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Aibu to think it's weird to friend a number of Facebook friends in less than 3 years. CW added by MNHQ: Rape and DV

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SillyDeer · 05/07/2025 17:45

I have a mum friend of about 6 months and she added me to Facebook. I can't see her friends list due to her settings and due to abusive ex I need to protect my online privacy. I saw a post from three years ago and she was getting wished happy birthday. About 30 likes and a number of comments. I have clicked on the friends and she's no longer friends with most of them, on Facebook, which I find it.

I thought maybe as she has an IVF baby than she wanted to be private as she won't let nursery upload photos, but than she's got a tik Tok and has him on it, plus she's in her knickers with pregnancy pictures, and he's on the toilet (you can see his genitals slightly).

So I was wondering if I'm being unreasonable. I didn't have any concerns until she started to post on every what's app status I made and also every Facebook photo.

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 06/07/2025 21:41

I'm sure it is undoubtedly worse. Echoing others, you need to stay off social media it is triggering a paranoid response from you.

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