Recently separated from DH and this week DS (teen) and ex have been on holiday abroad. Coming home tomorrow. It’s very early days in our separation and DS hasn’t stayed over at mine yet (he needs very careful handling and things need to move slowly) I’ve only just moved in. Tomorrow I was looking forward to seeing DS in the marital home to chat about the holiday and spend time with him for a bit. Now ex is saying he is not comfortable about me coming up and will wait in the car outside my place while DS says hello. I just know DS will be desperate to get back home and I’ll only see him for 5 minutes max. I’m gutted 😭 Am I being naive about sitting in the old marital home (now ex’s) and having a cup of tea/chat to DS?
I was the one to move out but it’ll take DS a long time to get used to coming to me (he’s on the spectrum) Ex just wants to pick up our youngest who I’ve had all week and just go meaning I won’t see DS at all 😔
Am I naive? Is it the case of not having any access to your old home after you leave? Even if it is the only way of seeing your child after 6 days? I will see him Saturday in the day but I’m gutted.