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Alternative to first dance?

8 replies

dillydally79 · 07/07/2025 19:46

My Finance and I are considering not having a first dance as neither of us can dance and also couldn’t think of anything worse than awkwardly trying to dance in front of 100 people.

However I am a bit worried that after the first dances is when people start getting on the dance floor, so concerned that it will take the party a while to warm up if we don’t have one.

Did anyone have an alternative to a first dance?

OP posts:
MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/07/2025 19:47

Conga.

LaudCodec · 07/07/2025 19:50

A joint human beat box session?

”MC BRIDE AND GROOM IN THE HOUSE, REPRESENTING”

whackamole666 · 07/07/2025 19:51

Line dance or barn dance for everyone

Game of musical chairs

Anthem song ( ie radio gaga) so nobody can resist joining in

AprilShowers25 · 07/07/2025 19:58

Would your parents be up for doing the first dance instead?

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 07/07/2025 19:59

How about,
A short magic act, sawing a lady in half - that sort of thing.
Balloon Animals (always popular).
Sand Dance. (my favorite)
m.youtube.com/watch?v=Sn83cCEpZV0&pp=0gcJCdgAo7VqN5tD

ThejoyofNC · 07/07/2025 20:00

First dances rarely involve much dancing. Choose a novelty song and ask the DJ to cut it down to a minute or so.

fourelementary · 07/07/2025 20:02

Just walk on to the dance floor to a round of applause and invite everyone up for the first dance?

There is an island tradition called a Grand March which is great fun but you need someone who know what’s they’re doing to coordinate it. And that would likely only be an islander!

LaudCodec · 07/07/2025 20:03

Ooo, I saw a YouTube video of two Star Wars fans who had a (really slow and slightly embarrassing) lightsaber duel instead of a first dance.

Do you like Star Wars?

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