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Trans toilets

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SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 10:51

I was under the impression that the supreme court ruling stating that to be considered a woman you had to have been born a biological woman, meaning…
Shop changing rooms had to be female/male same with toilets and all women only spaces.
I I live in a small village and trans people using my workplace’s toilets and changing rooms doesn’t really come up as an issue. Talking to my boss about this and he said he has had no instruction to change our current unisex toilet space or if it arises our changing rooms having to follow the new rule of.. If you’re a trans woman you need to go into the men’s changing rooms.
My question is, who is supposed to be making sure these rules are followed, how long have companies got to change their toilet facilities? Has anybody else who works in a job with fitting rooms noticed that there company doesn’t seem in a rush to change things? Until I brought this up at work my manager wasn’t even aware of the court ruling?

OP posts:
MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/07/2025 12:25

SundayFundayz · 04/07/2025 11:11

And the full guidance should have been ready at the time of the decision rather than leaving businesses in a strange limbo of not knowing who’s responsibility it is to enforce it and what exemptions there may be. The questions the OP asked about timescales etc have not been answered yet so whereas for some places it was easy to make a change (eg define a toilet as unisex) some others need more information.

I’m not a small business owner but if I was I’d be waiting for the full information before making a judgement call on what I’m telling my employees they do / do not need to enforce.

That's not how Supreme Court judgments work. They don't give advance warning to interested parties about what the result is going to be.

The full information is already there for anyone who can be bothered to read the Supreme Court judgment. The EHRC guidance is not going to deviate from it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/07/2025 12:26

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 12:19

She's not going to change her toilets. I appreciate your friend for not wanting to rock the boat, but this just isn't a principle that she's willing to betray. She just isn't prepared to discriminate, and at the moment noone can force her to. Someone has answered the question anyway - it's not going to be enforced apparently so that's grand.
She has put some progress pride flags above the stick figures anyway so hopefully that will enough to scare off anyone who would 'challenge it'. I highly doubt anyone on here would last two minutes in the pub as there are trans and non binary employees who have their identities respected.

I must get on with the gardening so blocking this thread now.

So your friend is just going to ignore the law then.

I hope someone reports her.

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:37

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:03

Yes, but they shouldn't be. It was made quite clear if toilets are labelled as being for women, then only biological women can use them.

Interesting, I've read the judgement but missed this part, where does it say that?

There's a big gap between what the SC judgement actually says and what many, including the EHRC, want it to say.

The SC judgement says that services may discriminate by birth sex without breaking EA2010 if, and only if, the discrimination is justified and proportionate. It gives no clue what that means but everyone and her dog will have a different definition. It's a mess and the EHRC 'guidance' is making it worse.

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 12:39

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:37

Interesting, I've read the judgement but missed this part, where does it say that?

There's a big gap between what the SC judgement actually says and what many, including the EHRC, want it to say.

The SC judgement says that services may discriminate by birth sex without breaking EA2010 if, and only if, the discrimination is justified and proportionate. It gives no clue what that means but everyone and her dog will have a different definition. It's a mess and the EHRC 'guidance' is making it worse.

Not true. It's appropriate by dint of being a single-sex space. I wish people would stop misrepresenting it.

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:40

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 12:39

Not true. It's appropriate by dint of being a single-sex space. I wish people would stop misrepresenting it.

Where in UK law does it say that?

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 12:41

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:40

Where in UK law does it say that?

It's all there in the judgment, which I can't access right now. Honestly, it really isn't complicated I'll post it once I'm back on my laptop if no one does in the meantime.

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 12:42

If people are finding it hard to understand, the video I linked to is helpful.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/07/2025 12:42

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:40

Where in UK law does it say that?

Have you read the judgment?

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 12:43

@FairCat, but basically it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim with that aim being providing single-sex spaces.

Underthinker · 04/07/2025 12:44

@FairCat
It's in the Equality act.
If it's a proportionate means of acheiving a legitimate aim, a service can be provided separately to [biological] men and women.

If it's not, then the service is provided equally to men and women, i.e. on a unisex basis.

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:44

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/07/2025 12:42

Have you read the judgment?

Yes, more than once, have you? I've obviously missed some important detail, please quote the part I've missed.

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:50

Underthinker · 04/07/2025 12:44

@FairCat
It's in the Equality act.
If it's a proportionate means of acheiving a legitimate aim, a service can be provided separately to [biological] men and women.

If it's not, then the service is provided equally to men and women, i.e. on a unisex basis.

And what's the legal definition of a proportionate aim? The courts don't care about the opinion of people on either side of the discussion, it is only concerned with what is written and subsequent case law.

Underthinker · 04/07/2025 12:55

@FairCat
It doesn't matter for the purposes of this debate. The point is the options are a service for everyone or separate services for males and females.
The "proportionate..." test is often wrongly described as being about whether you can allow males into a particular female only service, but it actually applies to having that female only service in the first place.

Waitwhat23 · 04/07/2025 13:06

Several posters seem to be under the impression the single sex exemptions are new law. It's not, here are the relevant pages from the EQA 2010 legislation -

All that has been clarified is that single sex does (and has done since the EQA2010 was enacted) mean biological sex rather than self identified or 'legal' sex, despite what various lobbying groups have been insisting for the last decade -

Single sex exemptions/exceptions -

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/notes/division/3/16/20/7

Sports

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/notes/division/3/14/5

Occupational requirements

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/notes/division/3/16/26/1?view=plain

And service providers can declare all they like that 'people can stay mad about it' or their pals can (hilariously) hide threads about it but it's not going to stop the legal challenges. They've already started.

Naunet · 04/07/2025 13:07

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

She better not be labeling them as men and women's toilets then, or she's breaking the law; you can either have single sex or mixed sex, but you cannot legally have women and SOME men with special lady feelz.

mumda · 04/07/2025 13:12

Whitehorses67 · 04/07/2025 11:00

I read the thread title and pictured a toilet which insists it is a bidet.

Would it pee on it's own seat?

PencilsInSpace · 04/07/2025 13:18

FairCat · 04/07/2025 12:50

And what's the legal definition of a proportionate aim? The courts don't care about the opinion of people on either side of the discussion, it is only concerned with what is written and subsequent case law.

It's not 'proportionate aim' it's proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. The aim must be legitimate and the means of achieving the aim must be proportionate.

This is not some new special test dreamt up by the supreme court. PM/LA runs through equality and human rights law like a stick of rock. Single and separate sex services have been lawful under the EA since 2010 if they meet this test.

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/schedule/3/part/7

Note how each paragraph begins 'A person does not contravene section 29, so far as relating to sex discrimination ...'

Section 29 is the part of the EA that says a service provider must not discriminate against people because of a protected characteristic.

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/29

The exceptions in schedule 3 part 7 say that sex discrimination in the provision of services is lawful in specific circumstances, including meeting the PM/LA test. It's this part of the EA which allows separate men's and women's facilities in the first place. Separate services for men and women are unlawful unless they meet the conditions of these exceptions.

The 2022 FWS Haldane judgment said that women includes tw with a grc but not those without, and vice versa for men, except for parts of the act where it means actual sex.

https://www.scotcourts.gov.uk/media/lgufy1zd/court-of-session-petition-of-for-women-scotland-limited-for-judicial-review-13-december-2022.pdf

The SC judgment overrules that and says that throughout the EA women does not include any tw whether they have a grc or not, and vice versa for men.

https://supremecourt.uk/cases/uksc-2024-0042

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 13:19

If the court ruling hasn’t changed then what was the point of it, and why all the celebration?

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Waitwhat23 · 04/07/2025 13:20

And in terms of the law being applied as it should be, the recent cases of Sandie Peggie and the Darlington nurses challenging being pushed out of their own changing areas or being suspended for avoiding changing their clothes in front of a man will be considerably strengthened by the clarification. The case of the occupational requirement being ignored by the board of the ERCC in order to appoint a man who told rape victims to 'reframe their trauma' can now be robustly challenged without fear of being called a bigot.

To anyone believing the bullshite of Stonewall/Scottish Trans etc who fought for the complete eradication of the single sex exemptions in my last post and also insisted that such exemptions included males who self identified into them, you were sold a lie

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 13:21

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 13:19

If the court ruling hasn’t changed then what was the point of it, and why all the celebration?

It clarified the law, which was being ignored by many organisations. Now, we know that the law is what we always thought it was, and that sex refers to biological sex, not gender identity, in law.

PennyAnnLane · 04/07/2025 13:21

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 12:19

She's not going to change her toilets. I appreciate your friend for not wanting to rock the boat, but this just isn't a principle that she's willing to betray. She just isn't prepared to discriminate, and at the moment noone can force her to. Someone has answered the question anyway - it's not going to be enforced apparently so that's grand.
She has put some progress pride flags above the stick figures anyway so hopefully that will enough to scare off anyone who would 'challenge it'. I highly doubt anyone on here would last two minutes in the pub as there are trans and non binary employees who have their identities respected.

I must get on with the gardening so blocking this thread now.

It can be enforced through the courts with a discrimination claim which will cost her money, time and stress so saying ‘I’m not going to change and no one can make me’ is pretty short sighted.

By the way she is discriminating, she’s discriminating against women. You may think her clientele don’t care, but if this is a pub open to everyone it only takes one person to bring a claim to court.

Ddakji · 04/07/2025 13:23

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:47

There are little stick figures on the doors, as is usual in a pub, (actually it's been a long time since I've seen the words 'male' and 'female' on a pub door - have I ever?) and she's not going to ban anyone from the toilet. It's really as simple as that. There's really not anything that anyone can do about it. Especially given like I said, patrons of her pub would not want her to ban anyone. The only outcome I've seen is natal women being harassed in toilets for not looking womanly enough. (Including me - I'm muscular, tall and bald so have got dirty looks!) A woman was fired in America for looking trans after being confronted by a man about using the bathroom

Can I ask again how anyone intends to actually enforce this? What does it look like practically? Security guards? Chromosome testing at the door? Noone seems to be able to answer that question.

Anyway I'm off to garden. Noone will be able to change her mind, and this ridiculous rhetoric is totally unenforcable. Feel free to stay away from the scary pub where trans people pee in peace and nobody gives a shit.

She could lose her license for breaking the law if this is reported. Seems a stupid risk to take, but obviously it’s up to her if she chooses to risk losing not just custom but her licence.

Waitwhat23 · 04/07/2025 13:33

This is the absolutely damning independent review of the ERCC after an equally damning employment tribunal -

https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/resources/ERCC-Review-Report-FINAL1-.pdf

Rape survivors were harmed by an institution, headed by a culture steeped in an ideology which insisted that a mixed sex service was a single sex service because TWAW, supported by a captured Government who insisted that an incorrect interpretation of the law was the right one.

https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/resources/ERCC-Review-Report-FINAL1-.pdf

5128gap · 04/07/2025 13:34

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

Your friend is entitled to provide only unisex toilets in her pub. If she claims her toilets are single sex but allows people of the opposite sex in, then I imagine she could be sued for any distress caused by someone encountering a person of the opposite sex in what she is presenting as a single sex space. There will be people who would do this who feel sufficiently strongly about the issue, so it will be interesting to see watch and see. She may feel she is discriminating if she refuses trans people use of opposite sex facilities, but she wouldn't be.

BellissimoGecko · 04/07/2025 13:36

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:03

Yes, but they shouldn't be. It was made quite clear if toilets are labelled as being for women, then only biological women can use them.

This.

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