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To shut my dog in the garden for the day?

442 replies

Dogingarden · 07/07/2025 10:49

Please read the full thing before you call me cruel.

I will be gone from about 8am until late on the night because I'm travelling for a medical procedure that I can't put off any longer. There is no way to make the time shorter due to where I live in relation to the hospital and I need the treatment asap.

I had a dog sitter booked but she had an accident and is currently on crutches and unable to drive. The others in my area are booked or just far too expensive. I have family but only my brother is able to drive and works 12hr shifts so he's only able to visit after 8pm. The house is rural detached with no close neighbours.

He can't go to kennels because I accidentally missed his vaccine boosters during the move and the local ones won't take him without them being up to date.

Dog is a large terrier. I have a large, safe garden with plenty of shady spots regardless of the time of day. I would leave multiple beds for him, including a dog house that was already in the garden when I moved in. There is also an automatic water bucket fitted to the house (previous owner) which he uses happily when we're in the garden. I will leave dry food out.

He absolutely will not toilet in the house, even with puppy pads, so he'd potentially be going 12+ hours without a wee which makes me very uncomfortable because he's had kidney issues in the past.

Please don't be awful - I'm terrified of what the biopsy will show and I'm doing my best.

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Gloriia · 07/07/2025 12:53

Pressthespacebar · 07/07/2025 12:46

For gods sake it’s a dog! It’s one day! Some dogs live outside all the time! Just leave him he will be fine as long as your garden is secure.

This dog doesn't live outdoors though?

Some of the replies on this thread Confused.

Digdongdoo · 07/07/2025 12:54

I imagine that would be fine, it's not particularly hot or wet at the moment (will be in a couple of days though). It's an animal, it will cope with a day outside. But are you 100% you will be home in time? I'd be wary of being stuck in hospital longer than planned. Use the more expensive sitter ideally.

Gloriia · 07/07/2025 12:56

Also, medical procedures are often delayed or unexpected complications where an overnight stay may be required, what then just hope it isn't distressed and scared left outside overnight as well as all day?

blackheartsgirl · 07/07/2025 12:58

I’d go for the expensive dog sitter myself personally
but if you absolutely can’t afford this then as a last resort then yes garden it is. Is there any way you can leave the back door open and make it so no one can get access to other parts of the house.
my dog sleeps in our little room off the kitchen (which also has the back door)and I have bolts for the kitchen door. That way my dog gets access to inside and her bed. I’ve done this once or twice in dire circumstances.

Coffeeishot · 07/07/2025 13:00

ExtraOnions · 07/07/2025 12:15

We had dogs in the 80s, prior to “Fur Babies” and everyone having “anxious” dogs. It was perfectly normal for dogs to be outside all day .. as long as they have shelter, food & water, I fail to see what the problem is.

They are outdoor animals .. the hair is a bit of a giveaway.

We also never took our dogs on shipping trips, to friends houses, to the pub, or cafe - and we especially didn’t kick off when places were pet-free

I also had a dog in the 80s well a family dog, left to its own devices in the house barking ALL day, it ended up nippy and nervous hated being left the list goes on.

I have had numerous dogs as an adult non of them "fur babies" but dogs that i need to be responsible for and take care of their well being and make sure they don't bother people/children/cats/other dogs that is dog ownership

the standard of dog care where i grew in the 80s was substandard.imo

Rainbowqueeen · 07/07/2025 13:00

I think it’s ok as long as your dog is used to spending lots of time in the garden and you leave some treats like a licky mat and a pigs ear. I would also have a dish with a block of ice in it that can melt to be cold water later in the day. Would having a radio on be useful? I know some dog owners who do this when they go out.

Poodlelove · 07/07/2025 13:02

Where are you ? My daughter in law is a dog sitter and she travels to clients homes

aGirlLikeJesamine · 07/07/2025 13:02

Pressthespacebar · 07/07/2025 12:46

For gods sake it’s a dog! It’s one day! Some dogs live outside all the time! Just leave him he will be fine as long as your garden is secure.

but not this dog!

RaininSummer · 07/07/2025 13:04

I think it's unreasonable if it's not something dog is used to as he will be so distressed. You need to book the expensive care.

Tedsshed · 07/07/2025 13:05

SENNeeds2 · 07/07/2025 12:37

Can you just put in a dog flap on a back door - one which opens with his chip in his neck? That way he can come and go as he pleases. He might be barking all day in the backyard. What if you have complications and need to stay overnight?

IME about 50% of dogs will dislike this and refuse to use it. I had one installed. One dog was fine, the other hated the collar and the little beep and wouldn't use it. And they can take a few weeks of encouragement before they learn to use it confidently — and OP doesn't seem. to have the time available.

Poodlelove · 07/07/2025 13:07

I would be worried that he would be unwell , heatstroke / worried and stressed because you wouldn't normally do this.
You may have to stay in longer and he would be left at night / no food etc

Eyesopenwideawake · 07/07/2025 13:08

Just in case the OP is still reading - you need to think about the impact on your own peace of mind; you are going to be stressed by the procedure without adding worry about your dog. Get someone in - as others have said maybe a local person who would also enjoy sitting in your garden for the day.

wineosaurusrex · 07/07/2025 13:09

I live abroad and people literally take their dogs to the restaurant/shop where they work, chuck a bowl of water and dry food outside and the dogs all wander the street or hang out outside until hometime, literally all day, in weather far hotter than it gets in the UK. And all the dogs are fine - they're animals! Not people! The UK is a bit crazy about dogs. We have basically given them human needs and emotions and complexity. It's unnecessary.

BennyBee · 07/07/2025 13:10

It is a dog not a child, and will be absolutely fine, please don't worry. It sounds like you have enough to worry about. I love my dog and pamper him but he was rescued as a street dog in Romania and he survived that just fine.

One day in a nice enclosed suburban garden with food, water, shade and dog beds? He is set up!

Do NOT leave your back door open as someone suggested - if anything is stolen, insurance will not pay out.

ScratCat · 07/07/2025 13:11

I couldn’t do this because my dogs would bark and also I’d worry they’d be distressd.

I’d honestly cancel the hospital appointment rather than do this.

Pennyforyourthoughtsplease · 07/07/2025 13:12

I'm pretty sure this is what all dog owners used to do because it's a dog? As long as it's not barking amd disturbing the neighbours and had lots of space and s kennel.fot shelter what's the issue

Gloriia · 07/07/2025 13:12

wineosaurusrex · 07/07/2025 13:09

I live abroad and people literally take their dogs to the restaurant/shop where they work, chuck a bowl of water and dry food outside and the dogs all wander the street or hang out outside until hometime, literally all day, in weather far hotter than it gets in the UK. And all the dogs are fine - they're animals! Not people! The UK is a bit crazy about dogs. We have basically given them human needs and emotions and complexity. It's unnecessary.

Yes and that's fine if it's the pets norm but if they're usually inside with a person and then get chucked outdoors all day and evening by itself it will be distressed.

Vets do vaccinations on the day, kennels won't be booked up as it isn't school hols so the op needs to that or book the more expensive sitter.

Animal welfare is important.

Orange202 · 07/07/2025 13:15

My dog would be better off inside too - to be honest, I'd be a bit worried about foxes coming for his food if he was out. There is always a slight chance that you have to stay in after a day procedure, so that would be another reason to keep him indoors, with lots of water and food.

If you bring him for a quick walk before you leave, he'll only be 12 hours without potentially having a wee.

My dog can easily manage that, as he hates going out in the rain, so if it's a rainy morning I wait to see if it will clear, then bring him out with a golf umbrella.

You could put some paper down by the door and in the bathroom in case of accidents - my dog is elderly and sometimes has a wee in the night without waking me up, and those are his spots.

Hope it all goes well, your dog will be fine!

TheBlueUser · 07/07/2025 13:15

My dog would be okay with this, she doesn't suffer separation anxiety and while she might bark a bit I don't think she would be overly distressed.

She would likely sleep 90% of the time.

Sometimes needs must OP, and it's not like you're leaving for a week.

The possibilities of delays is a real one though, so I would try and think of a back up plan for this.

2024onwardsandup · 07/07/2025 13:16

You have an option - you need to pay for it

RB68 · 07/07/2025 13:17

I think if he has shelter its fine but maybe pay for a dogwalker in the afternoon/early evening that then puts him in the house which should be fine say from 6.30pm

CinnamonBuns67 · 07/07/2025 13:18

Whilst it's not ideal, in the circumstances yanbu dog will be fine for the day, assuming it's not too hot outside, he has shade, food, water in a secure garden. But I do think you should try asking a neighbour or someone to look in on him/let him out before taking the risk though but ultimately if you've got no choice you've got no choice. Please get him caught up with his vaccines asap.

theleafandnotthetree · 07/07/2025 13:18

Minfilia · 07/07/2025 12:22

Does your reading comprehension need some work?…

I was responding to the person who said she'd never do what the OP is proposing because she saw a woman at the vets whose dog had died after swallowing a stone.

BristolHelp · 07/07/2025 13:19

No way.

Options:

Get the vaccine and put him in a kennel for the day/overnight

Sign up to Pawshake and find someone to drop in on him / feed / play.

Get a dog walker to take him out twice.

Pay for a sitter

Look for a sitter near the hospital who will watch him in their own home

theleafandnotthetree · 07/07/2025 13:19

HashtagShitShop · 07/07/2025 12:29

Sorry no, this is not OK, not in the current weather at the moment with no one to keep an eye on him. My mixed breed black dog was a sun worshipper and would not have the sense to sit in the shade if not having an eye kept on him. Also gardens are suntrap a and it doesn't take long for my thermometer in the back garden to read 40 degrees even if the rest of the world feels more reasonable.

Personally you get the dog sitter there via taxi or a lift or you book an expensive sitter or ask around friends and family.

Dogs don't ask to come to our homes and are dependant on us to care for them to the best of our ability. You wouldn't ask if it was OK to leave a 5 year old kid alone on the garden all day

Except this is a dog