To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment

[naturalcrackle111]

New bathroom needed
dh needs a car

I just have a nagging worry I'll lose my job, not be able to get another one, and fall into massive debt/poverty. I have OCD, ADHD, anxiety and a tendency to catastrophise though (which in itself is pretty hard to live with, like a hornet's nest living inside my head).

Champagne problems but…
major problem is a friend moving in bc dp and I can’t afford rent. Now shes moved in she is picky, pinning her mh on me (I have too many books on my bookshelf and it’s upsetting her (no I’m serious))
minor things but I just graduated UG and I’m now doing a PG, I’m worried I won’t get onto PhD program once I’m done with PG
worried about DPs career. He’ll get it sorted, he’s got a brilliant mind but it’s early days and stuff needs to be arranged
worried we might need to do long distance if I get a PhD far away :(

Ask her to move out, you need to keep your sanity for your education.
Rentals are like gold dust, you'll find another tenant who isn't going to ruin your life.
10 years from now, you'll be sorry that you let her stay.

I am struggling emotionally. I feel like my entire personality is slowly changing into something (or someone) I don't recognize. I struggle with routine and I struggle to stay focused. I have already let go of most of the struggle and there are many moments where I let the chips fall where they may.

I am worried it will get me into to trouble in the long run though, especially at work. I feel I am less reliable than I used to be. I also feel largely detached from the world at the moment. Some of it is deliberate. I can't stand watching the news at the moment and part of me just feels flighty, as though I am not really here.

Somehow I still get things done, but I often don't know how. On the one hand it is peaceful, but on the other it is scary and I feel out of control.

If ever a thread was the definition of "walk a mile in someone else's shoes...."
Sending love and strength to everyone x

After two surgeries earlier in the year I am struggling to keep working FT - 65 next birthday. Am having to fight for even minor adjustments to help me keep working. Long to retire but can't afford to do that, as still have a mortgage to pay off after an unwanted divorce.

I have bpd, anxiety disorder, depressive disoreder, a skizophrenic and bpd child, im a single mum of 3, feeling detatched and exhausted and totally bored of everything, will keep plodding on little donkey, lost my job because of my bpd, i find it difficult to hold down work, and keep the house and look after everything i feel like im always failing. Im legally signed off from work due to my brain but i cant afford not to work because benefits are not enough and also i want to contribute to society, need some help with companies that are good with this sort of thing

My Mum has lung cancer- and my brother is having a nervous breakdown because of it. I'm just bracing myself because it is going to be bumpy.

I'm so very, very sorry for your loss of your babies. Are you getting any help like therapy to talk through your grief, or help from a baby loss charity?

That's unbelievably hard, what you are suffering. My heart goes out to you.

Hey no he hasn't tried that. He's only 3 so methotrexate is the first big thing we're trying. It's definitely improving but I'll keep a note of Dupilimab. Thankyou

First my housekeeper got sick, then the nanny resigned unexpectedly, then our driver crashed our Porsche whilst out running my errands. I’m kidding, it’s the school holidays and I don’t have staff is my biggest problem.

Sending you love. I hope he's OK and makes a good recovery.

Hi x What age are you? I had this and it was menopause-related x

Granddaughter about to be discharged from hospital next week with ng tube and oxygen ventilation at night. She is six next month.

Bouts of tachycardia.
can’t hear very well.

Horrible court case with a person to reclaim money I sent to them under duress (judgement in my favour) Sudden unexpected death of my grandmother who raised me, car accident where other party admitted 100% liability then decide to lie when the cost of repairs were sent, complete hair loss due to alopecia and that’s just in the last 9 months.

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Are you peri menopausal. It makes you feel like you're living outside yourself.
It could be a vitamin deficiency.
I take a pro-biotic it has helped.

Big hugs to everybody. 💐

I am already taking vitamins and it helps, but I don't feel quite like myself. I have been tested en the doctor said it's not peri.

Same as my dd :( yes we have that! how long was he on it for? I don’t want her to be on it on long term but as soon as she’s off it/it gets hot outside/she is slightly ill, she becomes constipated again. So so hard :(

Wow, if those are your problems, I hope you realize you're very, very lucky.

With so many people facing dire medical problems, being without the money for the medical problems, coping with the death of a loved one, facing eviction, facing deportation, facing a disintegrating government, worried about the threat of war, struggling to afford groceries, unable to find a decent job ... yes, you're lucky.

Partner had a surprise personality transplant after our baby was born

I’d really recommend a book called ‘at last a life’ by Paul David (can buy on Amazon). Genuinely the only information you’ll need to recover from your anxiety. Wishing you well!

My mindset (and a DH who can’t share the load). I have a blessed life with a few challenges but I struggle to stay positive. Sorry to those struggling with serious illness and issues that can’t be solved.

Whether new job will authorise holiday for January for my big wedding anniversary. (We will be going anyway)