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Took a sick day as I'm burnt out

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Henrietta1000 · 08/07/2025 10:03

I work between 44-50 hours a week which I know isn't even as much as some people on here must do, however working 6 days a week is draining.
I have no children so I know it could be worse, but I'm fed up. So I've called in sick today, luckily my last sick day was a year ago and it's not a job where they'll be short staffed.
I'm in the Civil Service as an AO. Whilst I enjoy the role, an AO salary is not great for a person living alone..I've applied for 3 EO roles but have come to understand how unbelievably slow they are. I sent 2 of my applications 3 months ago and still waiting to hear if I have an interview!
So I've currently got a second weekend/evening job. There's no guaranteed overtime in my civil service role, it used to be unlimited now it's capped.

I'm a qualified teacher, but gave up trying to get a job. I'm in languages, was turning up to interviews with 5 others and failing every time, got put on a support plan in one so resigned, or just not getting interviews. So I did supply, which was fine and paid better but I wanted something permanent and stable.

Please do not tell me it's worth it because of the pension, when you have a low salary and are quite young, you're obviously not going to put up with that for 30 years!
I've had a very productive day so far, cleaning my home and tidying, also just catching up on TV.
It's hard sometimes! I went to a hen the other week and all of my schoolfriends are now band 7 or 8 NHS, manager of xyz, and I'm in an entry level admin job despite going to uni.
6 days a week isn't sustainable much longer!
It's not even an AIBU, just a rant. Even EO roles are very competitive, I'm so fed up.

OP posts:
WideawakeinSanDiego · 10/07/2025 13:18

Glowingup · 08/07/2025 16:44

Have you ever had burnout or anxiety or other mental health issues? Because I can assure you you very much can clean your house and doing so is likely to make you feel much better than lying in bed.
The OP mentioned going to a hen do the other week. So not today on her sick day. Again I would ask if you’ve ever suffered any of the issues mentioned above. Because you sound like an idiot.

Everyone suffers from anxiety or stress at some point in their lives. People need to take holiday if they need a rest and get on with it. Being feckless is rewarded in this country which is a disgrace.
Try modelling yourself on those with good morals and a backbone.

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