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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To invite the grammar and language pedants to share their pet peeves?

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AlertCat · 19/07/2025 14:33

AIBU to feel annoyed when I see people say Slither instead of sliver? It was even in a book I read recently. A slither of cake. No! That makes no sense, unless the cake’s been trodden into the carpet!

Also see: step foot in instead of set foot in

There’s plenty of others but those will do for now.

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ErrolTheDragon · 20/07/2025 11:43

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:29

That is because the 'us' is pronounced separately in all words etc virus. The Cambridge dictionary shows it is nu-clear. It's only the yanks that say cle-ar.

https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nuclear

I’m English and have been a chemist for decades. I can assure you nu-cle-a with 3 syllables is normal here too (I don’t know if the end is more -ah or -ar in a rhotic accentI can hear 3 syllables in both the English and the American on the Cambridge and Collins dictionaries.

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:45

Fair enough it might be normal (so is 'could of', normal here, too) but it's incorrect English. That's the point. It also doesn't sound correct either.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 20/07/2025 11:46

I interview candidates regularly and I can’t stand the repeated use of the word ‘like’.

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 11:46

Ponoka7 · 20/07/2025 11:35

People are posting for an opinion on their situation, not how well written their dilemma is. MN is for everyone, people who struggle with literacy, whose first language isn't English, who use dialect, who have LD's and people who are in distress, so get grammar wrong. Those who struggle with comprehension, just need to leave answering the post to others.

I agree, I don't give a shit how people express themselves on social media as long as I can understand the gist (and spirit) of what they're saying. I'm only bothered about spelling and grammatical errors in publications that are supposed to have gone through various levels of QC.

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:50

I thought of another one. The habit of using the word "so" at the start of every sentence. I have noticed tv reporters doing this. The tv anchor will ask the reporter who is reporting live from somewhere a question and the reporter will start "So....". Such as "So the judge said..." instead of "The judge said...." No one seems to be able to answer a question without saying "so" first.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/07/2025 11:51

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:45

Fair enough it might be normal (so is 'could of', normal here, too) but it's incorrect English. That's the point. It also doesn't sound correct either.

It’s not incorrect, and it most certainly sounds correct if you work in my field where the word is commonly used!

New-clear is ok, way better than nucular anyway.

Brooklyn70 · 20/07/2025 11:52

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 08:28

Maybe the shop nextdoor is run by someone called Pablo 🤔😂

the hairdresser is called Pablo.

€8 for a man’s haircut, my husband used to go there.

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:54

ErrolTheDragon · 20/07/2025 11:51

It’s not incorrect, and it most certainly sounds correct if you work in my field where the word is commonly used!

New-clear is ok, way better than nucular anyway.

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It is incorrect, the dictionary says so! Go here, you can see the pronunciation shown. You can even click on the button to hear the word being said! The Cambridge dictionary says it is incorrect! dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nuclear

YourFairCyanReader · 20/07/2025 12:00

Another one that's come to mind as I've just read it on another thread:

If you have two sons, you have an elder son and a younger son. You don't have an eldest and youngest. You can have those only if you have at least three sons.

Agree with PP though, most of this doesn't bother me on social media and I find it interesting seeing how people use language - but expect BBC, published literature, newspapers etc to be correct.

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 12:04

Brooklyn70 · 20/07/2025 11:52

the hairdresser is called Pablo.

€8 for a man’s haircut, my husband used to go there.

I gathered the hairdresser was Pablo, I was just trying to make sense of the "By"! 🤔😂

ErrolTheDragon · 20/07/2025 12:08

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:54

It is incorrect, the dictionary says so! Go here, you can see the pronunciation shown. You can even click on the button to hear the word being said! The Cambridge dictionary says it is incorrect! dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nuclear

Do you hear that as 2 syllables?
Oh well. I think I’ll stick with how people who use the word routinely say it as being ‘correct’. Nu cle us, nu cle ah.

ConnieHeart · 20/07/2025 12:13

zingally · 20/07/2025 09:53

When people get "stationery" and "stationary" mixed up!

I'm a primary school supply teacher, and the amount of drawers of pens I see labeled with "stationary" is surprising!!

E for envelope, A for absence of movement.

Oh God, I felt terrible when a friend proudly showed me her daughter's bedroom she'd decorated, complete with drawers for her suff which she'd labelled. One of them said "stationary". I pointed it out to her....she seemed ok about it!

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 12:14

ConnieHeart · 20/07/2025 12:13

Oh God, I felt terrible when a friend proudly showed me her daughter's bedroom she'd decorated, complete with drawers for her suff which she'd labelled. One of them said "stationary". I pointed it out to her....she seemed ok about it!

Maybe it was a label for the removals company coming later that day 😂

Barbadossunset · 20/07/2025 12:25

prelovedusername · Yesterday 20:01
Bit niche this one, but renumeration instead of remuneration. You’d be surprised how often it comes up in a particular context

Every day’s a school day on mumsnet! I think I’ve always said ‘renumeration’ so I am glad to be corrected.
The other one is ‘anemone’. I find ‘anenome’ slips off the tongue more easily.

Ponoka7 · 20/07/2025 12:31

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:39

But it helps people to learn the correct way to speak/write. You're not doing that person who struggles with literacy any favours at all by allowing them to continue like that and no one telling them the proper way.

It's actually cruel, I feel.

You are placing too much importance on what you have decided is the correct way of writing. MN in an online site, correct grammar isn't needed, it's fine for people to use dialect or abbreviations. There's no correct way of speaking anymore, quite rightly we now accept dialects. You might not, but the rest of us do. Not everyone wants a job that demands what you want.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/07/2025 12:32

SamiSnail · 20/07/2025 11:34

Also, you don't say he-ar for hear or de-ar for dear etc. No word in the English language has clear pronounced as cle-ar. No matter the circumstances of the word. It's bad grammar and bad English. As the dictionary shows, it's wrong.

Eh? I say "clee-uh" for clear and "dee-uh" for dear. I'm not Prince Charles though.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/07/2025 12:34

Ponoka7 · 20/07/2025 12:31

You are placing too much importance on what you have decided is the correct way of writing. MN in an online site, correct grammar isn't needed, it's fine for people to use dialect or abbreviations. There's no correct way of speaking anymore, quite rightly we now accept dialects. You might not, but the rest of us do. Not everyone wants a job that demands what you want.

I don't want to see incorrect grammar or mis-spellings on social media either. It's still written English. It's not spoken English, where I think it's fine to accept dialect.

prelovedusername · 20/07/2025 12:36

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/07/2025 12:32

Eh? I say "clee-uh" for clear and "dee-uh" for dear. I'm not Prince Charles though.

So do I. What’s the issue? Although my neighbours would say clee-rrr and hee-rrr but that’s just where we live.

ConnieHeart · 20/07/2025 12:41

Brooklyn70 · 20/07/2025 11:52

the hairdresser is called Pablo.

€8 for a man’s haircut, my husband used to go there.

Then it should say By Pablo or Pablo's

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 12:43

ConnieHeart · 20/07/2025 12:41

Then it should say By Pablo or Pablo's

Or "By Pablo's" if there is a nearby shop run by someone called Pablo who for some reason the hairdresser wants to acknowledge when naming his salon!

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 12:45

Barbadossunset · 20/07/2025 12:25

prelovedusername · Yesterday 20:01
Bit niche this one, but renumeration instead of remuneration. You’d be surprised how often it comes up in a particular context

Every day’s a school day on mumsnet! I think I’ve always said ‘renumeration’ so I am glad to be corrected.
The other one is ‘anemone’. I find ‘anenome’ slips off the tongue more easily.

Ooohhhh, careful with that one. You don't want to make an enemy of an anemone!

Brooklyn70 · 20/07/2025 12:48

Beachtastic · 20/07/2025 12:04

I gathered the hairdresser was Pablo, I was just trying to make sense of the "By"! 🤔😂

oh, i didn’t think of that meaning of By 😂

Lunaballoon · 20/07/2025 12:51

May have already been mentioned as it’s a common peeve for those among us bothered by such things but why has loose become almost the default spelling for lose (i.e. I’d like to lose weight)?

Nanny0gg · 20/07/2025 12:54

Evaka · 19/07/2025 14:51

Less when used incorrectly instead of fewer.

And amount instead of number

OMGtimes3 · 20/07/2025 12:55

The incorrect use of 'me' and 'I' which should be so simple to get right.

It really is very simple: "Me and my friend went shopping" is WRONG!

If you take the other person out of the sentence, you wouldn't say "Me went shopping" so get it right and say "My friend and I went shopping".

Similarly, it is WRONG to say "They gave some gifts to Dave and I". Again remove the other person and see if it sounds right: "They some gifts to I" is clearly wrong. So it should sbe "They gave some gifts to Dave and me".

I can't believe that BBC presenters have started copying these appalling, basic errors.

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