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Get frigging childcare

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JuniperJuly · 25/07/2025 12:30

Yes another one of these posts.

Emergencies dont count obviously but otherwise, no you cant do your job and look after your young child at the same time.

This morning I had a 2hr teams meeting with an external person trying to organise an event for September. It was almost impossible. Every 2 minutes it was no darling, dont stick the pencil up your bum (true story. I dont care if she is on here), or telling me to hang on a second while she dealt with her child or her child shouting down the headset and being told he is sooooo cute.

I said that its awful when you get let down by childcare and she said that she was always planning on working with him at home. But she obviously isnt working! If shes like that on a teams call what is she like normally?

Last week I was on a group call and could hear someone's baby crying. Maybe she has a nanny or something, whatever, but then it became very obvious that the person wasnt actually on the call but had dialled in and buggered off, presumably to look after the crying child.

Ive now got to send an email to the person from this morning to discuss all the things we couldnt do this morning. Im not even going to bother putting in another meeting with her.

I've half a mind to send an email along the lines of
lovely to meet your child this morning. You had your hands full with him so we couldnt discuss everything so here is what I need. Its probably easier to do via email to limit distractions"
and cc her manager in.

Would that make me a bitch? Im so annoyed at the delay and the extra work it will give me.

OP posts:
RimTimTagiDim · 29/07/2025 16:11

smilingontheinside · 29/07/2025 15:57

You didn't ask a question, you made a statement about "having it as hard as people retiring in their 70s ....... it was I reply to that! You and bumblecoach should get together and have a good old moan about retired people, in their paid for homes, with their paid for pensions and how hard fone by uou are. Have a coffee or 2 might make you feel better about how difficult your lives are compared to those if us lucky to be born earlier and have everything given ymto us. You are both bitter, sad individuals. But like I said I'm actually learning to finally enjoy the rewards of working hard, saving when I eventually could afford to and looking up where to spend my next holiday. To those working to better their lives, paying out for childcare despite the cost and doing their best, keep going. You'll get there. You'll be older and there may be other complications but life is good and the bad shit is there to make you appreciate the shit free days. For some, sadly, it will always be shit because thats who they are and how they think 😉

TL:DR

Noonika · 29/07/2025 18:00

Zov · 27/07/2025 09:19

What a way to throw women back 100 years. You go girl!

slow hand clap.... 🙄

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Edited

If you think women's position has dramatically changed in 100 years then you're naive. It's all smoke and mirrors - giving with one hand and taking with the other.

bumblecoach · 30/07/2025 12:47

smilingontheinside · 29/07/2025 16:08

Wow you really are bitter and twisted. Shame, maybe you need help, so that you'll understand that being disrespectful to someone who had no say in when/where they were born really doesn't "help your case". Shout at those that make the decisions about how the country is run and where the money goes. Hope your kids, if you have any, dont follow your attitude through life, they'll never be happy.

It’s nothing to do with being better and twisted. I have everything that people would consider markers of success. I’m just not stupid enough to think that somebody else doesn’t have it due to anything else other than a fluke.

bumblecoach · 30/07/2025 12:50

Noonika · 29/07/2025 18:00

If you think women's position has dramatically changed in 100 years then you're naive. It's all smoke and mirrors - giving with one hand and taking with the other.

Speak for yourself

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