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Do you think Jack would of survived if Rose got on the life boat (the second time)

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Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 13:25

Watched Titanic last night and it got me wondering if Rose got on the life boat, do you think Jack odds of survival was better without Rose?
do you think she held him back a little as he is a resourceful guy, I think he would of found a way to get on a boat.
this was after she rescued him from being handcuffed to the pipe of course.

Also If they both did survive, do you think they would of stayed together?

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Codyrhodesisaheel · 20/07/2025 17:02

MeringueOutang · 20/07/2025 16:01

The thing that always pushed believability for me was that her mum was clearly also rescued and they were on the same boat (Carpathia?), how did Rose not just accidentally bump into her at any point before they reached New York?

That’s a good point. I know there was a scene where rose hid from her mum but that was once they docked in NY

Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 17:08

MeringueOutang · 20/07/2025 16:01

The thing that always pushed believability for me was that her mum was clearly also rescued and they were on the same boat (Carpathia?), how did Rose not just accidentally bump into her at any point before they reached New York?

She stayed with the 3rd Class survivors deliberately to avoid her mother.

PuppyMonkey · 20/07/2025 17:18

I caught some of it last night, and it was the first time I noticed that Jack DOES try to get on the floating door thingy with Rose at and they struggle for a bit until he gives up and lets Rose stay on it because he realises it’s not going to be stable with him on it. Why have I never clocked that before? Must’ve seen that film 20 times. Confused

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 17:30

yallahbye · 20/07/2025 15:21

I always have this moral dilemma with certain films, that the villain is way more attractive than the hero 😄I mean, Leo looks like Rose’s son or little brother.

And he had a face like a slightly cute potato. Now he has a face like an old potato.

(Though it’s Rose’s weirdly brassy hair colour that bothers me. When I can stop laughing about ‘Paint me like one of your French girls’ and the hand on the steamy glass.)

Anyway, he’d have died a lot sooner if she hadn’t rescued him, so swings and roundabouts?

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 17:33

Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 17:08

She stayed with the 3rd Class survivors deliberately to avoid her mother.

Yes, no way was being rescued from a shipwreck going to mean Rose’s mother mixed with the grubby lower-deck proles. Anyway, maybe she starved genteelly to death given that she could no longer sell Rose off to Billy Zane. Not that he was going to marry her anyway, once he discovered she’d been cavorting with Jack.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 17:39

It's based on a true story. A school girl ran away from school to board the ship in Cobh (Queenstown at the time in Co. cork Ireland) with her boyfriend, a boy from a lower class. The boat was delayed and they had to hide out before boarding. Her brother and father followed with guns attempting to kill the boy. They managed to get away and onto the boat only sadly they never survived. There was an exhibition about it at the Titanic museum in Cobh, i was there recently. I'll see if I can get the details and then update.

Edit: Mary Mullin, a Galway girl ran away from Loretto boarding school in Dublin with Denis Lennon, an assistant in their business. They missed a booking on another ship and got onto the Titanic as 3rd class passengers with Mary using a fake married name. Her brother chased them with a shot gun and apparently reached the port too late. https://www.encyclopedia-titanica.org/titanic-victim/mary-lennon-mullin.html

Devonshiregal · 20/07/2025 17:54

Heatherjayne1972 · 20/07/2025 14:36

they could both have survived but Jack would never have made her happy - she loved the comfortable life too much to go roughing it with a homeless boy.
Rose lived her whole life without ever telling her mother she survived - selfish
Her poor mother. Not only that but she kept that diamond necklace all those years only to throw it into the sea a- jack didn’t give her the necklace so it wasn’t sentimental. She could have sold it and given the money to her mother
also her poor husband who presumably she was married to for a long time was second best to a two day fling

Rose is the villain here.

( I may have overthought this a bit)

No I totally agree with you. She would’ve been bored and fed up within two days. What would they have done together? She’d have been an outcast in society too really wouldn’t she…not like her mum and dad would’ve had ol’ Jack round for dinner or a trip to the theatre is it?

Although from what I remember she had a pretty unimpressively average house as an old lady didn’t she? So was she supposed to have married an average non wealthy man - you know to show she learned from Jack and didn’t go back to the fancy life?

and yes, I always felt sorry for her husband. and the daughter was such a twit with no loyalty to her late father, encouraging her mother’s reminiscing crap.

Hadn’t thought about her mother! And the poor researcher who listened to her waffling on for hours only for her to get rid of that tacky necklace in the sea! She could’ve done a bunch of good with that or at least let him have it - must’ve cost him a lot of sacrifice to get that research trip together, even if he was a bit slimes.

omg I’ve overthought this too

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 18:03

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 17:39

It's based on a true story. A school girl ran away from school to board the ship in Cobh (Queenstown at the time in Co. cork Ireland) with her boyfriend, a boy from a lower class. The boat was delayed and they had to hide out before boarding. Her brother and father followed with guns attempting to kill the boy. They managed to get away and onto the boat only sadly they never survived. There was an exhibition about it at the Titanic museum in Cobh, i was there recently. I'll see if I can get the details and then update.

Edit: Mary Mullin, a Galway girl ran away from Loretto boarding school in Dublin with Denis Lennon, an assistant in their business. They missed a booking on another ship and got onto the Titanic as 3rd class passengers with Mary using a fake married name. Her brother chased them with a shot gun and apparently reached the port too late. https://www.encyclopedia-titanica.org/titanic-victim/mary-lennon-mullin.html

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It doesn’t really resemble a bored upper-class American marrying a rich brute for money, and having her head turned before she can do it by a charming lower-deck wastrel who stops her throwing herself overboard.

Minesril · 20/07/2025 18:06

Even if he had survived, he would’ve been killed in WW1.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/07/2025 18:15

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 18:03

It doesn’t really resemble a bored upper-class American marrying a rich brute for money, and having her head turned before she can do it by a charming lower-deck wastrel who stops her throwing herself overboard.

There is a whole hierarchy in Hollywood of ‘resembling’. All the way from documentary to ‘inspired by a true story’. I think this is quite far down that road!

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 18:24

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/07/2025 18:15

There is a whole hierarchy in Hollywood of ‘resembling’. All the way from documentary to ‘inspired by a true story’. I think this is quite far down that road!

Well, I suppose there’s an ill-matched couple on a doomed boat who’d definitely have lasted about a weekend as a couple in the US had the iceberg not intervened…😀

Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 18:47

Minesril · 20/07/2025 18:06

Even if he had survived, he would’ve been killed in WW1.

Not necessarily. The Americans only joined in near the end.

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 18:49

Rose might have suggested he volunteered early…

Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 18:58

@Minesril😮

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BlueyNeedsToFuckOff · 20/07/2025 19:05

yallahbye · 20/07/2025 15:21

I always have this moral dilemma with certain films, that the villain is way more attractive than the hero 😄I mean, Leo looks like Rose’s son or little brother.

He does, and yet he’s actually older than her!

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 20:11

Spindleweed · 20/07/2025 18:24

Well, I suppose there’s an ill-matched couple on a doomed boat who’d definitely have lasted about a weekend as a couple in the US had the iceberg not intervened…😀

Exactly. A loose inspiration. To be fair the makers always said the characters were fictitious but the doomed star crossed lovers angle was perhaps inspired. It's an interesting and tragic story either way, a couple eloping against the family wishes, last minute change of plan to get the doomed boat. I hope they had some short happiness together before it all ended.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 20:16

There was a thread here a whole back about how young Rose's mother was. It didn't occur to her to remarry into a wealthy family although she was only in her 40s. It was a funny thread about random titanic trivia from what I recall.

Minesril · 20/07/2025 20:42

Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 18:47

Not necessarily. The Americans only joined in near the end.

19 months before the end. Plenty of time for a ‘poor guy’ to join up/be drafted in.

Needmorelego · 20/07/2025 20:48

Minesril · 20/07/2025 20:42

19 months before the end. Plenty of time for a ‘poor guy’ to join up/be drafted in.

I actually don't know how high the loss of American lives was in WW1... I will have to read up on it.
He was a bit of an adventurer and had spent time in France so he might have gone.
(Totally random and not really related to Titanic but I always find it sad how many baby boys born during or just after the First World War would have been considered replacements/memorials to their dead fathers - only to 20 years later they were the ones sent off to war.
Many women lost husbands in one war, sons in the next 😭.)

Toddlerteaplease · 20/07/2025 21:01

Heatherjayne1972 · 20/07/2025 14:36

they could both have survived but Jack would never have made her happy - she loved the comfortable life too much to go roughing it with a homeless boy.
Rose lived her whole life without ever telling her mother she survived - selfish
Her poor mother. Not only that but she kept that diamond necklace all those years only to throw it into the sea a- jack didn’t give her the necklace so it wasn’t sentimental. She could have sold it and given the money to her mother
also her poor husband who presumably she was married to for a long time was second best to a two day fling

Rose is the villain here.

( I may have overthought this a bit)

Totally agree. They would have never overcome the class differences.

latetothefisting · 20/07/2025 21:06

Minesril · 20/07/2025 18:06

Even if he had survived, he would’ve been killed in WW1.

why?
you do know the majority of men who fought weren't killed?
and that's the actual allies involved throughout the war, not americans who didn't get involved until the end.

Toddlerteaplease · 20/07/2025 21:06

@MeringueOutangand when she became an actress, surely someone would have recognised her.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 21:35

I always thought Rose was a bit slutty if I'm honest. Shagging someone she hardly knew in the back seat of someone's car. Reckless too, its not like she was on the pill!

BrickBiscuit · 20/07/2025 22:59

@Lorddenning1- sorry to be pedantic, but I don't think Lord Denning 'would have' made the mistake that appears in your OP title.

Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 23:10

@Dontlletmedownbruce do you happen to have the link for that, I would be very interested is that thread.

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