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Thread 2. To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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AWanderingFool · 06/07/2025 21:10

Thread Two for The Salt Path and Raynor Winn/Sally Walker/Sally Winn discussions.

Thread One is here: www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5368194-to-feel-disappointed-after-reading-this-in-the-observer-about-the-author-and-her-husband-from-the-salt-path-book-and-film?

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EdithBond · 07/07/2025 22:57

May shine a fresh light on Fiona Harvey’s defamation case against Netflix, for what she claims is a depiction of her in Baby Reindeer, also pitched as a ‘true story’.

It was reported Richard Gadd argued the story was ‘emotionally true’ but fictionalised.

It appears Sally Walker may be starting to make a similar argument.

Wetoldyousaurus · 07/07/2025 22:57

AveriltheAvidReader · 07/07/2025 22:17

Without getting too postmodern about it, all writing, whether billed as ‘fiction’ or ‘non-fiction’ is a little bit true and a little bit untrue. Which bits are which is largely up to you, the reader, and what you want, or need to believe to make you read the text in the first place.

@Wetoldyousaurus Sorry but that's simply not true.

I think you said you'd not read the book? I have a copy right in front of me. The fly cover inside says that the author has assured the publisher that ,apart from some name changes to protect privacy of people they met on the walk, all the events are true.

What you have said here is not the case. It's nothing to do with post-modernism.

It’s a memoir, and as such, entirely subjective. Anyone who reads memoir should know this. Memory is flawed, interpretation of events differ depending on who is telling the story, the chronology of events are mixed up or deliberately changed to help the narrative flow etc etc. That’s what is meant by ‘it’s a little bit true and a little bit not true’. Read memoir for your purposes, to help you in your life, or to be entertained or whatever your reasons, but don’t let your experience of a text be marred by whether it actually happened or not.

Unless it’s an appliance manual for a pressure cooker or a technical report that you are using to build a bridge. The purpose of your reading is what matters most. Therefore, people with brain illnesses who used this memoir as a reason to give up their meds and start walking with heavy backpacks in the hope of a cure should be rightfully upset that they took ‘Raynor’ at her word. But they probably also shouldn’t have made such a decision based on one woman’s subjective account. The same goes for people who only enjoyed this book because they believed the author to be a perfect victim of a financial scam with no hand in losing her home.

That’s what is investigated in literary (and yes, the dreaded postmodern) theory. The relationships between writer, narrator, editor, language, genre, purpose, reader and how these, together, produce ‘fact’ and ‘fiction’.

Bruisername · 07/07/2025 23:02

But why they lost the farm isn’t subjective

whether he has CBD or not is not subjective

Aspanielstolemysanity · 07/07/2025 23:02

AveriltheAvidReader · 07/07/2025 22:18

It's still unprofessional and the fact he owns a company designing boats makes it worse. He could have spoken to the press and made a bigger impact.

He's well known in the industry and well liked. (A friend of a friend, I was shocked to make the connection earlier).

I don't think it will do him any harm professionally
Having shitty duplicitous relatives doesnt affect your ability to design boats.

Aspanielstolemysanity · 07/07/2025 23:03

Wetoldyousaurus · 07/07/2025 22:57

It’s a memoir, and as such, entirely subjective. Anyone who reads memoir should know this. Memory is flawed, interpretation of events differ depending on who is telling the story, the chronology of events are mixed up or deliberately changed to help the narrative flow etc etc. That’s what is meant by ‘it’s a little bit true and a little bit not true’. Read memoir for your purposes, to help you in your life, or to be entertained or whatever your reasons, but don’t let your experience of a text be marred by whether it actually happened or not.

Unless it’s an appliance manual for a pressure cooker or a technical report that you are using to build a bridge. The purpose of your reading is what matters most. Therefore, people with brain illnesses who used this memoir as a reason to give up their meds and start walking with heavy backpacks in the hope of a cure should be rightfully upset that they took ‘Raynor’ at her word. But they probably also shouldn’t have made such a decision based on one woman’s subjective account. The same goes for people who only enjoyed this book because they believed the author to be a perfect victim of a financial scam with no hand in losing her home.

That’s what is investigated in literary (and yes, the dreaded postmodern) theory. The relationships between writer, narrator, editor, language, genre, purpose, reader and how these, together, produce ‘fact’ and ‘fiction’.

Theres a gigantic moral difference between subjectivity and duplicity

EdithBond · 07/07/2025 23:04

Aspanielstolemysanity · 07/07/2025 23:03

Theres a gigantic moral difference between subjectivity and duplicity

The Observer piece says this: Our reporting has found sins of omission and commission in The Salt Path. Leaving stuff out is run-of-the-mill for a memoir, but the sin of commission – inventing important passages of the book – is not.

Merrymouse · 07/07/2025 23:08

Wetoldyousaurus · 07/07/2025 22:57

It’s a memoir, and as such, entirely subjective. Anyone who reads memoir should know this. Memory is flawed, interpretation of events differ depending on who is telling the story, the chronology of events are mixed up or deliberately changed to help the narrative flow etc etc. That’s what is meant by ‘it’s a little bit true and a little bit not true’. Read memoir for your purposes, to help you in your life, or to be entertained or whatever your reasons, but don’t let your experience of a text be marred by whether it actually happened or not.

Unless it’s an appliance manual for a pressure cooker or a technical report that you are using to build a bridge. The purpose of your reading is what matters most. Therefore, people with brain illnesses who used this memoir as a reason to give up their meds and start walking with heavy backpacks in the hope of a cure should be rightfully upset that they took ‘Raynor’ at her word. But they probably also shouldn’t have made such a decision based on one woman’s subjective account. The same goes for people who only enjoyed this book because they believed the author to be a perfect victim of a financial scam with no hand in losing her home.

That’s what is investigated in literary (and yes, the dreaded postmodern) theory. The relationships between writer, narrator, editor, language, genre, purpose, reader and how these, together, produce ‘fact’ and ‘fiction’.

That’s what is investigated in literary (and yes, the dreaded postmodern) theory. The relationships between writer, narrator, editor, language, genre, purpose, reader and how these, together, produce ‘fact’ and ‘fiction’.

However I think readers who are not fortunate enough to have investigated literary theory can be forgiven for taking the Penguin blurb at face value.

“an unflinchingly honest, inspiring and life-affirming true story”

“A real-life story about triumph over adversity and the healing power of nature
My Weekly”

https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/309419/the-salt-path-by-winn-raynor/9781405972147

Penguin know that that truth sells.

The Salt Path

Just days after Raynor learns that Moth, her husband of 32 years is terminally ill, the couple lose their home and their livelihood. With nothing left and little time, they make the brave and impulsive decision to walk the 630 miles of the sea-swept So...

https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/309419/the-salt-path-by-winn-raynor/9781405972147

Aspanielstolemysanity · 07/07/2025 23:18

I wonder when the film company and the main stars will release statements

AWanderingFool · 07/07/2025 23:22

Apparently Waterstones' staff have been told to retail it as fiction. I don't know how true that is as it's from a comment on the Observer article on YouTube.

From another comment it gets round any potential issues with continuing to sell it.

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AWanderingFool · 07/07/2025 23:23

Aspanielstolemysanity · 07/07/2025 23:18

I wonder when the film company and the main stars will release statements

I wonder if they're holding off in the hope of a strong repudiation from the Walkers.

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Fandango52 · 07/07/2025 23:23

Localres · 07/07/2025 19:17

It’s not. They are separate publications which were once both owned by the Scott Trust and now aren’t. Yes, the Observer is (for now) still a Sunday print product, and the Guardian doesn’t print on Sundays, but other than that there is now no connection between them.

i worked for one of them for a very long time 😬

Thanks for clarifying @Localres. I thought there was still some connection between them, as past and present Observer articles are available to read on the Guardian website. Are the online Obs and GDN editions still connected maybe, even if the print editions aren’t?

Lunde · 07/07/2025 23:47

This reminds me a bit of the controversy around "A Million Little Pieces" by James Frey about his "true life" experiences of overcoming his demons in a rehabilitation facility, including the physical and emotional challenges of overcoming addiction. The book was a best seller and was featured on the Oprah book club.

But then doubts emerged about the books authenticity. Frey admitted that the same "demons" that had made him turn to alcohol and other drugs had also driven him to fabricate crucial portions of his "memoir", and that the book had first having been submitted as a novel but rejected by many publishers, including Random House itself who published it later as a "true" memoir.

Although in the long term it didn't do him much harm - it was made into a film 15 years after the controversy.

JanineLory · 07/07/2025 23:56

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Lunde · 08/07/2025 00:03

redcord · 07/07/2025 17:44

This is part of the interesting bit of the story The Observer have glossed over, I feel in their eagerness to 'gotcha!'

Also, this loan - and the 'hotshot London lawyer' who convinced the good-hearted and wronged estate agent boss to settle out of court.

Raynor had an asset (the house), so they would have got their payday had the court found in their favour. Sniffs to me of Raynor the bookkeeper knowing something about the creative accountancy of her boss (tax scheme/personal bills through the books etc) and the caution from hotshot lawyer to him was more, 'you go to court, it might backfire on you'.

Then, the harebrained scheme to be bailed out by the distant relative (again, why is Moth not asking, is his relative? He is v passive in the background. But obvs knew everything.)

The Welsh villagers owed money The Observer cough up as further 'evidence' is pretty weak. A cursory glance at 'mean celebs' threads on here will tell you 'that bloke from Emmerdale looked at me funny in the Tesco queue and now I hate him'..... any encounter with a well-known person is going to become apocryphal.

All need further explanation by the journalist.
Sure, investigate big business, Post Office, big pharma companies poisoning water supplies, cash for questions, dodgy reform MPs...but the 'gotcha' culture, the crowing and the inevitable TikTok sleuths who will monetize this sorry saga about people who have no real power and boo hoo I paid £9.99 for the book, I feel robbed...and lo, the story is just eating itself.

Of course there was always more to their story. Of course it was as holey as Moth's jumper, but, in the words of Lucy Honeychurch in A Room with a View, 'what did you all think?'

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I don't think it sounds odd at all - the guy wanted his money back and this was likely the only way to achieve that quickly.

Remember the house was mortgaged and likely 50% owned by Moth so not much available to repay. Also the courts often don't like making people homeless, Moth is sick and the couple have no income ....

I've seen many cases reported in the press - people who stole tens, even hundreds of thousands where the repayment order is something like £5 per week.

Lunde · 08/07/2025 00:07

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/07/2025 18:24

Just watching the BBC news report on this shambles. It's telling that she states she's taking legal advice rather than legal action.

Hope the lawyer takes a big advance given their history of not paying bills!

Fandango52 · 08/07/2025 00:13

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I’m so sorry @JanineLory ❤️❤️

Ellen2shoes · 08/07/2025 00:15

It is (was?) a work of fiction. That is how I read it, although the boundaries were blurry, but that’s allowed in fiction. Had it been left there, would it have been acceptable?

I related to it - in my 50s finding myself in an unforeseen precarious situation, homelessness even, being only a step away. Nature as redemption and escape and provision. It’s a wonderful story.

Sad they couldn’t find the courage to be frank to the general public before allowing themselves to be carried along on the wave of publicity and fame. And money.

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DisappointedReader · 08/07/2025 00:22

It has been presented and sold as non-fiction @Ellen2shoes

DisappointedReader · 08/07/2025 00:26

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Take good care of yourself @JanineLory Flowers

Lunde · 08/07/2025 00:27

Ellen2shoes · 08/07/2025 00:15

It is (was?) a work of fiction. That is how I read it, although the boundaries were blurry, but that’s allowed in fiction. Had it been left there, would it have been acceptable?

I related to it - in my 50s finding myself in an unforeseen precarious situation, homelessness even, being only a step away. Nature as redemption and escape and provision. It’s a wonderful story.

Sad they couldn’t find the courage to be frank to the general public before allowing themselves to be carried along on the wave of publicity and fame. And money.

The problem is that is wasn't sold as a work of fiction but as their true life experience of homelessness and poverty.

... only it turns out is was a work of fiction and she forgot to mention stealing over £60,000 from her employer

DisappointedReader · 08/07/2025 00:27

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Noshadelamp · 08/07/2025 00:36

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Intertwined. How to induce neuroplasticity. : A new approach to rehabilitating dystonias.

I haven't read it for a few years so can't remember how specific it is to dystonia, but it is written from a scientific pov by a doctor known as the world expert on dystonias.

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