To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment

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New bathroom needed
dh needs a car

I am on long term sick leave and housebound 95% of the time.

A parent has terminal cancer.

Whether to go nc with db

I have a very stressful full time job, commute, have to travel quite a bit, a toddler, and am pregnant.

I have approximately zero down time, hobbies or interests, or opportunities to exercise. Oh and the toddler is in the stopping their nap phase so goes to sleep about the same time as me.

Its a lot.

My dog has a tummy bug and has literally shat his way through the house.

Garage told us, not point in repairing the car not eccomically viable and if it was theirs, they would get rid of it.

4 years left on the loan

that must be hard, I hope you’re health improves soon.

So sorry to hear this

Stage 4 cancer, advanced osteoarthritis, severe degenerative disc disease, worry about my cat’s health, worry about disability benefits, worry about the world and all the horrible people running it into the ground and ruining humanity.

Apart from that I’m fine.

My anxious and lonely DC.

SEN daughter not coping at mainstream but doesn't meet threshold for special needs.

How stressful 😣

First world problems really, but my job is exhausting and is affecting my health and I cannot see how I can sustain it for much longer.

Trying to work up the energy to plan a sensible exit and find something that won’t be too much of a pay cut fr fewer hours/stress, but it’s not going to be easy.

Hating my job, trying to figure out a better and healthier way to live for whatever remaining working years I have which doesn't crucify my mental health. As a PP said, a relatively first world problem but stressful and unpleasant for now.

Parent died, chronically ill child getting more poorly after long hosiptalisation, care at home plan means we’ve had to give up work and are being pushed into poverty. Relationship under pressure.

Heartbreaking to hear what some people are currently facing.

We're in the middle of the conveyancing process which is stressful.

However the main thing is the continuous fight with the LEA to get DS moved to a specialist unit as he struggles in mainstream even with a full time 121.

My autistic 25 year old son has just been diagnosed as type 1 diabetic , currently in hospital in dka , an unpredictable difficult to manage chronic condition is unfortunately going to make life a whole lot harder for someone who already struggles with routine change

My grandad is terminally ill.

DH's poor health and fighting for disability payments. Managing on one income. Not being able to afford to retire.

Marriage of 30 years breaking up. Can barely function. DD with an invisible disability which flares up ever so often, like now. Lovely mum getting old and frail

Really thought I would be reaping some rewards by now.

My much loved brother, age 67, is an alcoholic with liver disease. He just came home after 11 days on a trauma ward with 6 broken ribs and related respiratory problems. He is home, obviously without the regional anaesthesia and intravenous opioids that helped so much. He is now drinking terrible amounts alongside the very strong pain relief he came home with. Its breaking my heart.

Dh became quaraplegic 4 years ago, can't move, can't eat without help, bowel care every morning, carers in our house 13 hours a day. Two kids, 9 and 15. I am exhausted

Was going to type that my biggest worry right now is the extension we are building. And taking four kids abroad soon and the stress of it all. Now I realise how blessed I am and I really don't have any worries.

Grieving my twin boys. Lost them 20 months ago at birth. I've since had their little sister but trying to navigate this with grief too.

I am exactly in the same boat