday next week. It's hard to reconcile that they are fleeing a safe country to risk their lives to come here.

TherelsALightThatNeverGoesOut · 29/07/2025 17:26

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 17:18

No, I was told that I had to volunteer with asylum seekers.

No you weren't.

TherelsALightThatNeverGoesOut · 29/07/2025 17:29

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 17:20

There is nothing wrong with the building. Or at least there wasn’t.

Why are you so adamant that all the accommodation people are living in is a hovel? Where is your evidence for this? I’m sure some is bad, but to assert that somewhere you’ve never been is now a hovel is really very arrogant.

I have literally told you about the state of the hotels I've visited, and how they were run down long before they were used to house asylum seekers.

There may be nothing wrong with the building externally but I strongly suspect inside it's quite different. Although how do you know, unless you've been inside?

Rhubarbandgooseburycrumble · 29/07/2025 17:29

Freysimo · 29/07/2025 14:28

I saw this on the lunchtime news. I may have missed it, but who exactly is accusing them of being an immigrant taxi service, just vague "social media"? Came across as a fund raising pr exercise by the BBC imo.

If you read any post by the RNLI, you will read the same awful statements about being a taxi service.
Dover lifeboat crew are threatened with violence, shouted out and avoid wearing anything lifeboat related to avoid trouble.
You can think it’s a PR exercise if you want but you are very, very wrong.

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/07/2025 17:31

FurryHappyKittens · 29/07/2025 09:47

I like when stories like this hit the news. It means the RNLI get an influx of donations.

Yes. I set up a direct debit to RNLI when Farage last had a go at them.

Zellycat · 29/07/2025 17:45

TheHouseofElrig · 29/07/2025 10:55

No one puts their child on a dinghy unless the water is safer than the land they are leaving.

I dispute this claim … that no one puts their child in a dinghy unless that water is safer….

  1. France is safer than the water, Germany, Italy, Spain etc etc
  2. There are plenty of shit parents who don’t prioritize their children’s lives as evidenced by those who do put their kids in dinghies. They are either shit parents, selfish, deluded, so ignorant as to be unaware of the dangers. There are dozens of other choices to make- getting in a small boat to the UK is choice choice choice. They could seek asylum in France. Or other countries. There is always a choice, and it’s not dangerous in France …

That statement about “no one puts their child” is ridiculously naive. There are parents who sell their kids into slavery, prostitution, really shit parents who u might think “have no choice” or have few choices, yet value children very little and put them at risk.

You mustn’t be thinking that others think your same thoughts, share you values … because they don’t. A lot of the world … very different attitudes towards children, girls, SEN, disabled, women ….

People do put their children at risk when they have multiple choices - none of which is risky as boat journey.

Port1aCastis · 29/07/2025 18:41

TheHouseofElrig · 29/07/2025 10:48

I 100% support the RNLI and come from a long line of RNLI volunteers.

Ditto

ByNeatPinkHare · 29/07/2025 18:58

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:19

I think labelling everyone who doesn’t want to volunteer to help economic migrants as purely self interested covers 99.9% of the population 🤣🤣

Mumsnet is truly mad, no more or less.

This place is like the "This Is Fine" meme come to life. A containment board for people who fundamentally can't and don't want to confront reality.

The reality is that the UK is going bankrupt. Debt has surpassed 100% of GDP. We import 50% of our food. We have one of the largest trade deficits in the world. We have the most expensive energy in the world. We'll soon be spending more on debt interest payments than the NHS and armed forces.

Before someone says "But US debt" - totally different. They have the world's reserve currency, energy independence, a far more diverse economy, and the world's largest companies.

That's before you get to our grave social problems, such as the breakdown of law and order and the social contract; the growth of sectarian politics; alternative religious legal systems and courts springing up and the police ceding control to 'community leaders'.

We're in an absolute hole, but these people prefer sanctimony to a functioning economy and society.

No country on earth would look at present day UK and seek to emulate it, on basically anything.

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 19:01

Satisfiedwithanapple · 29/07/2025 16:23

If the hotel in my town has been wrecked in 4 months it is the people living there who have done it. Or they are literally living in a 4-star hotel. I didn’t say it was a hovel that’s what mumsnet chorused at me 🙄

What exactly have the refugees done to wreck the hotel?

ByNeatPinkHare · 29/07/2025 19:05

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 19:01

What exactly have the refugees done to wreck the hotel?

Have you ever been to one that's been turned over to them? I have a family members who works in health care and has; she said the state of it was appalling. They have no appreciation at all.

BurntBroccoli · 29/07/2025 19:11

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2025 09:52

Yes, humanity first always. The day this country leaves people to knowingly die would be a dark day.

You only have to read comments on articles to see how some people think.. news reports about someone dying, and I mean someone of any colour and nationality, not a criminal, and there’s people saying they deserved it or joking about it. Makes me sick

I’m seeing more and more of these vile posts on social media; leave them to die, bomb them (relating to Gaza) etc. Just because their skin is a different colour.

The empathy levels are bordering on those of a psychopath and it’s very upsetting to read.

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 19:12

ByNeatPinkHare · 29/07/2025 19:05

Have you ever been to one that's been turned over to them? I have a family members who works in health care and has; she said the state of it was appalling. They have no appreciation at all.

Yes, two.

The one unaffected was a hostel run and maintained by the owners. The worst one was a hotel where the management sacked the staff and havent maintained it despite full capacity and a hefty sum from the government.

What are the migrants doing that is turning the "hotels" into hovels?

ByNeatPinkHare · 29/07/2025 19:17

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 19:12

Yes, two.

The one unaffected was a hostel run and maintained by the owners. The worst one was a hotel where the management sacked the staff and havent maintained it despite full capacity and a hefty sum from the government.

What are the migrants doing that is turning the "hotels" into hovels?

Caused damage, left rubbish everywhere etc
However, even IF you've been fortunate enough to find one that they haven't done this to - that's public money being spent on them which should not be getting and that the UK cannot afford.