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What woman would he pick 20 years on?

16 replies

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 02:34

Very random and not as serious as posters often make these types of threads.

Good looking guy back in his time, married with 2 (step) kids. 2 serious girlfriends (A&B) before his wife of 20 years (C)

Lass 1 - He wanted to get with (sleep with) when he was young, despite both girlfriends (A&B) over several years. He wanted get with girl 1 despite having 2 girlfriends- over 6 years…

Girl one fancied him but said no as she could see he wasn’t loyal, so for years of fancying him she said no for the sake of his two girlfriends. She then decided sod itv as life’s too short and she was only 21 and her Mam died. She shel slept with him and it was incredible but he wasn’t to be trusted.

He sent her a friend request on FB and all good. My 17 year old daughter is stunning- to the point everyone says how beautiful/stunning she is. It’s a wonder if he thinks I’ve missed the boat as her kid is lovely…… that could have been me as in thy could be his step child! He love my kids to bits so he says…

My point is, you never know who will say they love you!!!’

OP posts:
EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:39

I really can't understand your post.
Are you the wife?
Or the mother of 17yo.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:41

So he contacted girl 1 on fb, who now has a 17 y.o.????

abracadabra1980 · 19/07/2025 02:41

I have no idea what you’re on about either.

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 02:46

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:39

I really can't understand your post.
Are you the wife?
Or the mother of 17yo.

I’ll be honest - I’ve mixed myself right up! It makes no sense to me either….. so sorry! 😔

OP posts:
EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:48

I am guessing you're the wife. He contacted old flame whom has a beautiful daughter and you think you were second choice?
Tell him to fuck off.

thelakeisle · 19/07/2025 02:48

If I am understanding you correctly you think he'd now "pick" you.

I find slutty, conceited men really and truly repellent so I don't understand why you care.

However, If he slept around then, he'd sleep around now, so wouldn't "pick" anyone, except to give them diseases. Not that I'd have ever allowed a man to "pick" me at any age.

He might fancy a roll in the hay with you, I suppose, or more if you are willing to put up with being in a harem. Character doesn't change, though sometimes ageing lotharios find their pool of desperate women gets far smaller as they age out of whatever charm they had.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:49

Or he'd now pick you because your 17 yo is stunning???

abracadabra1980 · 19/07/2025 02:50

That response did make me laugh - don’t worry about it - it was the depths of the night when you wrote it! We all get garbled at times - just ask admin to remove it. Sleep well!

thelakeisle · 19/07/2025 02:54

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:49

Or he'd now pick you because your 17 yo is stunning???

Yikes. If that is the case I hope the OP never lets him anywhere near her kid.

pucksack · 19/07/2025 02:55

My 17 year old daughter is stunning

Everyone on MNs has stunning dc, is she super tall too? Don't understand the rest.

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 02:55

abracadabra1980 · 19/07/2025 02:50

That response did make me laugh - don’t worry about it - it was the depths of the night when you wrote it! We all get garbled at times - just ask admin to remove it. Sleep well!

I’ve just snorted laughing at this. I’ve
asked them to delete it but in the meantime I have to listen to the responses 🫣I e had a good few shertbetts and talk utter nonsense as you can tell

Lovs you @abracadabra1980 xxx for NOT judging me

OP posts:
thelakeisle · 19/07/2025 02:57

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 02:55

I’ve just snorted laughing at this. I’ve
asked them to delete it but in the meantime I have to listen to the responses 🫣I e had a good few shertbetts and talk utter nonsense as you can tell

Lovs you @abracadabra1980 xxx for NOT judging me

Edited

I hope you haven't messaged him under the influence. 😑Hope they take the thread down soon too.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/07/2025 02:58

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 02:55

I’ve just snorted laughing at this. I’ve
asked them to delete it but in the meantime I have to listen to the responses 🫣I e had a good few shertbetts and talk utter nonsense as you can tell

Lovs you @abracadabra1980 xxx for NOT judging me

Edited

Can you explain about more. Maybe try in the morning when you sleep the drink off.
You'll get more helpful responses.
Night night 🌙 😴

Oasisafan · 19/07/2025 03:08

Hiya everyone

im off to bed now - I can’t make head nor gal of my first post - I know what I was meaning but can’t get it down on paper after some gin. So sorry / love you 🥰🥰🥰😘

OP posts:
Yellowbirdcage · 19/07/2025 05:22

Do come back and interpret it for us when you’re had a coffee.

abracadabra1980 · 19/07/2025 22:23

Are you ok today OP? I must admit my first reaction is 'what the fuck is she on about' - but your response was so honest it was funny. Do keep us in the loop if you can manage to articulate it at a later date 🥂

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