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Guest ruined carpet

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DeedlessIndeed · 02/07/2025 12:55

OK, logically I know that this is a minor problem in the grand scheme of things. I know people are facing real issues in the world, but this has really annoyed me.

We have just had new wool carpet fitted in the whole of the upstairs. Saved up for a while as it was expensive (for us). After 5 years of renovation, we finally have the upstairs finished! I was so so happy.

Had parents stay this weekend and left yesterday. They've seen the house in all stages of building site and they know how excited I am to have the upstairs done. I explained that we are being careful to keep it looking nice. And they know we are a slippers only house apart from the hard floors in the hall etc.

Well, I went into their room to do the bedding this morning and can see that they've rolled their dirty suitcase wheels all along the carpet. A bit annoying, but oh well. It's dried so I can hoover it up hopefully. Then I see they've spilled a coffee or dark tea next to the bed. There is a huge splatter mark all over the carpet in front of the beside table. It's also on the skirting board and wall, but I can touch that up at least.

I'm just feeling a bit gutted. If they had an accident then why not say and I could have got on it and stop it staining. I'm regretting not getting a easily cleanable carpet but the fact they didn't mention it is the worst part IYSWIM?

Would you say anything to your parents? They do mean well, but they just don't "get" having nice things and looking after them.

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MrsSkylerWhite · 23/08/2025 22:21

Rispknee · 02/07/2025 13:22

I don't know. It's annoying in the moment, but a home is to be lived in. If you want it to be pristine never invite anyone over, but what sort of life is that?

In a way, I think your parents are right, if nice thing mean you're going to worry about them, where's the joy in that?

Nonsense. What sort of inconsiderate arse spills tea on the floor/up the walls and doesn’t even attempt to clean it up or at least tell their host at the time so that they can?

LoveBluey · 23/08/2025 22:45

lots of strange responses on here seeming to suggest you should just accept that everything you own will get ruined and you shouldn’t take pride in having nice things. Particularly odd when other threads go the way of people saying they hoover 17 times a day, change their bedding every other day and clean the toilet if someone even so much as looks at it.

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