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Parents choosing not to vaccinate their children

443 replies

MidnightPatrol · 13/07/2025 08:39

A child has died in Liverpool as part of an outbreak of measles. 17 are currently hospitalised with it in the city, as part of a wider outbreak.

73% of children in Liverpool are vaccinated against measles - vs an England average of 84%.

A rate of 95% immunisation is required for herd immunity. No child in the UK needs to be getting measles - we can vaccinate against it.

In Liverpool, there is a risk of a widespread measles outbreak due to this low rate of immunisation - it is very infectious, so the risk to the population is significant.

If you are a parent that doesn’t get your child vaccinated, why?

Should the government not be using further incentives to encourage people to take up vaccination - are a third of Liverpudlians really against vaccinating their children?

Should non-vaccinated children be limited from accessing nursery or schools (as in other countries)?

OP posts:
menopausalfart · 13/07/2025 15:01

I had the measles a week after my first birthday. My Mother said I nearly died, I was very fortunate. I would never intentionally put my children through that.

titchy · 13/07/2025 15:05

Alpacahacker · 13/07/2025 14:03

If you google it there are several clinics offering it as a single vaccine 🤷‍♀️

Not mumps.

TheWisePlumDuck · 13/07/2025 15:06

Thank you, this pretty much reflects my personal experience too.

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

TheWisePlumDuck · 13/07/2025 14:10

Is there any data of the ethnicity of the children who aren't vaccinated?

It seems to be people with English as a second language missing their babies vaccination appointments in this area.

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

Moederbuffly · 13/07/2025 15:19

Sorry, not read the full thread... I was born before the vaccines were widely available and had measles and German measles as a child and remember being very ill. I caught mumps in early pregnancy as a young adult, the virus affected the development of my babies brain, years later, I'm providing full on 24/7 care to a profoundly disabled adult, dual sensory impaired, under 3 months developmentally, medically fragile etc... So to those of you deciding not to vaccinate your children, that's your choice,but it may not be now that you see the consequences of your actions.

Lafufufu · 13/07/2025 15:22

😲😲😲
I’m not sure why but these stats really surprise me… I supposed I just always assumed it’s white MC crunchy mums with kids called things like Tiberius and Amelia who don’t bother to vaccinate

every day is a school day…

Robinredd · 13/07/2025 15:43

I have a friend who is an anti vaxxer. It was covid that brought out her fanatical side but she fell out with any family members who even considered the vaccine.

I thought when we'd moved on from covid that things would have improved but she's even worse now so I've totally distanced myself especially since she claimed that the medics that worked during covid were murderers killing their patients with Etizolam during the pandemic to up the number of deaths for the government. That's when I basically cut her off.

She's one of these people who always thinks she's right despite being of fairly substandard intelligence.

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 15:58

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 12:39

I personally would feel more comfortable if they got vaccines at a later age - if most people were getting vaccinated then there would be less risk of them contracting diseases.

You make no sense. If, by your logic, babies cannot cope with a vaccine, how in the hell do you think they’d fare catching an actual disease that vaccines protect against?

Babies have been receiving vaccines for decades with no ill effects but you’re suggesting leaving vaccinations as long as possible and therefore giving them greater opportunity to catch a disease at nursery, school, play centres etc when mixing with others is arguably the most vital for learning? When you’re arguing that their immunity is weaker.

Have you actually heard yourself? Jesus Christ.

StrangledVowels · 13/07/2025 16:02

It’ll be the fault of all those independent free-thinkers who do their own research. You know, the ones who believe any old shit the internet serves up for them.

The human race is rapidly heading down the plug hole.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:03

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

I live in a wealthy part of London which is predominately white British. They have one the lowest vaccination rate in London and UK.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:08

Lafufufu · 13/07/2025 15:22

😲😲😲
I’m not sure why but these stats really surprise me… I supposed I just always assumed it’s white MC crunchy mums with kids called things like Tiberius and Amelia who don’t bother to vaccinate

every day is a school day…

I could be wrong but this study look like it was related to covid and not childhood vaccinations.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:12

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

This isn't surprise as minorities are more distrustful of medical professionals. Many significant medical advancements have been made possible through the contributions, experiences, and exploitation of Black people both as scientists and, historically, as subjects of unethical research.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 15:58

You make no sense. If, by your logic, babies cannot cope with a vaccine, how in the hell do you think they’d fare catching an actual disease that vaccines protect against?

Babies have been receiving vaccines for decades with no ill effects but you’re suggesting leaving vaccinations as long as possible and therefore giving them greater opportunity to catch a disease at nursery, school, play centres etc when mixing with others is arguably the most vital for learning? When you’re arguing that their immunity is weaker.

Have you actually heard yourself? Jesus Christ.

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

Alpacahacker · 13/07/2025 16:17

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

That point of view is based on no evidence at all though. Opinions can be harmful if people spout them loudly enough.

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 16:18

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

Yeah, I totally agree, and equally people are allowed to think some of those opinions are illogical.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:23

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 16:18

Yeah, I totally agree, and equally people are allowed to think some of those opinions are illogical.

Agreed.

whynotmereally · 13/07/2025 16:30

MC846 · 13/07/2025 08:45

It's astounding to me. I grew up in the 70s though when measles was much more common and I had it myself when I was 4, the vaccine hadn't been around long and uptake was poor. I can remember how ill I was. People have forgotten what an awful illness it is because vaccine uptake was so high in the late 80s until recently, it was largely stamped out. Unfortunately, as more children die or suffer from this awful illness you'll finally see uptake start to increase again.

Exactly I had measles, German measles and mumps and was quite poorly each time. Why would anyone put their child (and others) at risk?

RampantIvy · 13/07/2025 17:52

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/07/2025 13:31

Was there any explanation offered for the lower uptake in the city?

Yes, a very detailed one to do with the demographic of the people refusing to take responsibility for their health. Liverpool also has the highest rate of lung cancer and head and neck cancers in the country due to a high rate of smokers.

Annoyeddd · 13/07/2025 18:03

RampantIvy · 13/07/2025 17:52

Yes, a very detailed one to do with the demographic of the people refusing to take responsibility for their health. Liverpool also has the highest rate of lung cancer and head and neck cancers in the country due to a high rate of smokers.

Young mums now will not have seen children with legs in splints because of polio (and those were the lucky ones), encephalitis post measles, rubella damaged babies, diphtheria, whooping cough where a baby can breathe. Also there is less meningitis and TB is reduced.
We forget these diseases were killers

Alltheyellowbirds · 13/07/2025 18:08

Moederbuffly · 13/07/2025 15:19

Sorry, not read the full thread... I was born before the vaccines were widely available and had measles and German measles as a child and remember being very ill. I caught mumps in early pregnancy as a young adult, the virus affected the development of my babies brain, years later, I'm providing full on 24/7 care to a profoundly disabled adult, dual sensory impaired, under 3 months developmentally, medically fragile etc... So to those of you deciding not to vaccinate your children, that's your choice,but it may not be now that you see the consequences of your actions.

Im so sorry this happened to you and your child.

Zellycat · 13/07/2025 18:49

Robinredd · 13/07/2025 15:43

I have a friend who is an anti vaxxer. It was covid that brought out her fanatical side but she fell out with any family members who even considered the vaccine.

I thought when we'd moved on from covid that things would have improved but she's even worse now so I've totally distanced myself especially since she claimed that the medics that worked during covid were murderers killing their patients with Etizolam during the pandemic to up the number of deaths for the government. That's when I basically cut her off.

She's one of these people who always thinks she's right despite being of fairly substandard intelligence.

Like that moron Tom Cruise, man who barely graduated high school claiming to have read all the medical studies and he had understood it better than any MD or PhD researcher - which is why he is anti vac, anti- adhd, depression, anxiety etc are all fake. What a loser.

Zellycat · 13/07/2025 18:53

Do these same people vaccinate/worm their dog when take it to France?

un vaccinated cats and dogs get many disgusting diseases that kill them.

same people w pets & no flea/tick/worm treatments - pets get very sick from parasites, mites, ticks, worms

cardibach · 13/07/2025 19:41

Player62 · 13/07/2025 13:55

Exactly. I mentioned to the nurse that my DS had cried his eyes out at his previous vaccine appointment and it was very difficult to console him. She offered to give the vaccines over separate appointments. If it’s possible to do it for a relatively trivial reason, I’m sure parents can ask if they’re worried about overloading.

So you opted for more appointments and more injections for your child who cried about being injected? Or have I misread?

cardibach · 13/07/2025 19:45

adviceneeded1990 · 13/07/2025 14:15

Is it so hard to understand that very few things are black or white and that in general it’s perfectly acceptable to have a “but” on what you think is ok and should be accessible? I don’t believe a lot of what we were fed about covid, nor do many others, people lost their trust in the mainstream media and in Government spokespeople during that time. Primarily because of things said by those people that have since been proven to be lies. That doesn’t make everyone a rapid anti vaxxer TikTok lunatic tinfoil hat wearing conspiracy theorist, it just means people started to question information.

Plenty of people are pro choice but with a legal limit by the way - the UK law has a “but” of the 24 week cut off apart from in exceptional circumstances. In that same way I am pro vaccinations “but” wouldn’t receive a covid jab.

Which proven lies are you referencing here?
About actual Covid, not driving as an eye test etc.