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Kids schedule

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Catloverlady · 15/07/2025 23:45

My OH works full time and I work part time from home.
Our kids go to a camp I booked it a while ago.
we both dropped then yesterday. So OH knew.
This morning I overslept the alarm didn’t go off.
Woke up and had a manic rush to make packed lunch, get kids ready - brush teeth, apply sun cream etc and drive to camp on time.
OH had left the house didn’t wake me or my son. Younger son was up. OH said he didn’t think we had plans.
Water bottles were in the fridge, I have a board of weekly activities on the kitchen counter, said club 930. Mon to wed.
AIBU - I am hurt that OH didn’t wake us and just left should he not at least wake us or attempt to help a little??
I made it on time today despite the lateness but he should know what the kids are doing surely ??
He made breakfast but that’s all.
thoughts??

OP posts:
Mandylovescandy · 15/07/2025 23:58

Mine is like this - no idea what the plan is despite multiple calendars that he insists on. Highly frustrating but I don't think it is actually deliberate and he even forgets his own stuff so I try to manage around it and focus on his good points. But I agree, not an unrealistic expectation that he knows what is going on

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