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To be pretty annoyed/creeped out by this incoming internet age verification thing

179 replies

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 18:11

Kids are as good as anyone at VPNs. It's just going to open adults up to blackmail and state control.

Also if you don't want your kids looking at adult material maybe don't let them have a smartphone until they're 16.

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GreenGully · 16/07/2025 19:42

Nanny state and government overreach. What can we expect from comrade Kier. He wants worry about his own shady shenanigans, unexplained connections to foreign rent boys cough, cough

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:04

GreenGully · 16/07/2025 19:42

Nanny state and government overreach. What can we expect from comrade Kier. He wants worry about his own shady shenanigans, unexplained connections to foreign rent boys cough, cough

It was a Tory Bill...

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EmeraldRoulette · 16/07/2025 20:07

@Fragmentedbrain please could you tell me what you're actually talking about? We seem to get a lot of threads talking about bills and laws that haven't actually passed yet. I guess this is one of those - please could you provide a link?

I'm not going to start giving proof of age to MN for example. So that sounds like a problem. I'm only aware of it in relation to porn sites which seems fair enough.

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:12

EmeraldRoulette · 16/07/2025 20:07

@Fragmentedbrain please could you tell me what you're actually talking about? We seem to get a lot of threads talking about bills and laws that haven't actually passed yet. I guess this is one of those - please could you provide a link?

I'm not going to start giving proof of age to MN for example. So that sounds like a problem. I'm only aware of it in relation to porn sites which seems fair enough.

You're only aware of that because you think of yourself as a good girl who doesn't access adult content. You're accessing adult content right now. The one upside all of this is that porn judgers are going to realise they're not on some separate moral planet.

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ObliviousCoalmine · 16/07/2025 20:15

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 18:15

But your kids will still see it on the phones you still allow them because they're better at tech than you.

This is always my argument.

There are so many posts with people saying “oh I’m a technophobe” and “he’s only 12 and he’s already much better than me”. Why! The minute your child becomes more competent on things like social media/VPNs etc, is the beginning of the end.

It’s not quirky and ‘old school’ to not know how to use an iPhone (or whatever brand you have been assigned for life by the phone sorting hat), it’s crap parenting and you’ll end up in hot water.

Sesma · 16/07/2025 20:17

I also don't know much about it, no children in the family, will we have to prove our age on these type of forums, I just won't use it if we do

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:18

Sesma · 16/07/2025 20:17

I also don't know much about it, no children in the family, will we have to prove our age on these type of forums, I just won't use it if we do

It's going to have a significant economic knockon

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EmeraldRoulette · 16/07/2025 20:19

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:12

You're only aware of that because you think of yourself as a good girl who doesn't access adult content. You're accessing adult content right now. The one upside all of this is that porn judgers are going to realise they're not on some separate moral planet.

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anniegun · 16/07/2025 20:20

Anything that improves the current situation is better than nothing. Complaining it is not perfect is like saying alcohol shouldnt be age restricted just because kids can still get hold of it if they try hard enough

2024onwardsandup · 16/07/2025 20:22

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:18

It's going to have a significant economic knockon

Is money made through the sexual exploitation of women and children a good thing?

2024onwardsandup · 16/07/2025 20:23

If your issue is with the definition of adult content - it is simply a challenge of definition. Entirely surmountable.

if your issue is that sexual exploitation is not really that important. Well….

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:52

2024onwardsandup · 16/07/2025 20:22

Is money made through the sexual exploitation of women and children a good thing?

Do you not understand that adult content is on this website you are using?

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BusWankers · 16/07/2025 21:22

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 20:52

Do you not understand that adult content is on this website you are using?

Again... So what?

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 22:02

BusWankers · 16/07/2025 21:22

Again... So what?

So why are you using it if you think it's dangerous and immoral?

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despairofbadscience · 16/07/2025 22:08

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 22:02

So why are you using it if you think it's dangerous and immoral?

It’s not porn. If I need to show ID to use this forum I’m happy to. I don’t really get the issue.

INeedAnotherName · 16/07/2025 23:40

despairofbadscience · 16/07/2025 22:08

It’s not porn. If I need to show ID to use this forum I’m happy to. I don’t really get the issue.

The problem arises because not everyone has a driving licence or passport. Until we have a government backed National ID for everyone then the poor and disabled will be unfairly discriminated against.

Snorlaxo · 16/07/2025 23:45

How long until we get posts on here asking for a recommendation for a free VPN?

spookehtooth · 16/07/2025 23:56

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 18:17

It will catch naive people only, a bit like inheritance tax.

Unless the next step is to ban VPNs...

Encryption is already under attack, the govt want a backdoor just for them, ignoring the response that this is in fact is impossible and opens the door to compromising everyone's safety. They refuse to understand this, deliberately because they are NOT stupid, its just not in their interest to admit it. Achieve this goal, and there's no need to go after VPNs .. which already have limitations for protecting you because the end points (places you reach via your VPN) can be coerced to release information. Also, there are certain behaviors you need to watch for that can potentially leak your identity. For example, do something illegal and login to your email on the VPN. Opps, your email provider cooperated with the govt and now they got some info to find out more things :-s

What should be remembered here is that it was invented for military/govt use. Internet Explorer used come in 2 flavors due to export controls imposed by the US government. They never wanted it in general use, and its been tolerated due to the benefits of commercial use and the ability to intercept it via coercion of businesses. End to end encryption, historically, has been fiddly enough to overlook it .. until, whoops, somebody improved it and made it popular. Now multiple governments hate it with a passion

simsbustinoutmimi · 17/07/2025 00:21

I watch porn, don’t mind showing my ID if needed

RealOliveTraybake · 17/07/2025 00:23

Not unreasonable at all. Someone mentioned Reddit. They're using Persona for their age verification, a US based service that doesn't store your photo, but will store and sell your personal information (including a biometric face scan) for up to 3 years.

spookehtooth · 17/07/2025 00:31

RealOliveTraybake · 17/07/2025 00:23

Not unreasonable at all. Someone mentioned Reddit. They're using Persona for their age verification, a US based service that doesn't store your photo, but will store and sell your personal information (including a biometric face scan) for up to 3 years.

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Exactly what data a single entity stores is not the only concern. There is also cross-referencing with other data sources. Leaks not required, when the government and legal system is involved.

There is also the fact that, once a principle or process is established, the uses can be expanded. Social media is an option, given how often it comes up as a source of anxiety for various reasons. Age verification is also adjacent to proving identity, generally, offline as well as online

orwellwasright2025 · 17/07/2025 00:33

Fragmentedbrain · 16/07/2025 18:11

Kids are as good as anyone at VPNs. It's just going to open adults up to blackmail and state control.

Also if you don't want your kids looking at adult material maybe don't let them have a smartphone until they're 16.

It's not about kids at all because if it was they would just ban porn. They've literally never even tried to do so. It's about knowing every single thing you look at and do online.

Just use a VPN and ignore them.

TooBigForMyBoots · 17/07/2025 00:54

orwellwasright2025 · 17/07/2025 00:33

It's not about kids at all because if it was they would just ban porn. They've literally never even tried to do so. It's about knowing every single thing you look at and do online.

Just use a VPN and ignore them.

Huh?

Porn was banned for many years. Then, where it could be sold, you could only buy it if you were over 21yo.

WTF are you and @Fragmentedbrain wanging on about?

You don't want to verify your ID to watch porn on the internet? Don't watch porn on the internet.

It's that simple.🤷‍♀️

TooBigForMyBoots · 17/07/2025 01:21

Age verification is also adjacent to proving identity, generally, offline as well as online.

Both of which I have to do if I want a bottle of wine in my on-line shop.🤷‍♀️ I also have to give age verification to sign up to Netflix, Disney etc. And that's before we get to all the other online consent we give.

If you want to consume internet porn, verify your age. I don't understand why it's a big deal.🤷‍♀️

orwellwasright2025 · 17/07/2025 01:55

TooBigForMyBoots · 17/07/2025 00:54

Huh?

Porn was banned for many years. Then, where it could be sold, you could only buy it if you were over 21yo.

WTF are you and @Fragmentedbrain wanging on about?

You don't want to verify your ID to watch porn on the internet? Don't watch porn on the internet.

It's that simple.🤷‍♀️

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You appear to be responding to something I didn't say. Try not to do that.

Internet porn is the ONLY PLACE YOU SHOULD HAVE TO GIVE ANY SORT OF AGE VERIFICATION. For anything else you and all the other bUt WhAt Is tHe PrObLeM with big brother knowing every single fucking thing you do forever I don't understaaaannnnddd....can stop pretending not to get it now.