UPDATE AIBU to be fed up of the girl staying with me

[BasKaro]

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4890745-to-be-fed-up-of-the-girl-staying-with-me?page=17&reply=145762825

Well..... she left, my now ex H strangled me when 6m pregnant 3m later , I obviously left, in court for child arrangements and guess who's going to the fact finding as his only witness ?? Oh yes, HER. Totally changed her story , on the one hand repeats some allegations about her ex but later accused me of making her make false allegations for my own police and court case (??!), says she never saw abuse of me yet they both locked me out (thank god recorded), blamed me for forcing her to go to the police etc and would be so happy about her, or my husband being arrested etc. Lots of other bizarre stuff (clearly written by ex H) . So, yeah, 100% not unreasonable to be fed up of that terrible lying devious woman.

I remember the thread OP, you are well rid of them both out of your life. Hold your head high throughout this and good luck with the court proceedings, hopefully the judge will see him for what he is.

Thanks for the update. I hope you've found good legal representation. Unfortunately the abuse aimed at the partner is often ignored - you need to focus on what he's done to the children.

I hope this is the final time you've left.