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To decline outrageously suspicious AirBnB request and remove my profile photo

17 replies

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:19

His message was as follows:

'Hello, I need to practise English in a family environment, do you live in that house? I cam to learn English but it's not going as I want. I'm a businessman, I need to speak and practise'

So you need to know if I, a young woman, live alone in my house in Norfolk, in order to know if you can practise English (as a businessman seeking business English in London) in a 'family' environment?

Should I remove my profile photo. This gives me such a bad feeling

(Before there is outrage about this suggestion, I think this is happening because I'm a young woman, not because I'm super full of myself)

OP posts:
Slightlyconfusedowl · 24/07/2025 17:22

Just block! (And use an anonymous profile picture, it’s not a dating site)

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:24

Slightlyconfusedowl · 24/07/2025 17:22

Just block! (And use an anonymous profile picture, it’s not a dating site)

is that allowed on air b n b? I thought hosts had to have one

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YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:27

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:24

is that allowed on air b n b? I thought hosts had to have one

I've just tried to change it to a photo of some flowers and it says I have to be in it :////

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Crouton19 · 24/07/2025 17:32

Can you use an AI one?

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:34

Crouton19 · 24/07/2025 17:32

Can you use an AI one?

i would assume it needs to look like the photo on the ID i provided

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Rainbowqueeen · 24/07/2025 17:37

Yes decline.

Is there also a way to report to air Bnb ? He should be monitored and potentially banned from using the site

beetr00 · 24/07/2025 17:41

@YourPerkyLimeGoose definitely report to airbnb

eta; correct contact details

Hatty65 · 24/07/2025 17:51

I'd probably text, 'I do not live in the house. Air BnB is set up as an empty cottage for you to rent. If you wish to learn English I suggest you find a tutor near you and pay for that.'

And then I'd report and block.

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:52

Rainbowqueeen · 24/07/2025 17:37

Yes decline.

Is there also a way to report to air Bnb ? He should be monitored and potentially banned from using the site

I reported him. Defo suspicious since he just wanted one night. would probably do whatever he was gonna do and be gone back to his origin country before i could even report it

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Honeypickle · 24/07/2025 17:53

I list a property on Airbnb and do not have a profile picture at all; it isn’t mandatory.

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:54

Honeypickle · 24/07/2025 17:53

I list a property on Airbnb and do not have a profile picture at all; it isn’t mandatory.

hopefully they approve the beautiful m&s bouquet i submitted as my new photo then!

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AllTheWatersTurnedToClouds · 24/07/2025 18:03

Ooof sod that.

We rented one recently from what, outwardly, appeared to be a man, who's profile stated he was in law enforcement. But having been there about 6 weeks we only ever dealt with a woman, and we figured she did that for this exact reason.

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 19:01

AllTheWatersTurnedToClouds · 24/07/2025 18:03

Ooof sod that.

We rented one recently from what, outwardly, appeared to be a man, who's profile stated he was in law enforcement. But having been there about 6 weeks we only ever dealt with a woman, and we figured she did that for this exact reason.

not sure how she got away with that, airbnb only lets you use the name on the ID card submitted

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JoWawa · 24/07/2025 19:10

YourPerkyLimeGoose · 24/07/2025 17:27

I've just tried to change it to a photo of some flowers and it says I have to be in it :////

Mine is our logo!

Summerhillsquare · 24/07/2025 20:17

Surely this is a built in risk with air BnB? One of the many reasons I don't use it.

Isitreallysohard · 24/07/2025 21:34

Overreaction, just report and block

Obeseandashamed · 25/07/2025 01:01

Overreaction. My youngest’s nursery manager uses Air B&B to rent out her annex. She has had some odd requests like this and also one asking if they could watch her cook for a weekend to learn. 🤣

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