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When ‘tradition’ becomes a clear display of hatred

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WhereIsMyJumper · 11/07/2025 14:52

Am I being unreasonable to be aghast at the bonfires in NI? Burning the tri-colour as well as an effigy of a migrant boat. How can this be referred to as ‘tradition’??

https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/firefighters-take-two-hours-to-extinguish-controversial-bonfire-topped-with-migrant-boat-and-irish-flag-in-co-tyrone/a1274789953.html

Firefighters take two hours to extinguish controversial bonfire topped with ‘migrant boat’ and Irish flag in Co Tyrone

Firefighters took almost two hours to extinguish a controversial bonfire which was lit in Co Tyrone last night.

https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/firefighters-take-two-hours-to-extinguish-controversial-bonfire-topped-with-migrant-boat-and-irish-flag-in-co-tyrone/a1274789953.html

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DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:16

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/07/2025 14:13

I don't particularly like the burning of Guy Fawkes and don't do it myself but it's different burning the effigy of someone who died hundreds of years ago to effigies of people living amongst us.

It’s no different. Guy Fawkes symbolises Catholicism and if you’re Catholic that’s exactly how you see it. It’s hate

gotmyknickersinatwist · 12/07/2025 14:16

Traybake99 · 12/07/2025 13:21

Nuance is exactly what I am getting at and what is frequently dismissed in the broad brush responses you get on these issues.
I think there is a comfort from people south of border to say 'they aren't Irish like us' about people up north (not just about loyalists) and from northern nationalists about their unionist neighbours. Which is all to willingly accepted by many unionists who want to distinguish themselves from 'themums'.
Equally people in GB like to look over and pat themselves on the back because they are better than those stupid, backward people in NI.

Incidentally I have been to NI away matches and the number of people with Irish passports is much higher than those with British. Strongly held political belief can often be over come with a hint of inconvenience or a financial benefit. (See also the different responses down south to do you wanted a UI vs do you want a UI if you have to pay more tax).

Oh I'm all too aware. A protestant friend (loyalism in his family) told me with great glee about all the RTE aerials that would pop up on the roofs of houses (probably back in the 80s) in protestant areas once they found out you could get so much more football, including live matches and Scottish League - meaning Rangers games.

Re reunification, I think a huge influence would be the state of the NHS at the time of a vote (which reinforced to me that the Torys didn't give a fuck about the 'Union' including NI), the education system and, yes, taxes. The Celtic Tiger has buggered off to pastures new, and the COL in the South is high.
I think the appetite for a United Ireland has waned. I think a vote would go the same way as the Scottish vote for independence. Better the devil you know, and people know the devil here.
However, if people here did vote for reunification, I think there'd be civil war, not just civil unrest. People would die, and I'm not being melodramatic.
We know how much capacity there is here for violence at the drop of a hat.

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/07/2025 14:18

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:00

Speaking generally. They march through the streets with burning crosses and throw Catholic effigies on a bonfire. Usually the Pope for example.

Well that’s bloody awful, too.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:18

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:05

What are they celebrating?

Celebrating NI protests against mass influx of young fighting age men.
Effigy burning has got English people standing with NI.

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:20

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/07/2025 14:18

Well that’s bloody awful, too.

It is. The local council advertise day trips and extra parking. Honestly. You couldn’t make it up it’s disgusting.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 14:20

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:18

Celebrating NI protests against mass influx of young fighting age men.
Effigy burning has got English people standing with NI.

You really have no idea.🙄 They've been having this celebration of hate for 100s of years.

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:20

millymollymoomoo · 12/07/2025 14:09

It’s a protest about the disgusting impact of mass illegal
immigration and the fact no one is listening and worse doing nothing about !

when it’s an effigy you like ( eh Boris Johnson or Katie Hopkins) you think it’s ok/ but it’s just the Same - hatred

left is always ok with opinions as long as it’s theirs only and try shut down everyone else

I would argue that illegal immigration has had a much less obvious or troubling impact on Northern Ireland than the state sponsored settlement of people that came earlier.

Illegal immigrants are usually people fleeing from a desperate situation. What would you do in their shoes? You cannot seriously condone burning an effigy of people risking their lives to give themselves some sort of chance. It makes my stomach churn.

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:23

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:18

Celebrating NI protests against mass influx of young fighting age men.
Effigy burning has got English people standing with NI.

12th July is an anti immigration March now? Oh the irony.

When ‘tradition’ becomes a clear display of hatred
CaptainMyCaptain · 12/07/2025 14:23

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:16

It’s no different. Guy Fawkes symbolises Catholicism and if you’re Catholic that’s exactly how you see it. It’s hate

And that's one reason I don't like it but nobody is going to be incited to actually harm GF because he died years ago. People are being incited to cause harm to asylum seekers in NI and in England and it's a crime in both places.

Crispynoodle · 12/07/2025 14:24

Between me and you these people are not very bright…

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:24

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/07/2025 14:13

I don't particularly like the burning of Guy Fawkes and don't do it myself but it's different burning the effigy of someone who died hundreds of years ago to effigies of people living amongst us.

Is it? Tell that to some Catholics. I don’t think I have met a Catholic who is not a 5/11 hater.
I appreciate that effigy burning might not be your idea of a peaceful protest but many people don’t see it as abhorrent

Maray1967 · 12/07/2025 14:24

Yes, to me it is equivalent to that Grenfell model.

And the whole matter of celebrating the Boyne victory on the 12th is bizarre. It happened on 1 July 1690 so must have been moved 11 days on due to the calendar change in the 18th century when 11 days were missed out in the shift to the European calendar. But we didn’t move 5 November commemoration to the 16th. The whole thing is very strange.

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:25

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:23

12th July is an anti immigration March now? Oh the irony.

You’ve hit the nail on the head there !

Fearfulsaints · 12/07/2025 14:27

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:00

Speaking generally. They march through the streets with burning crosses and throw Catholic effigies on a bonfire. Usually the Pope for example.

It's a specific pope that was in place during the gun powder plot who oversaw the burning of some protestant martyrs in that town around the time of guy fawkes (plus guy fawkes) the crosses are the 17 burning protestant martyrs.

Ive never been to lewes even though its close, as we are catholic and it feels a bit much, but we do go to our village bonfire as it really doesn't feel wrong. It is what happened and the protestants won.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:28

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:23

12th July is an anti immigration March now? Oh the irony.

What? So English people can’t agree with NI because historically they ‘hate’ each other?
They can’t agree with NI because they want to send them back to Scotland and England?

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:28

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/07/2025 14:23

And that's one reason I don't like it but nobody is going to be incited to actually harm GF because he died years ago. People are being incited to cause harm to asylum seekers in NI and in England and it's a crime in both places.

They throw effigies of the Pope too. It symbolises and encourages hate. Whatever it is.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/07/2025 14:29

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:18

Celebrating NI protests against mass influx of young fighting age men.
Effigy burning has got English people standing with NI.

No it hasn't, just a few prats.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:29

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 14:20

You really have no idea.🙄 They've been having this celebration of hate for 100s of years.

Okay, why don’t you explain why I have no idea?

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:31

Fearfulsaints · 12/07/2025 14:27

It's a specific pope that was in place during the gun powder plot who oversaw the burning of some protestant martyrs in that town around the time of guy fawkes (plus guy fawkes) the crosses are the 17 burning protestant martyrs.

Ive never been to lewes even though its close, as we are catholic and it feels a bit much, but we do go to our village bonfire as it really doesn't feel wrong. It is what happened and the protestants won.

I’m aware of the history of hundreds of years ago. Catholic’s and Protestants were all killed for their religions. Time to stop the hate. Lewes council are a disgrace to allow it

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:31

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/07/2025 14:29

No it hasn't, just a few prats.

Ah so you are calling people prats. Why do you think they are prats?

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:32

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:28

What? So English people can’t agree with NI because historically they ‘hate’ each other?
They can’t agree with NI because they want to send them back to Scotland and England?

I can't make head nor tail of your posts. Nothing above makes sense in relation to this thread or the broader politics of Northern Ireland.

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/07/2025 14:32

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 14:20

It is. The local council advertise day trips and extra parking. Honestly. You couldn’t make it up it’s disgusting.

I’m an atheist, don’t really understand religion at all but I thought God was supposed to be about peace and love.

That’s shocking.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/07/2025 14:33

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:31

Ah so you are calling people prats. Why do you think they are prats?

Because they are sowing hatred and division following race riots.

Traybake99 · 12/07/2025 14:34

gotmyknickersinatwist · 12/07/2025 14:16

Oh I'm all too aware. A protestant friend (loyalism in his family) told me with great glee about all the RTE aerials that would pop up on the roofs of houses (probably back in the 80s) in protestant areas once they found out you could get so much more football, including live matches and Scottish League - meaning Rangers games.

Re reunification, I think a huge influence would be the state of the NHS at the time of a vote (which reinforced to me that the Torys didn't give a fuck about the 'Union' including NI), the education system and, yes, taxes. The Celtic Tiger has buggered off to pastures new, and the COL in the South is high.
I think the appetite for a United Ireland has waned. I think a vote would go the same way as the Scottish vote for independence. Better the devil you know, and people know the devil here.
However, if people here did vote for reunification, I think there'd be civil war, not just civil unrest. People would die, and I'm not being melodramatic.
We know how much capacity there is here for violence at the drop of a hat.

I'm much more optimistic than you, in the event of vote in support of a UI it would be because those in the middle had been persuaded that they have a better future in a new Ireland. Loyalist paramilitaries will be more concerned about continuing with organised crime and making money and there is no reason to believe that would be tackled any more effectively than it is now. They could also get the hand in for millions more of funding to 'transition' and help their community come to terms with the new constitutional situation.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 14:37

Errahstop · 12/07/2025 14:32

I can't make head nor tail of your posts. Nothing above makes sense in relation to this thread or the broader politics of Northern Ireland.

Because it’s nothing to do with religion or broader political views. That’s the point, you’re bringing religion and historical context into it when it’s really not the point.
NI don’t want the influx of undocumented males, neither do people in England.