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AIBU?

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To do something at work I've already been bollocked for and received a warning for twice?

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GingerGeorgie · 09/07/2025 16:40

I've name changed for this but here goes.

For the last 3 weeks I've been doing something at work that hasn't impacted anyone at all and nobody has noticed...until Monday. On Monday a senior manager discovered what I'd been doing and was angry and asked my supervisor to have a word with me. The supervisor had a word and told me not to do it again. I apologised and said I wouldn't even though I don't really have an option but to continue doing it.

However, the very next day (Tuesday, yesterday) I did it again. I didn't expect anyone to notice, as like I said, I've been doing this thing for 3 weeks and nobody's noticed. Well, obviously someone was keeping an eye on me because I got caught and this time I got a proper telling off and a 'record of discussion' is now going on my file.

Now, my AIBU is, I really don't have much choice but to continue doing the thing, at least for the time being, so would it be really that bad to do it again on my next shift which is the weekend, where there will be skeleton staff who won't know I've already been in trouble?

Just to add, many staff members are doing a very, very, similar thing openly but slightly differently which I feel is unfair. And, to clarify, it's not office based; we are an establishment that is supposed to be all about supporting 'the thing' I'm doing.

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Beesandhoney123 · 16/07/2025 23:42

Flashout · 09/07/2025 16:52

Do you work for Bernard Matthews?

Brilliant:)

How can you have been feeding a baby bird every hour for 3 weeks? Even their parents don't do that. It must be massive by now. What sort of bird is it, a bloody ostrich?

Take the bird to the local wildlife Trust. It's doing it no good shut up in a box inside at a vets. You aren't helping it.

Hulabalu · 16/07/2025 23:54

TheTwinklyLemur · 16/07/2025 23:22

I've just read that it's illegal to keep a magpie as a pet in the UK. So you will have to release your bird. You need to teach it to search for its food by itself and be independent. However, it may come back to you and you will have a friend for life.

Now, if you want to go toe to toe on bird law…

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