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AIBU to think children shouldn't be naked waist down at Legoland Safari splash?

148 replies

Applesandpears22 · 17/07/2025 17:02

Enjoying a lovely time at the splash safari at Legoland Windsor and people are letting their children go completely naked running around bending over etc, yes they're having fun but I think it's inappropriate here considering the amount of people around.... Maybe I'm a prude, but from a safety perspective, and for other children too,, I don't know, maybe it's not an issue but I don't like it and think the staff should have done something

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SweetMotherofAbrahamLincoln · 17/07/2025 18:04

WaitedBlankey · 17/07/2025 18:01

Aren't you a sweet natured thing!

And aren’t you a naive little thing to think the world is some sweet, delicate place where children should frolic through the daisies naked and everyone claps and smiles. I’m educated on what the world actually entails. Do what you like with your kids, at least I know for sure some sickos aren’t out there looking at naked pictures of mine. I’m realistic, not nasty. Educate yourself.

SweetMotherofAbrahamLincoln · 17/07/2025 18:07

WaitedBlankey · 17/07/2025 18:01

Aren't you a sweet natured thing!

Maybe you should read ThePoshUns post underneath yours…about the dad on the beach…

Zellycat · 17/07/2025 18:07

What scabby parent doesn’t have clothes for child at a park? Totally unhygienic and gross. They wear clothes all the time in public, why Lego land different.
Scabby grubby.

Disturbia81 · 17/07/2025 18:08

MassiveBackstory · 17/07/2025 17:15

YADNBU. It’s not you who’s sexualising them, some people sexualise them. Weirdos exist, everyone has camera phones. To avoid anxiety, victimisation, false accusations, etc. it is much better for the venue to have a blanket rule. This is what they do at the Diana Memorial Fountain in London too.

This!
God those responses are weird, OP is trying to protect kids from being sexualised because the reality is there are paedos everywhere.
And of course it will be cleaner if they keep pants on 🙄

TheRosesAreInBloom · 17/07/2025 18:09

And let’s not forget they walk amongst us … just because there are dads there with a bunch of their own kids, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have a penchant for viewing/secretly filming someone else’s 🙈

MaryBerrysFannyHammock · 17/07/2025 18:15

Squishymallows · 17/07/2025 17:31

I don’t think people without kids go to LEGOLAND

They absolutely do

Runningismyhappyplace50 · 17/07/2025 18:16

I wouldn’t do this- and think it is a little odd when people let their DC do this in public. As a PP said they could easily be accidentally snapped in someone else’s photo.

But some children are much more comfortable naked and it’s sad that we live in a world where it isn’t safe for them to this.

Lavatime · 17/07/2025 18:21

How is it sexualising kids to not want to see them naked???
It's uncomfortable to be around random naked children, it's just a bit grim and at places like legoland there will be people taking photos do you want your child to end up naked in the background in someone's camera roll!? Weird as hell to let your children go around naked in public. Also a bit gross if they're going down slides naked that other kids have to use.

MaryBerrysFannyHammock · 17/07/2025 18:26

Jellyslothbridge · 17/07/2025 17:29

I think you have to go with children to legoland and they have special adults times so it's different to public splash park.

No you don't. Anyone can go to legoland at any time. They do have adult events but this is not a restriction.

Baby26 · 17/07/2025 18:28

YANBU.

I've been there and all kids were in bathing suits. I wouldn't have let my 3 year old go in there without one. Although, like a PP said.. parents may have not realised there was a splash park there and didn't bring swimwear. But then I think I'd keep their pants on, as they can go commando after!

Okiedokie123 · 17/07/2025 18:29

lnks · 17/07/2025 17:08

So you are sexualising young children.

Im with the op and wouldnt be comfortable with this either.
Because peadophiles love to see naked little bodies. Im not sexualising children but they do. No need to make it easier for them.

Crunchingleaf · 17/07/2025 18:29

Lavatime · 17/07/2025 18:21

How is it sexualising kids to not want to see them naked???
It's uncomfortable to be around random naked children, it's just a bit grim and at places like legoland there will be people taking photos do you want your child to end up naked in the background in someone's camera roll!? Weird as hell to let your children go around naked in public. Also a bit gross if they're going down slides naked that other kids have to use.

Thank goodness for the sensible post.

I absolutely would not want my children’s pictures end up in hands of some sicko on the dark web. Creeps are everywhere and many are married with children so would of course r some in a place like Legoland.

Bad people don’t announce themselves and most definitely walk amongst us blending in so we don’t see them as a threat.

Lavatime · 17/07/2025 18:29

Also what about slightly older children? They probably don't want to be playing where naked kids are running around either I can imagine that's quite uncomfortable for them and confusing as it goes against everything we tell our kids about privates being private

ginasevern · 17/07/2025 18:30

It's not about the OP sexualising young children is it? That's such a daft thing to say. It's about anyone else who's watching and taking photos (which with mobile phones is about as easy as it gets). Just because they're 5 years old and not 14 doesn't make them any less wank fodder for certain individuals. There's also the small matter of consent. Has anyone asked these kids if they want their private parts on show for everyone to see? How can you tell a child on one hand that their their private parts are in fact "private" but on the other hand let them run around with their genitalia on show in front of hundreds of strangers. I can't believe, in this day and age, that some posters can't at least see some negatives in children being naked in public.

LEWWW · 17/07/2025 18:33

Nope, wouldn’t let my DD, not a chance. Imagine finding out a video of your naked child was doing the rounds on the dark web being distributed for men’s personal use 🤮 it is not sexualising children to want to protect them, their parents are failing at protecting their children, simple as that.

FurForksSake · 17/07/2025 18:33

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-berkshire-40898838?app-referrer=deep-link

we were there at a similar time, so the story sticks in my mind. It is isn’t about sexualising, it’s about protection. What you do at home in the garden is one thing, in public is very different.

E-fit of suspect

Legoland Windsor sex attacker 'still at large'

Police are hunting for a sex offender who attacked two six-year-old's at the theme park a year ago.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-berkshire-40898838?app-referrer=deep-link

doodleschnoodle · 17/07/2025 18:34

I wouldn’t let mine do it, pants on at the least for anything that isn’t just immediate family/our own garden. Happy for them to be naked in own garden etc as we aren’t overlooked. But not in a public place. That said, I don’t have much of an opinion about other people’s children doing it. It’s not my business.

ohyesido · 17/07/2025 18:38

YANBU. Let kids run around naked at home but not where it can make others uncomfortable. Ignore the fools saying you’re sexualising children, that’s just facetious

Mikii · 17/07/2025 18:40

Jellyslothbridge · 17/07/2025 17:29

I think you have to go with children to legoland and they have special adults times so it's different to public splash park.

Of course you don’t need children to attend. I’ve been with my husband only before. We love rides and Lego. Don’t get me wrong we don’t visit it frequently as we prefer the bigger theme parks with more adult rides. And we would have no interest in visiting a splash park thing full of kids. But the point is you absolutely can go to Lego land without kids and even as a single man by yourself you can.

tinyspiny · 17/07/2025 18:43

TheRosesAreInBloom · 17/07/2025 18:09

And let’s not forget they walk amongst us … just because there are dads there with a bunch of their own kids, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have a penchant for viewing/secretly filming someone else’s 🙈

This is the point and having a pair of pants on is not going to affect the fun and then they can get dressed and go commando if you’ve no spares with you .

emily598191 · 17/07/2025 18:45

Unfortunately you don’t know who else is around these children. I’d always cover them up, but for no other reason than their own safety

Stepsdown · 17/07/2025 18:50

I am amazed at some people's nativity to the danger of this. Times have changed.
I work in a male prison, my DH is a SW in children's services. We would never let our young children be exposed in this way. Wise up

user1476613140 · 17/07/2025 18:50

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 17/07/2025 17:04

It’s not great hygiene wise! There are slides on that thing as I have recall. Plus I think they could hurt themselves.

Bur I’m not overly bothered otherwise if we’re talking little kids.

Edited

Smears of brown on the slides...🤢

Boak. Bum flora and fauna.

Needspaceforlego · 17/07/2025 18:50

TheRosesAreInBloom · 17/07/2025 18:09

And let’s not forget they walk amongst us … just because there are dads there with a bunch of their own kids, it doesn’t mean that they don’t have a penchant for viewing/secretly filming someone else’s 🙈

Some would abuse their own too.
Far more kids are abused by family than kids abused by strangers.

Im surprised Lego allow kids to be naked. You wouldn't do it in a pool why do it anywhere else. Maybe they should sell swim stuff for parents who've forgotten.

user1476613140 · 17/07/2025 18:53

MassiveBackstory · 17/07/2025 17:15

YADNBU. It’s not you who’s sexualising them, some people sexualise them. Weirdos exist, everyone has camera phones. To avoid anxiety, victimisation, false accusations, etc. it is much better for the venue to have a blanket rule. This is what they do at the Diana Memorial Fountain in London too.

Fair enough. Diana would probably roll in her grave if she knew kids were walking around naked around the memorial.