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naturalcrackle111 · 25/07/2025 12:51

I agree op. With cases like this where’s it’s there in black and white they should go from the courtroom to the gallows.

ConcernedOfClapham · 25/07/2025 12:52

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 24/07/2025 22:49

YABU to use anything you read in the Daily Heil as the basis for forming a black and white opinion about a really complex issue.

First Post Nails It klaxon!

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GreenGully · 25/07/2025 12:55

randomchap · 25/07/2025 12:42

And for those wrongly convicted? Just accept that innocent people may be put to death?

I think the death penalty should only be used in cases where there is no doubt and the crime is particularly heinous. Think Axel Radukabana or the Lee Rigby killer.

Tia247 · 25/07/2025 13:05

If it was cheaper, or easier or worked as a deterrent I'd be with you OP. I lose my need for morals when it comes to people who have none. Unfortunately it's not cheaper or easier, the appeals run on for years and years, and it clearly doesn't work as a deterrent in the US.

What we need to be doing is putting a lot more money into schools, children's social services, parenting classes and support, children's mental health services, paediatricians, fostering, teen drug and alcohol services, university pastoral care - and basically anything and everything that can help to ensure children have a happy, healthy, successful childhood and young adulthood. Happy childhoods lead to happy adulthoods.

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 13:21

naturalcrackle111 · 25/07/2025 12:49

Well that’s a big fat lie. I know quite a few people right now in prison with phones and PlayStations. Dd speaks to her best friend everyday on Snapchat. Bless you thinking prison is hard and prisoners don’t have nothing.

What lovely friends you have,Grandma!

Zanoni · 25/07/2025 13:28

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 12:06

I don’t know much about prisons and how they are run but I do remember reading that we don’t have a lot of prisoners with whole life sentences, Rose West is one and apparently she has changed her name, carpeted her cell and spends her days reading and watching nature documentaries. I think if true it’s pretty shocking considering her crimes that she is living with any sort of comfort.

We don’t have a lot of prisoners serving whole life sentences because, thankfully, we don’t have many of the most appalling crimes that attract them.

And I don’t know how you choose to live, but a carpeted cupboard with an uncovered toilet in the corner and a nature documentary on a tiny telly isn’t what I call comfort.

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@Allisnotlost1
A tiny carpeted cell with entertainment, warmth, three meals a day.. Rose West is living a better retirement than a lot of people can afford to in this country. She is an abhorrent individual who deserves no sympathy. She’s changed her name to apparently give her a clean slate when her miserable life ends. I was surprised to read she was even allowed to do that, doesn’t sound to me that she has processed how wicked her actions were if she thinks she deserves a shot at heaven.

ClosetBasketCase · 25/07/2025 13:30

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:16

I look at that child’s innocent face and I see my own DC at that age. It’s horrific.

While the story is horrific, You- OP seem increadibly sensitive. For something like that, and through a newspaper article no less - to "stay with you for years" says that maybe you sould seek some councelling for yourself.

A state sanctioned death penalty would be a massive step back in rights, and the possibility of misscaridges of justice is way too high.

he death penalty would only be for the satifiaction of others, as the victim won't know anything about it.

As horrific as it it, the dead are dead - and killing someone else of a premise of it being justice - doesn not make it better, in fact it lowers others to the same level as the criminal

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 13:33

ClosetBasketCase · 25/07/2025 13:30

While the story is horrific, You- OP seem increadibly sensitive. For something like that, and through a newspaper article no less - to "stay with you for years" says that maybe you sould seek some councelling for yourself.

A state sanctioned death penalty would be a massive step back in rights, and the possibility of misscaridges of justice is way too high.

he death penalty would only be for the satifiaction of others, as the victim won't know anything about it.

As horrific as it it, the dead are dead - and killing someone else of a premise of it being justice - doesn not make it better, in fact it lowers others to the same level as the criminal

It doesn't lower us to the same level of the criminal at all. Any more than locking someone in prison lowers us to the same level as someone who illegally imprisons someone.

ClosetBasketCase · 25/07/2025 13:37

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 13:33

It doesn't lower us to the same level of the criminal at all. Any more than locking someone in prison lowers us to the same level as someone who illegally imprisons someone.

So you would presumably bring back the death penalty also?
An Eye for an Eye and all that?
The entire premise is machiavellian, and medieval.

there are other ways of meting out punishment that odern day people will find far more of a punishment that being killed,

take away their devices, freedom and ability to make choices.

Putting poeple to death makes us no better than killers ourselves

Suusue · 25/07/2025 13:42

I would bring the death penalty back for all murders in this category and for all child murderers.

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 13:43

ClosetBasketCase · 25/07/2025 13:30

While the story is horrific, You- OP seem increadibly sensitive. For something like that, and through a newspaper article no less - to "stay with you for years" says that maybe you sould seek some councelling for yourself.

A state sanctioned death penalty would be a massive step back in rights, and the possibility of misscaridges of justice is way too high.

he death penalty would only be for the satifiaction of others, as the victim won't know anything about it.

As horrific as it it, the dead are dead - and killing someone else of a premise of it being justice - doesn not make it better, in fact it lowers others to the same level as the criminal

Are the family of the victim not also victims? If someone murdered my loved one I'd want them dead.

LillyPJ · 25/07/2025 13:44

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 13:43

Are the family of the victim not also victims? If someone murdered my loved one I'd want them dead.

And that's why we have a legal system and don't let people get their own revenge.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 13:45

Suusue · 25/07/2025 13:42

I would bring the death penalty back for all murders in this category and for all child murderers.

Timothy Evans. Hanged for the murder of his child. Except he didn't do it. Went to the gallows knowing the actual murderer was free.

Do you think that was justice? Acceptable collateral damage?

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 13:51

LillyPJ · 25/07/2025 13:44

And that's why we have a legal system and don't let people get their own revenge.

Indeed. It's also why our legal system should include the death penalty.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 13:52

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 13:51

Indeed. It's also why our legal system should include the death penalty.

Miscarriage of justice is a thing. Innocent people have been hanged in the past. Do you think it's acceptable for it to happen again?

Tia247 · 25/07/2025 13:57

randomchap · 25/07/2025 13:45

Timothy Evans. Hanged for the murder of his child. Except he didn't do it. Went to the gallows knowing the actual murderer was free.

Do you think that was justice? Acceptable collateral damage?

Hopefully things have moved on a bit since the 1950's though! and the real murderer was found after 3 years later at which point appeals would still be going on if the death penalty was brought back now. So he would never have gone through the death penalty today.

Not that I'm saying we should bring back the death penalty, as i said there are other reasons why i think it shouldn't be brought back .There are plenty of cases where there is no doubt who the killer is though - I was just watching The Crossbow Cannibal last night. I wouldn't be crying if he faced the death penalty.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 14:00

Things have moved on since the 50s. We've got rid of the death penalty.

PassingStranger · 25/07/2025 14:04

We have to stop.broken, shitty horrible drug addicted people having babies.
Alot of the time I notice drugs are involved.
There was another one the other day a cocaine addicted woman shook her baby to death.

It's just disgusting,nobody has to get pregnant and nobody has to take drugs.
It's a weakness taking drugs and it's never ends well.
Also because anything goes today and there are no moral standards or shame anymore, people are just shagging around and having babies all the time.

We may have thought that women having to hide their pregnancy's years ago if they were single is old fashioned but honestly look what's happened now.
We are now seeing multiple child and baby deaths, people are shagging around having babies in unstable relationships, sometimes not in a relationship at all. Taking drugs, moving unsuitable and nasty bits of work into their homes around their children.
There are very rarely any deaths in a family where mum and dad are stable and happily married to each other.

It's only going to get worse.
We need radical changes and intervention to change things. It should never have been allowed to get so out of control.

We think it's horrendous that women were stigmatized years ago and didn't keep their babies but now look at it.
There's no shame today and look at the way it's gone. Sad.

Luckyingame · 25/07/2025 14:04

Of course Capital Punishment should be reinstated. Yesterday.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 14:07

Luckyingame · 25/07/2025 14:04

Of course Capital Punishment should be reinstated. Yesterday.

Have you read any of the discussions about it on here? The moral objection that if killing someone is wrong then it's wrong no matter who does it

The awful cases of miscarriage of justice?

Are you happy with the possibility of innocents being hanged?

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 14:09

randomchap · 25/07/2025 13:52

Miscarriage of justice is a thing. Innocent people have been hanged in the past. Do you think it's acceptable for it to happen again?

I've covered that. I believe the death penalty should be reserved for cases where there is no doubt. Such as the Southport killer Axel or the Lee Rigby murderer, or the sicko who killed a woman through oral rape.

grumpygrape · 25/07/2025 14:11

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/07/2025 22:57

There will be miscarriages of justice. So you will be executing some innocent people. Maybe not this guy, but once you bring it back it’s an absolute certainty that some cases will be wrongly decided.

Also someone had to be the executioner. I don’t think we should be in the business of either putting someone in that position or encouraging anyone who is happy to do it.

Also it’s very much arguable that a whole life term is a worse punishment - but doesn’t fall foul of the above difficulties. Anyone wrongly convicted can be released when it comes to light, but they can’t if you have killed them.

Balanced and nails it.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 14:12

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 14:09

I've covered that. I believe the death penalty should be reserved for cases where there is no doubt. Such as the Southport killer Axel or the Lee Rigby murderer, or the sicko who killed a woman through oral rape.

So how would that work in practice? Ask the jury to return one of 3 verdicts?

Not guilty
Guilty beyond reasonable doubt
Guilty no doubt

Or would you want a judge/panel of judges look at the evidence once a guilty has been delivered?

How would that work if evidence has been suppressed?

PeonyPatch · 25/07/2025 14:12

This is the one of worst cases of child abuse I’ve ever come across

deadpantrashcan · 25/07/2025 14:13

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:23

Do you not feel that strongly about it? I mean, how can anyone not?

Some good, practical, suggestions here. Are you thinking of any? Any plans to actually do anything other start inflammatory posts on MN?

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